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Someone tell me something worse that happened to them to make me feel better.

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MeenaSmalls
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Be me

Second week in August loving my life enjoying summer with my friends and GF

Tuesday

Someone throw a glass 26 of Vodka (Manitoba term for a bottle of liquor) through my car window, and steals all my dads tax info that I had just picked up for him

Friday

Get a call from my mom telling me my childhood dog just died

Saturday Morning

GF breaks up with me and kicks me out of our house.


Someone please outdo me and make me feel better about the wack events that have unfolded recently.

**This thread was edited on Aug 29th 2021 at 11:54:24pm
Aug 29 2021 11:53PM
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SavageBiff
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1-she obviously had new dood lined up from beginning
2-if that dude allows her to “ban” you for any non bar related event, he’s not your friend nor proper businessman
MeenaSmallsupdate on my situation:

After 2 months of me doing what my ex was wanting me to do, before she would want to get back together, to better myself. (Drinking less, going to therapy, working on myself) I find out she has a new boyfriend, and that he will probably be moving in with her, in our old house down the street from where I reside currently. Also had her randomly text me and let me know that all of the furniture that she was storing for me (we had agreed on this) was now to be found on the front lawn. So yesterday I got to go pick up my bed frame, couch, bbq, all from her front lawn while she and her new boyfriend more than likely enjoyed watching struggling to load it all up and to add a cherry on top. She informed me that the wifi that I had left for her to use as my new spot has wifi already was going to be cancelled and I am being left with the 350$ bill. I cant do anything though as the Bar that she recently got hired at happens to be my friends and I's favourite spot where we have gone for years, and I made the dumb call of helping her get hired there when we were together, and now she has the power to ban me if she feels like it.
Oct 19 2021 4:49PM
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arnie_grape
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that SUCKS!
Oct 20 2021 3:38PM
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MiIfHunter
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GORILLAWALLACEthat SUCKS!


I crumbed
Oct 20 2021 3:55PM
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Skiblade420
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Also is there a specific reason she would blacklist you from the bar? If she suggested a break at first then I assume nothing too bad happened….

Are you actually worried that if you calmly said it wasn’t cool to put your stuff on the lawn with late notice / that she should pay for the WiFi you used…. She’d black list you from the bar?

Sounds like either something really shitty went down, or you should be thankful to have her out of your life if she’d black list you for calmly standing up for yourself
Oct 20 2021 3:58PM
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MeenaSmalls
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update,
shes 2 months pregnant
been dating the father for 3 months
we broke up a little over 4 months ago
Dec 16 2021 8:34PM
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Jems
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MeenaSmallsupdate,
shes 2 months pregnant
been dating the father for 3 months
we broke up a little over 4 months ago


honestly bro thats W for you
Dec 16 2021 8:40PM
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Abomber22
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Get back in the game.
Meanwhile do something really nice/helpful for a family member or friend.
Takes you out of yourself and builds respect.
Jemshonestly bro thats W for you
Dec 16 2021 10:50PM
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elcheapo
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I bought a can if chilli i'v never tried before and when I opened it up it looked like dog food, then I thought what are they trying to hide that they had to puree it into a smoothy, iS this how the mafia disposes of bodies now? But it did taste like real chilli powder
Dec 16 2021 11:23PM
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Granby_killdozer
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MeenaSmallsupdate,
shes 2 months pregnant
been dating the father for 3 months
we broke up a little over 4 months ago


pregnancy is probably gonna ruin her body and now shes stuck with a little brat for 18 years. I bet they split in the next couple years too. If I got a chick pregnant that I'd only been seeing for a month I'd be fuckin pissed. not even out of the honeymoon phase yet lol. I'd pull up a lawn chair, crack open a cold one and watch her life fall apart.
Dec 16 2021 11:45PM
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BigPurpleSkiSuit
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Yeah something ain't right with her if she's fine just moving in with a new person right away and that means you will be in the better part of it soon enough
Skiblade420When most girls suggest a break I’ve found it’s kind of just kind of an easier way for them to breakup fully / might have had someone in their sights.

Seems a bit quick to go from living with someone romantically to then two months later having someone else move in?

Idk regardless keep your head up and keep working on yourself, it might be hard now but you want someone that you can truly rely on in the long run / not do crappy things like mooching your WiFi money or not giving you notice about your furniture.

If you take the right steps you’ll find someone better for you. Keep talking to your friends and getting help if you need it
Dec 17 2021 1:28AM
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MeenaSmalls
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Jemshonestly bro thats W for you


i totally agree man but its a weird hard pill to swallow
Dec 17 2021 3:01AM
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MeenaSmalls
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BigPurpleSkiSuitYeah something ain't right with her if she's fine just moving in with a new person right away and that means you will be in the better part of it soon enough


ty, ya idk I'm not as much worried for myself as I am for her and the kid. Sure it was fucked with her but I don't wish anything poor on her
Dec 17 2021 3:02AM
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MeenaSmalls
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MeenaSmallsupdate,
shes 2 months pregnant
been dating the father for 3 months
we broke up a little over 4 months ago


/feelsweirdman
Dec 17 2021 3:03AM
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Rparr
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SavageBiffjust left me lonely and dead inside,it doesn’t matter how many people are around that love me, I feel alone and have never felt that type of joy, comfort, warmth, pride, or love again, cherish whatever and whoever you have guys, some things cannot be undone.

My fiance passed extremely unexpectedly over a year ago and this is exactly how it feels, had never quite been able to find the words for it. It never gets easier, you just learn to live with it

Love all you guys, no matter how shit life gets NS will always be a good thing in my life
Dec 17 2021 4:20AM
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SavageBiff
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Very sorry for your loss that’s terrible and I wish I had some sort of answer towards betterment ☹️ Only thing I can do is stay busy enough it keeps the mind pre occupied, and I remind myself there are those that need me, and if a negative thought comes in I try to blast it with a happy remembrance or shut it down by trying to stress over something more current.
The role some people play in the life of another is just so irreplaceable, again sorry for your loss.
RparrMy fiance passed extremely unexpectedly over a year ago and this is exactly how it feels, had never quite been able to find the words for it. It never gets easier, you just learn to live with it

Love all you guys, no matter how shit life gets NS will always be a good thing in my life
Dec 17 2021 6:17AM
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Abomber22
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Also my condolences.
Trite saying, but the following really is true for most: Time heals ( soothes) all wounds.

These two events were not back to back just examples of suckiness.

Dad died on Father's day.
Wife left/ relocated while I was at work.

Both stung like hell for long time.and then living Life slowly grinds at the sharp edges until it doesn't poke into your soul.
Things tend to smooth out if you don't self destruct and make it worse... and then you ski.

SavageBiffVery sorry for your loss that’s terrible and I wish I had some sort of answer towards betterment ☹️ Only thing I can do is stay busy enough it keeps the mind pre occupied, and I remind myself there are those that need me, and if a negative thought comes in I try to blast it with a happy remembrance or shut it down by trying to stress over something more current.
The role some people play in the life of another is just so irreplaceable, again sorry for your loss.
Dec 17 2021 7:30AM
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SavageBiff
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Seems like, tho impossible to say, time moves differently for each of us.

Not self destructing is a bitch, but a good point.

Thank god for skiing, has been a huge part of my healing.
Abomber22Also my condolences.
Trite saying, but the following really is true for most: Time heals ( soothes) all wounds.

These two events were not back to back just examples of suckiness.

Dad died on Father's day.
Wife left/ relocated while I was at work.

Both stung like hell for long time.and then living Life slowly grinds at the sharp edges until it doesn't poke into your soul.
Things tend to smooth out if you don't self destruct and make it worse... and then you ski.
Dec 18 2021 6:22AM
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arnie_grape
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went 2 staff caf and they were out of chicken burger :(
Dec 19 2021 2:38PM
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