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charliewastaken
Posts: 11 - Karma: 99
Not really sure where/what thread to post this in, I searched for a thread similar to this and couldn't find one so here it is. My GF talks about a few different couples relationships quite a bit and how cute they are. As little as this should affect me it truly does make me a little hurt and almost feel like I'm not doing enough, does anyone have advice as to what I should say? We've been dating for quite awhile. Maybe I'm overreacting but it just seems like she likes others relationships more than her own.
Nov 12 2021 9:40PM
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r00kie
Posts: 5238 - Karma: 59,574
Oh young buck, ns is not the place for this. Just ask her how she feels about the relationship, does she feel like your invested, do you do things she enjoys, etc. She's probably talking about other people to drop some not subtle hints on you. Point is though you should ask her these questions instead of a bunch forum dweelers whose worldview is based on a 28 minute youtube video that involves a couple dozen smashed tables.
Nov 12 2021 9:46PM
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SuspiciousFish
Posts: 2781 - Karma: 16,809
Girls always like to talk about other relationships. Its like talking about football or skiing to us guys. Just take her out to dinner now and again and rub her feet and giver her back massages and you will be all good.
Nov 12 2021 9:47PM
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charliewastaken
Posts: 11 - Karma: 99
r00kieOh young buck, ns is not the place for this. Just ask her how she feels about the relationship, does she feel like your invested, do you do things she enjoys, etc. She's probably talking about other people to drop some not subtle hints on you. Point is though you should ask her these questions instead of a bunch forum dweelers whose worldview is based on a 28 minute youtube video that involves a couple dozen smashed tables.


You make a very good point with this one, I happen to be one of the very few who got a GF who enjoys ZootSpace.
Nov 12 2021 9:50PM
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Casey
Posts: 7829 - Karma: 24,049
She might be trying to subtly get to notice things you could be doing to make her happy. As a partner it is easy to get complacent as time goes on, staying together takes conscious effort, usually much more effort on behalf of the man, but that’s the way it goes
Nov 12 2021 10:01PM
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MiIfHunter
Posts: 3978 - Karma: 4,260
Let me ask you this, are you eating her asshole? If not someone else is.
Nov 12 2021 11:55PM
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dolanslebensraum
Posts: 5959 - Karma: -13,098
MiIfHunterLet me ask you this, are you eating her asshole? If not someone else is.

Dude…

op if this girl isnt the catch of a lifetime for you then id dump her. Its very disrespectful of you for her to ask you to have an orgy or whatever shes asking for.
Nov 12 2021 11:59PM
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asparagus
Posts: 2471 - Karma: 28,142
charliewastakenI happen to be one of the very few who got a GF who enjoys ZootSpace.


ATTENTION GENTLEMEN:

this girl is a keeper, we must do everything in our power to make sure this man does not lose her
Nov 13 2021 12:45AM
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DirtYStylE
Posts: 3652 - Karma: 8,885
Buy her a puppy to distract you both from having a conversation about your feelings
Nov 13 2021 4:03AM
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WoFIowz
Posts: 9788 - Karma: 72,407
MiIfHunterLet me ask you this, are you eating her asshole? If not someone else is.

I really wanna know what you look like. $100 says you're a fat old pedo who's had sex twice in his entire life.
dolanslebensraumDude…

op if this girl isnt the catch of a lifetime for you then id dump her. Its very disrespectful of you for her to ask you to have an orgy or whatever shes asking for.


Lmao that's not what op said 😭 not even close. What he described is like a chick saying "wow guess who got flowers today. Wish someone would do that for me". It's a type of nagging that while fucking annoying, is very common, and also needs addressed rather than each person dropping passive aggressive hints.
Nov 13 2021 4:04AM
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Butterytips69
Posts: 722 - Karma: 8,042
Just pee in her butt OP
Nov 13 2021 7:19AM
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SuspiciousFish
Posts: 2781 - Karma: 16,809
HypeBeastLmao that's not what op said 😭 not even close. What he described is like a chick saying "wow guess who got flowers today. Wish someone would do that for me". It's a type of nagging that while fucking annoying, is very common, and also needs addressed rather than each person dropping passive aggressive hints.

I think we need more context from the OP. There is a huge difference between a girl saying things like, "Joe and Sally are such a cute couple! They even look like each other, itsnt that strange how couples always look alike..." This is just normal girl talk about other relationships which is nothing to worry about.

On the other hand if his girl is saying things like you state like, "Look at this photo from Joe and Sally's trip, that is so cool he takes her out to see stuff..." That is a giant red flag to be aware of.
Nov 13 2021 11:17AM
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ThatSkiierKidd64
Posts: 361 - Karma: 1,030
dump that hoe and stay true to yourself king, don't waste no mo time on these hussies life is to short G
Nov 14 2021 12:34AM
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