Day 1 ski homie switched up on me

armchair_skier“My day 1”
>three years ago

hank.skiThis is such a bummer! Have you asked him why he's acting like this to you? Maybe there's like a misunderstanding yall can clear up if he's willing to communicate with you about it. If not, there really isn't anything you can do, and I think that the best thing to do is protect your peace and seek other friends to ride with, maybe talk to the other OG and see what his take is. Good luck!

EvancantspinNot to be judge mental but there’s gotta be something you did. Think when he started acting like this, and what significant events happened or a change in your actions. I’m not justifying his toddler like behavior I’m just saying one doesn’t just wake up and start acting like this.

EvancantspinNot to be judge mental but there’s gotta be something you did. Think when he started acting like this, and what significant events happened or a change in your actions. I’m not justifying his toddler like behavior I’m just saying one doesn’t just wake up and start acting like this.

Coochieman7What resort you go to?

yungSBNah i feel u ik what u mean. Ive been racking my brain over and over and I cant think of ANYTHING, hes always done this sorta shit tho. maybe another homie told him something abt me or sum shit like that? i have no clue and when i try to talk to him abt it its like talking to a wall

SteezyYeeteri usually end friendships with women if they are drunk whores. it's not something they might think is wrong since a lot of people will do it, but ill ghost them for it. maybe you're a drunk whore.

yungSBmy closest homie for the past 3 years, has recently completely ghosted me and idk what to do.
We met through being on the same hockey team a while back and at that time he was a boarder. We skied together a couple times and one day we decided to switch. I tried boarding and he tried my twigs, he was so hooked he bought a pair of skis the next day.
We skied together almost every day after that, i taught him how to carve, to turn, to hit jumps, rails, you name it. I even taught him his first ever 3. We spent countless hours playing shredsauce together and making edits, not to mention all the tramp. Cliff-jumping, hiking, camping, stargazing, EVEN MEETING A.HALL TOGETHER, all that classic homie and nature shit. This season i was very busy with school and we didn't get to ski too much, we still would ski occasionally every couple weeks and be totally chill.
Enter november 2024. One of my other closest friends who I had known for YEARS before i knew original homie, sends me a video of him hanging out with original homie, NO INVITE. ever since they have been occasionally skiing and doing other shit together but I lowkey just ignored it. This all changed a couple weeks ago. OG homie texts me talking about how excited he was for his WHIS trip. I assumed he was talking about his trip his team went on every year, and I was hyped for him. Imagine how pissed I was when this guy facetimes me the next day, posted up on the creekside gondola with MY OTHER HOMIE. I acted all hyped for them and whatever but inside i was utterly VEXED. At this point he was just being a complete douchebag for no reason.
For the past 2 weeks he has completely stopped talking to me. He still reads my texts, but definitely won't reply. On and off he'll shoot snappy unprovoked insults at me for no reason in GCs and that sorta thing but yesterday he took it to a whole nother level. He completely blocked me on all socials, instagram, tiktok, snapchat, EVERYTHING. I saw him at the hill today and asked him what was going on but he would barely even look at me. I was able to hear him mumble "get off my dick" before he skied away doing a gay little shifty.
I have no clue what I should do. He's been such a big part of my social life the past few years and now I just dont know how to feel. hes been spreading fake rumors and shit about me to some of my other friends and that sorta stuff at the hill. Ive lost all motivation to ski and none of my friends like me anymore because of the rumors. no clue what im going to do with
my life and Im failing out of school currently. Don't be surprised if I stop posting. If you're reading this yk who you are.

yungSBUPDATE: Homie has moved past his hater ways and apologized for being an asshole and blocking me. We reconciled with a april pow day at shine and a solid geekbar/yart rotation

JAHBRADORwhat was the reason tho? (I’m invested in this)

yungSBUPDATE: Homie has moved past his hater ways and apologized for being an asshole and blocking me. We reconciled with a april pow day at shine and a solid geekbar/yart rotation

Way*MoNow that there is a happy ending, you deserved it for both using the term geekbar and partaking.

JAHBRADORYeah these dudes definitely kissed on the lips after they talked it out.

Way*MoQuit being a phobe. Nothing wrong if they lip locked. Lots wrong for vaping, especially if it’s a geekbar.

yungSBUPDATE: Homie has moved past his hater ways and apologized for being an asshole and blocking me. We reconciled with a april pow day at shine and a solid geekbar/yart rotation

JAHBRADORYou sound gay as hell

vaping over gaping