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Segsxi
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This girl at work thinks we are friends, and that we should be a little closer.. but I don’t want to be her friend, and I have my reasons

1- She is such a bum, she’s one of those bums that say they will pay you back but never will.. and when you ask them they get OFFENDED!!

2- It sucks to say but she is very unnattractive, she has no personal hygeine, her hair is always looking ratchet, she has this very off smell, she smokes too much pot, she will literally buy weed over food with whatever little cash she has left (I’ve seen actual homeless people take better care of themselves). She is one of those ugly people who try to convince themselves that they are actually very attractive.

3- She is a hater, i’ve literally seen her throw shade at me lowkey on Snap. My homies at work even tell me when she talks shit. You can’t just talk shit about me in the comforts of your home and try to be buddy buddy with me when we are in the same space.

4- You have to watch what you say around her, as she will get it twisted, or twist it herself. Nobody really trusts her.. she’s one of those people who will bring you down to their level if you let them.

5- She tried to Trap my bestfriend, she lied about being pregnant, it really scared him and it really pissed me off because I know how evil this bitch is. In the end we found out she was lying when she refused to go to the doctor..

When it comes down to it I’m just waiting for her so slip up and lose her job.

**This thread was edited on Dec 12th 2017 at 10:44:29am
Dec 12 2017 10:43AM
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Mr.Panda
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Get hot and heavy with her then "surprise buttsex". She won't talk to you after that.

Course, you might end up with felony charges for that so you may not want to listen to my at work on 3 hours sleep so I feel almost drunk ass.
Dec 12 2017 10:51AM
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snowpocalypse
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Or..... You could just not play into her games and go to work, do your job then leave. You will learn that you don't have to be friends with every coworker. You need to be respectful but not friends. In the words on the immortal Red Forman " They call it work not happy fun time"
Dec 12 2017 11:10AM
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search4freshies
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Mr.PandaGet hot and heavy with her then "surprise buttsex". She won't talk to you after that.

I think this is a scenario in which the appropriate thing to do would be "pee in her butthole."
She def wont talk to you after that.
Dec 12 2017 12:02PM
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TrickyDick470
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Are you a teenager? Not asking to be disrespectful, but this sounds like a problem I had when I was younger. As snowpocalypse said, you are there to work, you don't have to be friends. With that said, don't be a dick. Just be polite, say hi and maybe make some small talk, then do your job. Other than that I wouldn't affiliate with her. Block her on snap, etc.
Dec 12 2017 1:27PM
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Segsxi
Posts: 457 - Karma: 1,675
TrickyDick470Are you a teenager? Not asking to be disrespectful, but this sounds like a problem I had when I was younger. As snowpocalypse said, you are there to work, you don't have to be friends. With that said, don't be a dick. Just be polite, say hi and maybe make some small talk, then do your job. Other than that I wouldn't affiliate with her. Block her on snap, etc.

Yes im probably at the most awkward age imaginable.. 19 I understand the severity of shit and Its hard explaining to these kids that are younger than I am at work that I can’t just be out here kidding around all the time
Dec 12 2017 1:52PM
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weedoo
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Op, I had this problem when I worked retail, there was this girl that was constantly bugging me and telling me what to do when she had no place to, doesn’t seem like a big deal but when you’re with these people all day, it takes a toll quick. I honestly was just straight up with her once and told her to fuck off (not literally but you know what I mean). I hate being confrontational but maybe thats the solution
Dec 13 2017 12:58AM
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WoFIowz
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It is clear that you can't stand her in every way possible. Just tell her to fuck off literally or figuratively without getting fired.
Clearly it doesn't sound like she is or ever will be contributing in a positive way to society, so I doubt you would be burning any bridges, but you can never know for sure. Or just metaphorically tell her to fuck off by constantly ignoring her and removing her from social media. She will get the picture quickly. As an outsider looking in, this seems like the overwhelmingly obvious choice.
Dec 13 2017 1:25AM
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theabortionator
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So what you're saying is you really want to/already did fuck her but you can't figure out why?

She's not attractive, she's not even cool, but here you find yourself rolling around, sleepless night after sleepless night wishing she was there beside you. It makes no sense. She's a liar, she's a bum, but you just can't stop yourself.

It's ok OP. This is a no judgement zone. I would probably wrap that shit though.
Dec 13 2017 4:33AM
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nexopia
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This is why I’m queen of the smile and nod. When they’re talking to you, if you MUST verbally respond, always do it with one word. “Ok” *smile* “Yes” *smile*
Dec 13 2017 9:23AM
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DirtYStylE
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Grab life by the balls and do what you want. I mean horns
Dec 13 2017 6:06PM
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arnie_grape
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tattle on her to HR
Dec 13 2017 10:53PM
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