What do yall do to cope with being dumped?

Work out, get a hobby, meet new women. Ski!!!!

dont. let it slowly consume u, become a shell of the man u once were

Pigeon.dont. let it slowly consume u, become a shell of the man u once were

Sounds good brother bird

SessionI concur. Just move the fuck on. Life is too short to be down about someone who didn't want to be with you.

ong like i just need 1 powder day and im fine

Hey @tutipups , it's been a month, how you feeling now?

signtimeHey @tutipups , it's been a month, how you feeling now?

he found peace with the mormons and married 3 women

god this thread is still going? you fools need to get laid.

signtimeHey @tutipups , it's been a month, how you feeling now?

thanks for asking, few suicide attempts early on but left for 2 weeks in alberta and BC and its helped a lot with mental health

tutipupsthanks for asking, few suicide attempts early on but left for 2 weeks in alberta and BC and its helped a lot with mental health

tuti u better not be fooling around about that

tutipupsthanks for asking, few suicide attempts early on but left for 2 weeks in alberta and BC and its helped a lot with mental health

Sorry to hear it's been so rough. Those first couple weeks are definitely the hardest. Glad you're getting out and about tho and doing some healing.

Breakups are tough. When you give yourself so fully to another person, it can feel like losing a part of yourself. Sometimes it feels like losing the most beautiful and loving part of yourself. But that's not the reality, it's a response from the trauma, and it fades with time.

The reality is that you are whole, and you're always growing and changing. Love is infinite, and your capacity to create love for yourself and others is boundless. The piece of you that feels like it's missing is temporary and transitional. With some time, it'll restore. That's what makes us human, our boundless ability to love.

Idk if you're religious, but when I dont feel whole, I cling towards creating love towards God and creating love towards that feeling of freedom when I'm shredding.

You just experienced that, going out and enjoying nature for 2 weeks, creating love for your earth. It's only uphill from here. You can keep on charging your love battery back up, even beyond what you think its capable of holding.

And only real love and joy and acceptance and peace and family and community and respect and patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, thoughtfulness, self control... is gonna fill that. Substances, rebounds, self loathing aren't gonna do anything but make you feel frusterated.

Things are gonna be alright, and it'll all work out.

"How do you spell relief?

I get D-R-U-N-K" - David Allan Coe


In all seriousness though after a while you'll get an energetic streak and realize you are better without em. Sometimes it's quicker than others. All you gotta do is not give up and get busy

GrapeHuntertuti u better not be fooling around about that

im being serious.

signtimeSorry to hear it's been so rough. Those first couple weeks are definitely the hardest. Glad you're getting out and about tho and doing some healing.

Breakups are tough. When you give yourself so fully to another person, it can feel like losing a part of yourself. Sometimes it feels like losing the most beautiful and loving part of yourself. But that's not the reality, it's a response from the trauma, and it fades with time.

The reality is that you are whole, and you're always growing and changing. Love is infinite, and your capacity to create love for yourself and others is boundless. The piece of you that feels like it's missing is temporary and transitional. With some time, it'll restore. That's what makes us human, our boundless ability to love.

Idk if you're religious, but when I dont feel whole, I cling towards creating love towards God and creating love towards that feeling of freedom when I'm shredding.

You just experienced that, going out and enjoying nature for 2 weeks, creating love for your earth. It's only uphill from here. You can keep on charging your love battery back up, even beyond what you think its capable of holding.

And only real love and joy and acceptance and peace and family and community and respect and patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, thoughtfulness, self control... is gonna fill that. Substances, rebounds, self loathing aren't gonna do anything but make you feel frusterated.

Things are gonna be alright, and it'll all work out.

yeah things might be alright but its just so hard to try and create a bond with people when you just know its gonna end with somebody getting hurt.

Idk I kinda just REPRESS REPRESS REPRESS until I have something to fill the void

tutipupsyeah things might be alright but its just so hard to try and create a bond with people when you just know its gonna end with somebody getting hurt.

To quote Robin Williams in Good Will Hunting “I think that's a super philosophy, Will. That way you can go through your entire life without ever having to really know anybody.”



sure, it might end and someone might be bummed about it, but you have some fun along the way. In the end, we’re all just trying to pass time so you might as well enjoy it.

**This post was edited on Sep 3rd 2023 at 9:10:26am

Jesus christ y'all are a bunch of soft emo pussies. Get over it