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Anyone ever lost a relationship because your partner didn’t understand your lifestyle?

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FATHERULLR
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This has been on my mind recently since I told my girlfriend that I plan on being out a lot during the season. My girlfriend skis and enjoys it but isn’t into it like I am.

What has everyone’s experience on this been like?
We’re you able to balance your relationship or was it too straining for the both of you?
Oct 20 2022 3:00PM
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GrapeHunter
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PacificRimJobrim jobs are pretty damn vanilla dude.


yea if ur GAY!
Nov 2 2022 7:25PM
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chumbawumba
Posts: 186 - Karma: 645
just jerk off and go skiing my guy. life is good
Nov 2 2022 7:53PM
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PacificRimJob
Posts: 24725 - Karma: 29,939
GrapeHunteryea if ur GAY!


Lol straight people eat ass too but ok.
Nov 2 2022 8:02PM
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Chunderface
Posts: 2482 - Karma: 9,640
What drives me nuts are chicks that you start to talk to and they're into the fact you ski a lot and think its great. Then things get serious and even though it is not taking any additional time away from spending with them than it ever did, all of a sudden its a useless hobby and you could be spending that time on more important things.

Fuck you bitch.
Nov 2 2022 8:46PM
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iRide1080s
Posts: 660 - Karma: 411
Do me a favor and read your own post to yourself. Does this sound healthy?

I know it’s tough, especially after 5 years, but it sounds like you need to get out of that and enjoy your life.

It will eat you alive.
270on420outWorking 40- 50 hours a week and living an hour away from each other we didn’t get to see each other a whole lot to begin with.

Ski season came and went every year, and every year I skied less and less. I went from averaging 50-60 days a year to maybe 20 if I was lucky.


Eventually I just started to dread winter because I knew it was just going to be another season of fighting every other weekend and being disappointed by how little I got to ski. This also permeated into other aspects of my life. I completely quit skateboarding after being obsessed with it more than skiing for 5 years.

I live the same week every week. I go to work. Spend the weekend with the girlfriend, and do it all over again the next week.

i am completely fucking miserable. Part of me wishes I never got into this relationship and im seriously considering ending it this winter.
Nov 9 2022 8:27AM
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VTshredder69
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yea i had a girlfriend but was secretly fucking dudes.

it was very sad.
Nov 9 2022 9:50AM
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SteezyYeeter
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270on420outWorking 40- 50 hours a week and living an hour away from each other we didn’t get to see each other a whole lot to begin with.

Ski season came and went every year, and every year I skied less and less. I went from averaging 50-60 days a year to maybe 20 if I was lucky.


Eventually I just started to dread winter because I knew it was just going to be another season of fighting every other weekend and being disappointed by how little I got to ski. This also permeated into other aspects of my life. I completely quit skateboarding after being obsessed with it more than skiing for 5 years.

I live the same week every week. I go to work. Spend the weekend with the girlfriend, and do it all over again the next week.

i am completely fucking miserable. Part of me wishes I never got into this relationship and im seriously considering ending it this winter.


it sounds like it's been going on for way to long. if the relationship hasn't progressed to the point of marriage after 2-3 years (and you're out of high school) than it's probably not going to work out. and, you probably missed a serious chunk of your prime time in life. the pus ain't worth it.
Nov 9 2022 8:18PM
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GayWolf420
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my ex got mad at me becuz I brought my Kartels into her apartment one night because I was scared that they would get stolen out of the back of my truck.
Nov 9 2022 8:25PM
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ASSholebomber22
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DeebieSkeebiesmy ex got mad at me becuz I brought my Kartels into her apartment one night because I was scared that they would get stolen out of the back of my truck.


If skis and bikes can't live in the living room it just ain't it
Nov 9 2022 9:39PM
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GayWolf420
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ASSholebomber22If skis and bikes can't live in the living room it just ain't it

She also dumped me during finals week so that should tell you enough about her.
Nov 9 2022 9:41PM
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BradFiAusNzCoCa
Posts: 6840 - Karma: 59,321
It would be a deal breaker for me if I couldn’t bring my babies in the house
DeebieSkeebiesmy ex got mad at me becuz I brought my Kartels into her apartment one night because I was scared that they would get stolen out of the back of my truck.
Nov 9 2022 10:14PM
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nmwninjart
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BradFiAusNzCoCaIt would be a deal breaker for me if I couldn’t bring my babies in the house


Same here!
Nov 10 2022 7:42AM
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