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EmperorKuzcoYou are depressed because you have an injury? Seems kind of stupid
TWoodsRead my post. It's very common, it's believed to be a natural defense mechanism to encourage healing.
Additionally, depression is not the same thing as "really sad" or "sad for a long time" and it's not something that you can just "get over". It's a physiological condition that manifests itself in your emotions, your perception of the world, your motivation, appetite, and energy levels among other things.[/QUOTE
Considering if any injury like that happened 200 years ago or basically any time before 1950 and modern medicine you would be pretty damn grateful to even be alive and not dead. Suck it up, rehab and you will recover. People are getting too damn soft nowadays
danbrownI have ACL surgery January 19th after tearing it the 4th day of the season in December. Meanwhile Utah has been getting fucking hammered with snow, feet every night. Not skiing is not fun, but there are more seasons to come, and pretty much everyone I know has been through the same thing before, if not multiple times. It sucks, but it's not the end of the world.
EmperorKuzcoRead my post. It's very common, it's believed to be a natural defense mechanism to encourage healing.
Additionally, depression is not the same thing as "really sad" or "sad for a long time" and it's not something that you can just "get over". It's a physiological condition that manifests itself in your emotions, your perception of the world, your motivation, appetite, and energy levels among other things.[/QUOTE
Considering if any injury like that happened 200 years ago or basically any time before 1950 and modern medicine you would be pretty damn grateful to even be alive and not dead. Suck it up, rehab and you will recover. People are getting too damn soft nowadays
SkierBetchI don't know if I'd classify what I had as "depression" in the clinical sense, but yea, I'd say pretty down in the dumps. I'd say I can relate to what you're experiencing.
I tore my ACL at the end of March last season, right in the good meaty part of spring where it's time to send it hard and everybody is having a good time. Obviously it wasn't as bad as doing something in the beginning winter but it still was right at the cusp of that really nice spring-early summer when it's perfect for hikes, beach time, paddle boarding, all that good stuff I'm so down for. So not only could I not keep sending it hard in the spring but man, watching my whole summer fly away wasn't my favorite thing either.
I felt like at first I pitied myself, I was trying to pretend it wasn't a problem but then I realized I was kinda not ok... So I let myself be bummed but I made sure I didn't fall so far that I couldn't get back up. I let myself be sad, acknowledged it and let it go. It's a shitty situation any time you're injured but in my opinion it's important to accept the sadness, acknowledge that yes, this is not good, and let it go slowly, trying not let it swallow you up. And it's ok to let yourself feel bad about the situation, morn the loss of this season but focus on keeping yourself healthy and in the most positive mindset you can considering the situation. If you know you can help it, try to prevent yourself from dwelling on it, accept it and recognize it's just for now. That being said, if you feel like you can't help it, you feel like it is out of control, that would be the time to call your GP and get a name of someone to talk to about depression.
Once I could drive again (I have a manual car and I had surgery on my left leg so I was stuck for a hot minute) and the physical therapy was starting and I could walk, get around better, it was easier. I was pretty busy and not really thinking about things very much. I think the hardest section of the recovery was when I was strong enough to walk, but not strong enough to go out and do what I wanted to do. I was so used to just being able to do whatever and it wasn't a big deal but I felt stuck in my own body. I think the whole thing was an experience that made me more grateful for my ability to recover and appreciate what my body does for me. That's where I found my ability to remove that dampening sadness, in creating art, music, working on rebuilding my body. You'll be more active once physical therapy starts and everything. I suggest finding some creative outlets for yourself, maybe order yourself a guitar or ukulele and just feel the music.
Take care of yourself physically and mentally, good luck and feel better soon!
I agree with TWoods's suggestions, I just don't want to quote such a long post in addition to what I've added.
TWoodsYou either intentionally being an asshole, or you're real dumb and need to learn how to read.
Depression IS NOT Sadness, it's not "feelings" that you can change. It's a PHYSICAL ISSUE that has to do with your brain chemistry. How depression makes you feel is the symptom, not the condition itself.
Telling people to "suck it up" when the have depression is like telling someone to "just stop having cancer" or "walk off your broken leg". It doesn't work that way because it's a disease. Besides being stupid, it's really rude.
He didn't say anything about being "ungrateful". I'm sure he's very grateful he's not dead. It has nothing to do with being soft, it has to do with your brain fucking with you outside of your ability to control it.
**This post was edited on Jan 5th 2017 at 4:10:32pm
EmperorKuzcoHonestly bro I didnt want to get into this. Sorry if I offend you with my brash opinions I truly mean no disrespect and can understand where youre coming from it's just something I personally have never experienced and thus have no idea what it does to you. Please dont tell me you think alcoholism and drug addiction is the same thing as cancer as well thats where I draw the line.
SkierBetchOnce I could drive again (I have a manual car and I had surgery on my left leg so I was stuck for a hot minute)
danbrownHow long did that take? I drive stick and I have ACL surgery on my left knee next Thursday.