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PeppermillRenoDude when you live in the Reno casinos for months at a time you gotta take whatever dates you can get....lol. I actually have never used online dating at home its only been on travels but you honestly can't tell some of the best looking people honestly didn't have good profile pics it can be worth taking a chance. I have really really bad memory loss when I drink too which is weird because I don't get hungover but I've woken up next to people I don't remember meeting at all and have phone numbers or texts I don't remember its hard to not let curiosity get the better of you. The 2nd date when you can't remember meeting them usually doesn't go well in some cases its been good looking women who live in 2 million dollar spots too they are just whacked in the head.
This thread is about being led on and clearly a stage where you have just met someone and gotten a number but aren't exactly living together or in a relationship. Just saying 4 hours to respond to a text instead of 4 seconds can be a good idea. An immediate response can turn people off. Just saying what works don't be too nice in that stage.
If you get out of that stage and want to be with someone and its mutual treat them well and don't be a dick of course.
californiagrownWaiting 4 hours works because it implies you are actually busy and have stuff going on in your life... which makes you interesting, cool, and not boring.
It's real fucking easy to see through that facade if you are just waiting 4 hours as part of "the game".
Again, I've found it much easier to just be honest with your actions and words. If you don't play games she likely won't. If she does, let her know you aren't really into that... If you are just tryna fuck then women who play games are likely leading on 5+ men at the same time and you're just her Tuesday date.
But really, why do people message so much before asking out on a date? It doesn't make sense to me. You don't get to know someone by texting, you get to know them by talking and seeing how mentally quick they are, what their body language is like etc.
PS I'm sorry you had to live in Reno casinos... Shudder. No me gusta.
PeppermillRenoWell what you are complaining about is the spirit of this thread. Being expected to send a million texts and seem cool in them is hard.
Living in the casinos was cool needed some 'me' time. I've spent probably 500 nights in my life in Nevada and never slept in my car. Good times wish I was there right now little powder skiing crushing college basketball bets winter golf free booze etc etc etc very happy memories. Will return in March for my NCAA tournament trip with some skiing and golf mixed in. I like my house and all that but I really miss Reno. I know how to talk my way into a free suite upgrade at all the good hotels with a 5-10 dollar tip too rooms were always on point.
californiagrownSo, what's your dating problem? Seems like you have it figured out.
Or do you expect everyday to be handsome charming, funny and sweet? And are dissapointing when they aren't?
californiagrownIt always amazes me how afraid people are to just ask for things. Be nice, chat em up, and maybe slip a $20 and you can get seriously hooked up in this life.
Also, I don't get why people take sex so seriously. To me it's basically like playing tennis with someone... I don't really place any more importance on it. A relationship is something different, but just sex is just a fun athletic activity that feels good for everyone. It ain't that hard to just wrap it up.
PeppermillRenoDudes can be hard to get rid of and act desperate and thirsty. Its not hard to get rid of a girl you aren't interested in as a guy.
taylornicky"the game."
PeppermillRenoGuys know if they want to bang a girl before they even talk to her. Its basically predetermined. Even her being dull as a bag of rocks or mean and a bitch won't change that the dude will go home with her.
With women its different. You are always just a 'maybe' and being judged against every other guy she knows and for everything. And remember women change their minds and little mind games can make a big difference in how much they like you. You also really don't want to impress them early on because things can only go downhill from there.
californiagrownDon't base your percieved success of the night/date around getting laid. Have fun with your friends, meet new people and enjoy the good ones, laugh at the bad ones. That's it. If they want to hangout further, well, that's a bonus.
taylornickyJust be yourself.
cobra_commanderSociety started going downhill when we stopped burning them at the stake on random occasions. Witches, all of them.
cobra_commanderIt's mainly because girls are inherently evil twisted and spiteful beings.
It's why we don't pay them much and probably shouldn't let them drive or vote either.
Society started going downhill when we stopped burning them at the stake on random occasions. Witches, all of them.
RusticlesMany girls are just teases, they simply like the attention and want nothing more.
Many guys make the mistake of smothering women. If you think there is a slight chance you are doing this than you are definitely doing it. Try and take the approach of being friendly but act like you have better things to do. If there is one thing attractive women want it's a guy that can ignore them.
californiagrownDon't base your percieved success of the night/date around getting laid. Have fun with your friends, meet new people and enjoy the good ones, laugh at the bad ones. That's it. If they want to hangout further, well, that's a bonus.
first_rodeoThese boys nailed it.
pow_pow~You will pull more successfully if you aren't trying. don't try too hard, girls can sense it.
McNocheChicks lead guys on because there are pussies out there like Chubz and eheath. What do you expect when soft, ball-less men put women on a pedestal strictly because they fear women, and hope one will talk to them.
DirtYStylEPrecisely.
Basically, don't be a try hard with a girl like this guy is a try hard in this thread.
It does't work. Double cup is the perfect example.
If your always texting (quoting) a girl (other members in thread) your going to seem clingy and will become irrelevant (as demonstrated by McNoche)
McNocheI understand you crave attention, and you are simply just not that smart. I also understand you believe humor is your only "way out" as you just do not have much going for you.
Dude, this was a horrible post and you missed the mark by a mile. Feel bad about yourself.
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McNocheI will be honest with you, I did not read one sentence of this post. Congrats on being able to use the copy & paste feature.
Take a hike, cunt.
DirtYStylEThe first time a quoted you I copied a post from earlier in the thread. Bit slow there bud
edit: these disputes belong in my DM's. If you would like to continue this conversation. You know what to do
**This post was edited on Aug 6th 2018 at 6:04:22pm
