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bch.skisNo matter how many times I hangout with people I can’t rid myself of this pit in my stomach. I love my life but so much of the time I feel shitty and lonely. How do I feel these feelings less? How do I found fulfillment in just being
BiffbarfHey boss. Find something productive and try your best to move the needle on it every day. Nomatter how small. Meaningful work towards meaningful goals will build meaningful relationships, sometimes it takes time but it will come together before you know it.
A meaningful goal can be anything. It could be anything from trying a new recipe 1x a week to finding a different job. The only thing that matters is you do it. The rest will follow.
BaltoHow old are you?
Candidly if you're young, buckle up it gets worse before it gets better.
Hard route: keep at it until something clicks, change hobbies and friends and environment until it feels right. I did this into my 30's, fucking sucked.
Easier route: Iv ketamine therapy is actually really helpful with the caviat that you get way worse up front and then probably come out of it far better than before. Expensive, might not be available in your area. Worked wonders for me tbh after like 6 months.
**This post was edited on Mar 9th 2025 at 11:26:38pm
bch.skisNo matter how many times I hangout with people I can’t rid myself of this pit in my stomach. I love my life but so much of the time I feel shitty and lonely. How do I feel these feelings less? How do I found fulfillment in just being
SendyMcSendyfaceBeer+dart cured all ailments
freestyler540Skiing has a dope community. Go sign up to a local contest! Take your mind off the social part and enjoy the activity at hand. You will meet people briefly enough to chose who you wanna talk to. The goal is to beat the social anxiety by being busy with a task to be nervous around people. By the end of the event, you will be so pumped on adrenaline, you will be much more at ease and in your comfort zone
LonelyI made a long post but this is also correct.
Smoking is bad for you and drinking is bad for you and you shouldn’t do it.
BUT
nothing recontextualizes the world and life as much as a 2 am walk with a dart, some music, and some amount of alcohol in the blood does.
bch.skisthank you all for the replies i kinda realized that a lot of the time i get into my own head and tend to focus on the negative rather than positive. This is a condition that comes with just being human. I plan on delving more into my hobbies and just trying to slow down and focus in on things. So often do we live in an instant media world where we dont even have time to process our thoughts, no less our emotions. Im going to start trying to take my time and just live my life
bch.skisI’m still and hs and I’m smart enough to realize that these feelings are feelings of teen angst but I’m also stupid enough ti not be able to surpass them. Thanks for the advice. I really am just trying to change my perspective in terms of how I frame the world because often I see things as too final yk
bch.skisthank you all for the replies i kinda realized that a lot of the time i get into my own head and tend to focus on the negative rather than positive. This is a condition that comes with just being human. I plan on delving more into my hobbies and just trying to slow down and focus in on things. So often do we live in an instant media world where we dont even have time to process our thoughts, no less our emotions. Im going to start trying to take my time and just live my life
partyandBSmf needs therapy lol
in the words of the infinitely wise too $hort, you gotta get in where you fit in. making unauthentic connections will not do you any good. also, identifying what drives a fulfilling life for you and pursuing things that align with that will go a long way.
i’ve been to hundreds of hours of therapy in recent years so holla atcha boy with a dm if you ever need anything
bch.skisNo matter how many times I hangout with people I can’t rid myself of this pit in my stomach. I love my life but so much of the time I feel shitty and lonely. How do I feel these feelings less? How do I found fulfillment in just being
bch.skisNo matter how many times I hangout with people I can’t rid myself of this pit in my stomach. I love my life but so much of the time I feel shitty and lonely. How do I feel these feelings less? How do I found fulfillment in just being