What age does it become kosher to smack your kids when they are having a screaming tantrum or acting like spoiled pieces of shit

vibecheckwhen can I beat the shit out of kids cmon guys right I mean he screamed for a second I'm pretty sure he did that warrants me beating him right cmon the kid was in the wrong I did the right thing right guys

vibecheckmaybe just dont have kids stick with the houseplants bud

vibecheckmaybe just dont have kids stick with the houseplants bud

ScaryDumpTruckIf you beat your kid too much as a father they are probably gonna turn out gay

Young_pattyFound out in my EDU youth psychology class last year that Wyoming never outlawed corporal punishment in schools AND they pay teachers better than most of the country. So If some 3rd grader mouths off to me imma Bane drop that punk

theabortionatorKeep condoms to throw at them. Maybe next time they'll get the hint.

skiP.E.I.The minute a kid gets hit is the minute they realize their parents don't have the wit, emotional strength or maturity to keep them in line non-violently. If you've been taught not to be violent towards others to get your way, and the people who taught you that use violence to try to control your behavior, the logical conclusion is that they are a hypocrite or they're wrong, which naturally brings the realization they are likely hypocritical or just wrong about most things, and there's no need to give the parents' ideas or beliefs any time, and that they can be easily deceived.
So if you have to resort to violence against your child, you've failed miserably as a parent.

CaseyOne time I yelled at some kids on a plane. It wasn’t severe but they were flying alone and just going ape shit so after like 7 cocktails I was like HEY! No yelling on the plane! I was heralded as a hero by the back half of the plane.

little1337If you're so immature and incapable of controlling your kids without hitting them, you shouldnt have kids

ronders_Maybe don’t spoil them and they won’t be spoiled. Demonstrate that they need to earn their keep, lead by example, and you shouldn’t ever have to hit your kid

icedlure the kid to the back of the plane with some candy and curb stomp him using a stewardess

you can only do it once though

.FRY.You were definitely a fucking loser as a kid. You're in no position to judge parents or their kids. You should have been aborted.

DolanReloadedwhy are you clowns pretending that every kid is going to act reasonably and do what their parents want them to if you only reason with them?

some kids are guilty pieces of shit.

If you gave alot of these kids that scream in public their own personal terminator they would be telling their terminator to kill everybody. The whole youth = innocence bullshit is ridiculous. Alot of kids grow up rotten and become innocent as they age into adults.

if its ok for inmates to get their head caved in twice a week then its ok to smack a 5 year old who is purposefully screaming their head off because they want to piss everybody off.

i guarantee you the kids who dont get disciplined by their parents are the people who when they grow up BECOME THE ASSHOLES WHO HURT PEOPLE AND BEAT PEOPLE UP.

kids who get smacked for screaming in public grow up to be well adjusted gentlemen who know whats right and whats wrong.

ronders_You know, it's possible to NOT HAVE TO HIT THE KID BECAUSE THEY WERE TAUGHT HOW TO ACT IN THE FIRST PLACE, AND THEY DON'T ACT LIKE PIECES OF SHIT. THAT'S ON YOU AS THE PARENT IN THE FIRST PLACE. Can I be any clearer? If your kid is only 5 and "just trying to piss everyone off" where did he learn that behavior from? No. The kids that get beat are the worst kids because their parents are shitty angry people perpetuating the cycle. Just the fact that you're triggered at the idea that every kid doesn't act like a spoiled piece of shit, makes me hope you're not a parent.

DolanReloadedOh yeah, your kid screamed in public
“BECUZ U IZ BAD PARENTING”

“ IF YOU WAS GUD PARENTING UR KIDS WUD B ANGELS”

youre a fucking piece of shit ronders.

your kids misbehaving can come from all sorts of things. Its not just bcuz “Bad parunting”.

ur kids are going to be fucking degenerates. Wait and see dalai lama boy.

“Hurr durr mai kid is an angel i never haz to smack him”

DolanReloadedOh yeah, your kid screamed in public
“BECUZ U IZ BAD PARENTING”

“ IF YOU WAS GUD PARENTING UR KIDS WUD B ANGELS”

youre a fucking piece of shit ronders.

your kids misbehaving can come from all sorts of things. Its not just bcuz “Bad parunting”.

ur kids are going to be fucking degenerates. Wait and see dalai lama boy.

“Hurr durr mai kid is an angel i never haz to smack him”

ronders_If you hate kids so much, why would you have any in the first place? If you can't pull out, wrap your willy G

DolanReloadedI come from one of the most loving families a person could possibly have, but i would be a little shit sometimes where i deserved to get smacked. It probably only happened once or twice a year when i was a kid. Most of the time i was a good kid. But sometimes i was a little devil and i would do shit like hide from my parents when i knew they were looking for me or something. I remember getting smacked one time by my dad for hiding from him when he was calling for me and searching around the hockey rink for me so we could go home. When my dad found me he gave me a decent pimp hand; but i didnt feel any sort of negativity about it. I knew i had done something wrong, and i knew i deserved to get smacked. So it didnt bother me at all. In fact, it would have bothered me more if i had not been smacked because then i would feel like i was a piece of shit as a kid who didnt get disciplined when i deserved it.



if i hadnt ever been disciplined as a kid i would be very ashamed about my youth.

For every kid that grows up getting smacked every once in a while who turns into a caring compassionate adult, there is a kid who grows up being an angel who turns into a spoiled inconsiderate bitch as an adult.

i dont buy the whole “preserve the innocence of your little angel” outlook on raising kids.

beating your kids is obvIously the worst thing in the world, but sometimes you have to get your ego checked by your parents.

in my opinion in the grand scheme of things, a kid who gets smacked for doing something naughty can be more innocent than a kid who is numb to the sense of how good of a boy they are being because their parents never discipline them.

ronders_Where exactly did I say "preserve the innocence of your little angel"? Nice strawman. It's more about teaching and building respect. Anyway, I think there are ways to discipline your child other than hitting them. If they do something really bad that might threaten their life, while ignoring what you tell them, then sure. You can let your kid know you're the boss without hitting them though, "checking their ego" sounds like you just like the feeling of power over them. They will resent this and become worse behaved for sure.
Also chill the fuck out dude. You asked the question and now you're getting mad at all the responses. It's possible to have a conversation without calling someone a piece of shit

DolanReloadedYoure telling me, very matter of factly i might add, things like “you just want to feel power over your kid bc you said you want to “check their ego” and your kids will then resent you and misbehave even worse”,
as if your a fucking professor of child psychology and i would raise a bunch of ted bundies— and youre telling me to “chill out”?



hey! Lets play a game!

i got smacked when i acted like a little shit when i was a kid, and i got in to princeton.

you never got smacked as a kid, so you mustve gone to some hypothetical college thats above princeton.



tell us the name of this college you went to ronders!

gosh i wish my parents didnt smack me for acting a brat. Then my iq would be 160 instead of 140. If only....

The reality is that unlike your family ronders and the family you will raise, some families have high enough iq parents that their kids have more iq points then they know what to do with, so these parents will sometimes sacrifice a couple iq points to keep their kid from growing up into a spoiled liberal piece of shit, because they have enough iq they can spare a couple points and still be in rarified air.



Kids are no more innocent than adults.

the youth innocence thing is pedaled by ethnicities that have cute kids that age into ugly adults.

its infected america and it is part of the reason so many loser americans act like the age of consent should be an absurdly high 18 yrs old.

in european countries where decent looking kids age into decent looking adults, the age of consent is much lower because the public isnt obsessed with the idea of stopping innocent adolescents from being preyed upon by evil old ppl.

but i digress.

Reality is more nuanced than just saying “all physical force is developmentally carcinogenic”

**This post was edited on Aug 25th 2020 at 10:44:04pm

DolanReloadedYoure telling me, very matter of factly i might add, things like “you just want to feel power over your kid bc you said you want to “check their ego” and your kids will then resent you and misbehave even worse”,
as if your a fucking professor of child psychology and i would raise a bunch of ted bundies— and youre telling me to “chill out”?



hey! Lets play a game!

i got smacked when i acted like a little shit when i was a kid, and i got in to princeton.

you never got smacked as a kid, so you mustve gone to some hypothetical college thats above princeton.



tell us the name of this college you went to ronders!

gosh i wish my parents didnt smack me for acting a brat. Then my iq would be 160 instead of 140. If only....

The reality is that unlike your family ronders and the family you will raise, some families have high enough iq parents that their kids have more iq points then they know what to do with, so these parents will sometimes sacrifice a couple iq points to keep their kid from growing up into a spoiled liberal piece of shit, because they have enough iq they can spare a couple points and still be in rarified air.



Kids are no more innocent than adults.

the youth innocence thing is pedaled by ethnicities that have cute kids that age into ugly adults.

its infected america and it is part of the reason so many loser americans act like the age of consent should be an absurdly high 18 yrs old.

in european countries where decent looking kids age into decent looking adults, the age of consent is much lower because the public isnt obsessed with the idea of stopping innocent adolescents from being preyed upon by evil old ppl.

but i digress.

Reality is more nuanced than just saying “all physical force is developmentally carcinogenic”

**This post was edited on Aug 25th 2020 at 10:44:04pm

ronders_Your obsession with IQ points tells me all I need to know about you. I sure seem to be getting under your skin! Keep on hating, I’m loving it. For a Princeton educated scholar you sure can’t spell or write a complete sentence to save your life. Just one question. You as tough in real life as you are online?

CLQwho even reads these threads anymore? tired out the formula dolan, ur washed up

DolanReloadedDont take it personally man.



i just think the idea of reasoning with kids who misbehave wont work on everybody.

like if my dad told me “son, it was very inconsiderate to hide from me when i was looking for you” id be like “meh, ok” and i probably wouldnt fully realize how shitty a thing it was to do to my dad to hide from him. Getting smacked in this case might have been a more reasonable, more maturing path to have taken.

my jewish ex girlfriend used to sometimes attack me with fists and shit while i was driving if i said something that pissed her off. Her parents never hit her once- yet here she is hitting me as hard as she can, almost making me have an accident, and i literally have to pin her against the passenger window by her neck to get her to stop, and when i did that she tried to bite my hand.
she was one of the most spoiled pieces of shit ever, and she probably wouldnt have been so unbelievably self centered if she had been reasonably disciplined when she acted out as a kid.
she would start drama with just about anybody, saying they did or said something offensive to her and she would start arguments all the time. She literally was angry all the time and she autistically assumed her anger was a result of somebody wronging her or doing/saying something bad to her.

Her brother was a total sweetheart. Hes a school teacher in the inner city and hes doing fine.



this girlfriend of mine was a fucking mess tho. If you were around her for a few days you would seriously think “jesus somebody shouldve gone cesar milan on this bitch when she was growing up”
alot of girls seem to be spoiled by their looks during childhood/adolescence to a much greater degree than boys get spoiled by their looks.

i dont know why i didnt dump this crazy girl sooner, but it made me so salty about having another relationship with another girl that i dont even try to find a partner these days,

**This post was edited on Aug 26th 2020 at 12:02:39am

ronders_Also, according to this you support pedophilia. I rest my case genius.

SnowshoeThompsonMy dad beat the shit out of me when I acted out as a teenager and I don’t blame him at all. If parents don’t set their kids straight when, or if, they seriously fuck up they turn into shitty people. Pretty plain and simple. This victim mentality and never grasping the idea that certain actions come with negative consequences is running rampant these days.

SnowshoeThompsonMy dad beat the shit out of me when I acted out as a teenager and I don’t blame him at all. If parents don’t set their kids straight when, or if, they seriously fuck up they turn into shitty people. Pretty plain and simple. This victim mentality and never grasping the idea that certain actions come with negative consequences is running rampant these days.

DolanReloadedPedophilia is literally the worst thing in the world, and it refers to fucking children age 9 and under.



attraction to adolescents age 14-18 is ephebophila. And people like you who deny finding people this age attractive are usually pedophiles.

so good luck with that, pedoboy.

.FRY.Dolan is a pedophile /thread

DolanReloadedCheeky slander inferiorboy! Dont forget to show your post to your mommy so she can be proud of her little chris hansen wannabe

DolanReloadedYeah. Its like the only acceptable route for a white male in this mainstream liberal culture is to be a gender studies major anorexic feminist soyboy who wears crocs.

ronders_Nah bro you just gotta be straight gorilla. Who says you have to be like that? Is that why your parents all beat you? Cause you went through a soy boy phase? LMAO fucking loser