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Roommate relationship falling out

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isthiscorked
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So basically i live with with 2 other roomates. One who I am good homies with, they will be referred to as Bohunkus, and the other, who I used to be super close with, will be referred to as Fanny. Fanny used to hang with Bohunkus and I and our whole friend group all the time until he got this girlfriend. Now, all fanny does it hang with his girlfriend and play videogames. Fanny never hangs out with anyone. Like damn breh. just being in the same room with fanny is awkward sometimes because they always seem on edge. i just want it to feel normal but it doesn't. there is always some sort of unresolved tension that stems from (what I believe) fanny's mindset and their social skills. they don't care about asking me about my day or anything along those lines. that mf really just doesnt gaf. there is nothing that bohunkus or I have does to provoke fannys actions, but it feels like we have. fanny is consistely passive aggressive and confronts us too late when any sort of small, easily resolvable problem has already formed. thoughts on how i should approach this situation. what would you do NS?
Feb 14 2024 5:35PM
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C.R.E.A.M
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Have you three sat down and had a conversation about how each of you are feeling? (in as constructive as a manner as possible)

Also, people change and it is almost impossible to change them back, such is life.
Feb 14 2024 5:38PM
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SmokedGouda
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Sounds like a simp. When hormones rage, some people just prefer sex over hanging out with the homies. Its a sad reality and for some, they lose sight of the balance they could be establishing in their lives. If you know you're doing nothing wrong, then you'll be fine, but Fanny just has raging hormones that you should be happy isn't using those hormones on you or Bohunkus.
Feb 14 2024 5:39PM
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arnie_grape
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sounds like you're butthurt that a chick stole your crush from you. make a new friend twink boi
Feb 14 2024 5:46PM
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PresidentSkroob
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This seems like an issue that could be easily resolved with confrontation and personal accountability.

If there’s anything I’ve learned that hard way in life way too many times, it’s the importance of cutting your losses early. As soon as the bullshit starts, end it. Whether that means asking Fanny to move out or moving out yourself, or having a serious discussion. Life is too short and risky for bullshit.
Feb 14 2024 11:49PM
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isthiscorked
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C.R.E.A.MHave you three sat down and had a conversation about how each of you are feeling? (in as constructive as a manner as possible)

Also, people change and it is almost impossible to change them back, such is life.


weve had small conversations in the past were we seem to resolve our issues but they always return. shi crazy. I guess ill man up and confront him
Feb 15 2024 4:55PM
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Jems
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tell his gf he got scaley balls
Feb 15 2024 5:27PM
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BrownSnow
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this sounds like a situation that could be resolved with some butt peeing
Feb 15 2024 5:42PM
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C.R.E.A.M
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Jemstell his gf he got scaley balls


Sounds like she would know already?
Feb 15 2024 6:23PM
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VTshredder69
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One time I walked into my room and my roomate was jerking off completely naked and instead of trying to cover his junk he through his shirt over the monitor instead of his junk because he was so embarrassed of what he was watching.

Now that is dedication.
Feb 15 2024 8:52PM
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isthiscorked
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VTshredder69One time I walked into my room and my roomate was jerking off completely naked and instead of trying to cover his junk he through his shirt over the monitor instead of his junk because he was so embarrassed of what he was watching.

Now that is dedication.


What was bro watching
Feb 15 2024 9:06PM
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Rock_Inhabitant
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isthiscorkedWhat was bro watching


"That wierd shit"
Feb 15 2024 10:48PM
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PeppermillReno
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VTshredder69One time I walked into my room and my roomate was jerking off completely naked and instead of trying to cover his junk he through his shirt over the monitor instead of his junk because he was so embarrassed of what he was watching.

Now that is dedication.


Yeah I've done the same thing before with multiple roomates.

Isn't that normal roomie behavior like not washing dishes?


I mean when you are doing shit with another human walkins don't happen but solo... IDK.
Feb 15 2024 11:37PM
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WoFIowz
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U sound like a baby back bitch
Feb 16 2024 5:31AM
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Powstagram
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PresidentSkroobThis seems like an issue that could be easily resolved with confrontation and personal accountability.

If there’s anything I’ve learned that hard way in life way too many times, it’s the importance of cutting your losses early. As soon as the bullshit starts, end it. Whether that means asking Fanny to move out or moving out yourself, or having a serious discussion. Life is too short and risky for bullshit.


What fucking awful advice
Feb 16 2024 5:57PM
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PresidentSkroob
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PowstagramWhat fucking awful advice


I’ve done my share of holding on to people for too long, and I’ve lost a lot of time doing it. I’ve also learned that doing it will hurt you rather than sanctify you. The same people you stuck around for will bite you in the end.

I’ve been betrayed by people I’ve loved and stuck my neck out for. I’ve since learned to listen to red flags as soon as I notice them and leave. I have a very low tolerance for other people’s bullshit now.
Feb 16 2024 6:10PM
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armchair_skier
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Either he’s realizing you’re a bunch of dorks because of his gf or she is a sucubus from hell.

Dont over think it and don’t spaz and do anything fruity.
Feb 16 2024 6:18PM
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TRVP_ANGEL
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she bohunkus on my fanny until i resolve my tension

**This post was edited on Feb 16th 2024 at 7:44:58pm
Feb 16 2024 7:43PM
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arnie_grape
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PresidentSkroobI’ve done my share of holding on to people for too long, and I’ve lost a lot of time doing it. I’ve also learned that doing it will hurt you rather than sanctify you. The same people you stuck around for will bite you in the end.

I’ve been betrayed by people I’ve loved and stuck my neck out for. I’ve since learned to listen to red flags as soon as I notice them and leave. I have a very low tolerance for other people’s bullshit now.

you talk a lot
Feb 16 2024 8:56PM
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PresidentSkroob
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arnie_grapeyou talk a lot


A perfect response from your movie character after failing to understand anything I said
Feb 16 2024 9:18PM
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jompcock
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evict him
Feb 17 2024 9:33PM
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