Replying to Anyone find long term toe bang solutions?

Hello, I ski in PA where there aren't many fantastic boot fitters (at least that I've found), and I was improperly fitted +2 mondo size above what I should've had. I looked around and made the long trip to a better fitter in Vermont. They fit all of my foot amazingly other than my toes kill to the point where it sadly almost isn't worth skiing through the pain. I have paid close attention to my landings and I do not think I land backseat. Is there a deterministic way to decide if I have too much toebox volume or too little? I want to figure out as much as I can without driving back and forth to Vermont trying to get it to feel good. Someone, please tell me there is hope because I fucking love skiing but this is the first time pain has been so bad that I want to consider sitting out. At least summer allowed my toenails to heal.