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oldmanskiI will use my 667 post to back the worshiper of Satan.lol
i want redemption. those damned snapchat groupchatters ruined my reputation, they killed me for a few months. and now im going to have to apologize to them for being an asshole. fuck life
tfw when the attractive coworker u have a crush on takes u out for drinks and then takes u to her house after but her ex texts her and then she asks u to leave
Pigeon.tfw when the attractive coworker u have a crush on takes u out for drinks and then takes u to her house after but her ex texts her and then she asks u to leave
Damn, that is messed up. Make her write a rain check for a later time.lol
Pigeon.tfw when the attractive coworker u have a crush on takes u out for drinks and then takes u to her house after but her ex texts her and then she asks u to leave
Pigeon.tfw when the attractive coworker u have a crush on takes u out for drinks and then takes u to her house after but her ex texts her and then she asks u to leave
bongripperi want redemption. those damned snapchat groupchatters ruined my reputation, they killed me for a few months. and now im going to have to apologize to them for being an asshole. fuck life
I had the same thing happen after I beat my dick on a gay livestream for money
My job riddles my psyche with anxiety charged bullets. Tearing my everyday conscious behavior into an everyday struggle.
Asides from that I'm gonna move overseas next year. The only bad thing is i will take a massive pay cut andddd I'm literally not even qualified to be a janitor. Smh
**This post was edited on Sep 28th 2019 at 7:51:51pm
My ex broke up with me a month or two ago. I hit rock bottom. Not going to school this semester because of it and I just can't function anymore. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm so lost and can't get out of this hole I dug myself in. I can't take it anymore.
rclover106My ex broke up with me a month or two ago. I hit rock bottom. Not going to school this semester because of it and I just can't function anymore. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm so lost and can't get out of this hole I dug myself in. I can't take it anymore.
Dig a little deeper, and you might strike gold. Sometimes the best way of rock bottom is to fucking slam into it, eventually you’ll bounce back up. (Bad advice but sometimes that’s really how it works out). Keep on keeping on and things will come full circle. It’s a pretty significant life change that will take some getting used to but one day at a time you’ll adjust to it and get back on your feet.
rclover106My ex broke up with me a month or two ago. I hit rock bottom. Not going to school this semester because of it and I just can't function anymore. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm so lost and can't get out of this hole I dug myself in. I can't take it anymore.
If you're writing this, then you haven't completely hit rock bottom yet, right? The suffering will be there, but like Mingg said, you're able to either bounce up or climb out of it. Even in the worst situations, there is always hope. Keep fighting man, we're praying for you.
rclover106My ex broke up with me a month or two ago. I hit rock bottom. Not going to school this semester because of it and I just can't function anymore. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm so lost and can't get out of this hole I dug myself in. I can't take it anymore.
Hang in there, I know it is tough but there is hope. One day at a time homie, each day will get better and better. Been through some pretty bad breakups myself, you will get through this. Click your boots back into your bindings and lets ride.
MinggDig a little deeper, and you might strike gold. Sometimes the best way of rock bottom is to fucking slam into it, eventually you’ll bounce back up. (Bad advice but sometimes that’s really how it works out). Keep on keeping on and things will come full circle. It’s a pretty significant life change that will take some getting used to but one day at a time you’ll adjust to it and get back on your feet.
bongripperIf you're writing this, then you haven't completely hit rock bottom yet, right? The suffering will be there, but like Mingg said, you're able to either bounce up or climb out of it. Even in the worst situations, there is always hope. Keep fighting man, we're praying for you.
oldmanskiHang in there, I know it is tough but there is hope. One day at a time homie, each day will get better and better. Been through some pretty bad breakups myself, you will get through this. Click your boots back into your bindings and lets ride.
I appreciate everyone caring and responding. It just keeps getting harder and harder to cope with and it's getting to the point where I can't do it anymore. I can't even get myself to leave my house at this point. I sound pathetic but nothing I do makes anything better. I miss her so much. I'm just broken beyond repair.
bongripperIf you're writing this, then you haven't completely hit rock bottom yet, right? The suffering will be there, but like Mingg said, you're able to either bounce up or climb out of it. Even in the worst situations, there is always hope. Keep fighting man, we're praying for you.
Prayers from Satanworshiper. This thread is deep.
rclover106I appreciate everyone caring and responding. It just keeps getting harder and harder to cope with and it's getting to the point where I can't do it anymore. I can't even get myself to leave my house at this point. I sound pathetic but nothing I do makes anything better. I miss her so much. I'm just broken beyond repair.
You need to kick yourself in the ass and get moving man. The time to be sad was before when you were putting all that effort into a relationship that was about to end. Think about it those were the sad times. Being sad now is just living in the past.
Believe me I understand what it is like to feel like everything is at the end but the truth is the world keeps on turning and you have to get back up on your feet or you will just keep getting worked over. Life is like skiing. Think about going down hard on the second jump in a 3 jump line. You cannot just stay there forever lying in the landing. If you care about anyone else you need to get up and get out of the way but even then you can't just lay there on the side of the run all night. Maybe you need help to drag you off the hill and if that is the case you need to let them put you in the sled but you can't just lay there forever. Get yourself moving or get your homies to call ski patrol
rclover106My ex broke up with me a month or two ago. I hit rock bottom. Not going to school this semester because of it and I just can't function anymore. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm so lost and can't get out of this hole I dug myself in. I can't take it anymore.
rclover106My ex broke up with me a month or two ago. I hit rock bottom. Not going to school this semester because of it and I just can't function anymore. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm so lost and can't get out of this hole I dug myself in. I can't take it anymore.
The first few months will be excruciating. The months after that will also still be difficult but manageable. Went through the same thing in May and I also lost my job, broke my leg, and went broke because of a speeding ticket, all in the span of 1 week.
I’d love to give you a bunch of feel-good platitudes about victory and pulling yourself out of a dark place but I know they would mean nothing to you. The only platitude I’ve found to be true (as cliché as it sounds) is “It gets better”. Because it is true in a way. I made the mistake of expecting too much out of this though. “Better” really isn’t a great word to use. It should be “It gets tolerable”. But compared to how I felt when I was a month out, I feel like a completely different person now.
For the first straight month I would just wake up, immediately get drunk or high, and pass out again. I tried to be asleep for as long as I possibly could. When I had to be awake I spent every waking moment wishing I was dead. I made some pretty horrific plans to kill myself. Luckily I simply just didn’t have the energy or the money to do it. Went to the hospital once (absolutely fucking sucked. Nothing about it was beneficial), tried a bunch of different antidepressants, did the typical self-care routine of diet, exercise, meditation, therapy, etc (and a lot of it actually was pretty beneficial) but treating your situation like something that has a cure will get you nowhere. Your mind needs time to process everything and slowly heal itself.
It fucking sucks. It will destroy you. But you can survive this. The harshest truth of life is that everything is temporary and situations like these only reinforce that idea. But the silver lining to this is that your suffering is also temporary.
For now, just chase as many dopamine rushes as you can and fill your time in order to somewhat distract yourself. The first time I rode my skateboard after months of being immobile, the first girl I hooked up with after the breakup (though I don’t exactly recommend a rebound), the various nights out with friends, they were moments that I found to be therapeutic. Someday you’ll be ok.
DIRTYBUBBLEI’d love to give you a bunch of feel-good platitudes about victory and pulling yourself out of a dark place but I know they would mean nothing to you. The only platitude I’ve found to be true (as cliché as it sounds) is “It gets better”. Because it is true in a way.
This
I've been down that path before and there really isn't any way to sugarcoat it.
As Winston Churchill once said, "If you're going through hell, keep going."
**This post was edited on Sep 30th 2019 at 11:14:05pm
Going through the same shit. As others have said before me there's all kinds of feeling awful that happens and nothing any of us say will change that. I've been through shit before, and you gotta have that thing that gets you moving for a day or two, maybe you crash back down again but you'll get moving again, maybe for just a little longer this time. just gotta find that spark.
rclover106My ex broke up with me a month or two ago. I hit rock bottom. Not going to school this semester because of it and I just can't function anymore. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm so lost and can't get out of this hole I dug myself in. I can't take it anymore.
rclover106I appreciate everyone caring and responding. It just keeps getting harder and harder to cope with and it's getting to the point where I can't do it anymore. I can't even get myself to leave my house at this point. I sound pathetic but nothing I do makes anything better. I miss her so much. I'm just broken beyond repair.
Gonna sound mad insensitive but my advice would be to lift hard and fuck hotter girls. Quickest way to get over it. Use the pain to improve yourself and you’ll soon realize there’s a lot more to life than this one girl. Trust me, been there.
AlmostCoolerfuck hotter girls. Quickest way to get over it.
thats usually my go to, but when i had a situation similar to homie's, the first girl i tried to do that with i had a panic attack when we were hooking up and i had to ask her to leave
if going full chad isnt an option jus chill with the homies and occupy the mind. read, draw, build a ski setup, go hike, something
Did some stuff today but someone I consider a pretty good friend just ignored the shit out of me these past few days. Missing the gf as always. Not doing so well in general but I'm growing stronger every day
BigPurpleSkiSuitGoing through the same shit. As others have said before me there's all kinds of feeling awful that happens and nothing any of us say will change that. I've been through shit before, and you gotta have that thing that gets you moving for a day or two, maybe you crash back down again but you'll get moving again, maybe for just a little longer this time. just gotta find that spark.
BigPurpleSkiSuitDid some stuff today but someone I consider a pretty good friend just ignored the shit out of me these past few days. Missing the gf as always. Not doing so well in general but I'm growing stronger every day
Wait- your gf was asian right? I just remember seeing you guys on my feed. That really sucks man but I'm glad you're doing better.
BigPurpleSkiSuitDid some stuff today but someone I consider a pretty good friend just ignored the shit out of me these past few days. Missing the gf as always. Not doing so well in general but I'm growing stronger every day
Lot of feels in this thread knowing ive been in the same place a few years ago. Praying for all the brothers and sisters in a tough place right now. What helped me was finding other activities that I could basically occupy a bunch of time with. For me it was lifting a shit ton and caring more about skiing and those helped me get through some very dark spots
DlonettiLot of feels in this thread knowing ive been in the same place a few years ago. Praying for all the brothers and sisters in a tough place right now. What helped me was finding other activities that I could basically occupy a bunch of time with. For me it was lifting a shit ton and caring more about skiing and those helped me get through some very dark spots
Much agreed, find an activity that keeps your mind occupied and busy. Stay away from the booze and drugs, those just amplify the dark hole.
rclover106My ex broke up with me a month or two ago. I hit rock bottom. Not going to school this semester because of it and I just can't function anymore. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm so lost and can't get out of this hole I dug myself in. I can't take it anymore.
As long as you don't rack up 13 reasons why, you'll survive bro. I saw a documiniseries about it on Netflix. You'll be chill, bro.
rclover106My ex broke up with me a month or two ago. I hit rock bottom. Not going to school this semester because of it and I just can't function anymore. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm so lost and can't get out of this hole I dug myself in. I can't take it anymore.
Go full no contact, delete everything that reminds you of here. Distract yourself through hobbies that have a direct improvement to your life and give it time. Also see other girls.
This girl (an internet friend) I had a crush on over the summer recently got a boyfriend, whom she also met on the Internet, and was obsessed with him, she put him in her rinsta and finsta bios and uploaded pics and stories of him there, etc etc. I was already losing interest so I continued paying attention to the women I knew IRL, but I also let her know that I used to have feelings for her. About a month later I asked her why she wasn't snapchatting me that much (only like once a day and it was a nondescript "streaks" chat) and she said it was because she felt depressed all the time, since this guy apparently started talking to her less and less, eventually only texting her like two times a day. She broke up with him a few days after she told me about it. This is the fourth guy in a row who's treated her like this and her third boyfriend this year. I really appreciate her personality but you can't deny that she'd rather pick a shitty guy than someone like me who just wants to give her the world.
I really don't understand how these exes of hers could have such a beautiful girlfriend and not give a shit. But hey, I genuinely want to bring joy to people and have a healthy relationship, so I'm not gonna succeed with women.
tfw someone asks you to meet them at the bar, you spend $40 each way on Uber’s just to watch them sit on the phone for 20min and bounce without telling anyone
connecticunttfw someone asks you to meet them at the bar, you spend $40 each way on Uber’s just to watch them sit on the phone for 20min and bounce without telling anyone
lol just kill me
i see this so much nowadays, smartphones are taking over in such a bad way its pretty sad.
connecticunttfw someone asks you to meet them at the bar, you spend $40 each way on Uber’s just to watch them sit on the phone for 20min and bounce without telling anyone
lol just kill me
People on smartphones make me want to kill myself.... it's almost like people are forgetting how conversation works.
You start with small talk, then progress to more complex topics through association (as a general rule)
