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Do you have any problems with people's pasts?

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.lencon
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Especially past relationships? Does anything bother you guys? Like dating/getting with women who constantly sleep around, have had 5 ways, vape (lol I hate my generation)?

I was told I need to "be more open minded" today... call me old fashioned but I told like to be with girls who havent lip slided every rail on the mountain and been in 5 ways


so I know things are in the past but some of that stuff just bothers me, what about you guys?
Jun 13 2016 8:21PM
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eheath
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There is a balance between a girl who's a whore and a girl with experience. You don't wanna sleep with a girl who's been with like two guys, she's probably is terrible in the sack, but you also don't wanna be with a girl who's been with all your boys, but the number doesn't matter really.

As long as they're clean and you enjoy being around them, the past relationships they've had (as long as there are still feelings) or number of guys she's slept with should not be a problem.
Jun 13 2016 8:27PM
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.lencon
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eheathThere is a balance between a girl who's a whore and a girl with experience. You don't wanna sleep with a girl who's been with like two guys, she's probably is terrible in the sack, but you also don't wanna be with a girl who's been with all your boys, but the number doesn't matter really.

As long as they're clean and you enjoy being around them, the past relationships they've had (as long as there are still feelings) or number of guys she's slept with should not be a problem.


you unstickyd my last thread? why?

is it cause of our past relationship?






but yeah I feel you there eheath, for some reason it just kinda bothers me sometimes
Jun 13 2016 8:31PM
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eheath
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S.J.W.you unstickyd my last thread? why?

is it cause of our past relationship?






but yeah I feel you there eheath, for some reason it just kinda bothers me sometimes


I didnt mean to sticky it, sorry boss.

And i know exactly what you're saying, but you gotta think about it from their point of view or hell, your own point of view (if youre a guy that sleeps with alot of girls, or wishes to, etc) i have tons of friends who have taken down an offensive amount of women in their lives, but I would find myself not judging them, then Id hear of some girl sleeping with a few of my friends and id judge that person.

One day I just realized its the same fucking thing and all the matters is the present, that is unless they got the herp or something.
Jun 13 2016 8:35PM
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GShields
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It shouldn't be a problem. It can sometimes feel like they might still have feelings for an ex or something, but they broke up for a reason.

So I think the past should stay in the past, and it really shouldn't matter that much.

Unless their past consisted of murdering their lovers
Jun 13 2016 8:40PM
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270on420out
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I read this as "do you have problems with people's pastas"
Jun 13 2016 8:44PM
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.lencon
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THEDIRTYBUBBLEI read this as "do you have problems with people's pastas"


if it ain't mac n cheese or Alfredo then yes I do
Jun 13 2016 8:59PM
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GregFlik
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I totally get what you are saying.

It bothers me a lot, but that's before I get to know them. For me, on tinder especially just don't ask, ignorance in bliss and you really need to have a lot of bliss on Tinder.

But here's a curve ball. What if she dated lets say 2 guys in 3 years, but got railed hard every damn day? And not just hard in what the typical definition is, but "She needed to wear a mouth guard and had to be cleared of a concussion" hard.
Jun 13 2016 11:53PM
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270on420out
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Girls who constantly sleep around will probably cheat on you if you end up dating. I'm speaking from personal experience.


People's pasts sometimes bother me. I know guys who use to be real pieces of shit, but now they're pretty cool. But sometimes you can just feel their past lives resonating off of them.
Jun 14 2016 12:37AM
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altie29
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S.J.W.Especially past relationships? Does anything bother you guys? Like dating/getting with women who constantly sleep around, have had 5 ways, vape (lol I hate my generation)?

I was told I need to "be more open minded" today... call me old fashioned but I told like to be with girls who havent lip slided every rail on the mountain and been in 5 ways


so I know things are in the past but some of that stuff just bothers me, what about you guys?


give it time. you'll find the right girl soon enough..





jk OP is ugly
Jun 14 2016 1:09AM
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swisssteeze
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THEDIRTYBUBBLEI read this as "do you have problems with people's pastas"


Same ^^
Jun 14 2016 3:37AM
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Dddsz
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The girls that I dated in the past tried to get me to go to movies or some stupid shit like that instead of skiing when I had off from work... now I don't want relationships.
Jun 14 2016 3:50PM
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californiagrown
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As long as they are disease free, all that matters is I'm into her. I realized a while ago that a hot girl who is also cool has fucked her fair share of guys... why wouldn't she? She likes dick as much as you like pussy, and if hot pussy was getting thrown your way constantly, wouldn't you probably take advantage? Especially from 20-24 years of age?
Jun 14 2016 4:19PM
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LiquorLanch
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californiagrownAs long as they are disease free, all that matters is I'm into her. I realized a while ago that a hot girl who is also cool has fucked her fair share of guys... why wouldn't she? She likes dick as much as you like pussy, and if hot pussy was getting thrown your way constantly, wouldn't you probably take advantage? Especially from 20-24 years of age?


Usually how a person carries themselves and talks speaks more to who they are as a person than their number. Let's face it, it's not all that hard for an attractive girl in college to get laid. So many of friends have been catcalled, hit on etc...even when not wanted. I was at the bar the other night and some dude just bought one of the girls I was with a rose. One of my very good friends got out of a relationship recently and had 5 different guys ask her out on dates within a week of the break up.

That being said, we all know that guy or girl who will bang anything and that's usually where I draw the line.

ps y'all aint fucking with my orrichiette.
Jun 14 2016 8:46PM
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Peter.
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i could care less what happened in their past, i just don't want to hear about it. the less i know the better
Jun 14 2016 9:36PM
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Chubz.
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Peter.i could care less what happened in their past, i just don't want to hear about it. the less i know the better


This.
Jun 14 2016 10:13PM
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snowpocalypse
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As long as both people are consenting, clean and of age, who is to judge. I've done some depraved things back in the day, along with the girls I never even got a first name. I have a daughter now so my prospective has changed a little but the fact still remains let he who is with out sin cast the first stone.
Jun 15 2016 1:12PM
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Brue
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S.J.W getting some bad bitches ;)

But on a serious note, if a girl gets with a guy after me I'm not going to ever pursue her. I'd only consider being a thing or dating a girl that has only gotten with me recently. Unless I really liked the girl and even then idk
Jun 16 2016 6:07PM
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HamFaceGirl
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Peter.i could care less what happened in their past, i just don't want to hear about it. the less i know the better


*couldn't


Why don't you tell us about your past Peter????
Jun 16 2016 9:33PM
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Peter.
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HamFaceGirl*couldn't


Why don't you tell us about your past Peter????


Fight me nerd
Jun 16 2016 10:33PM
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PeppermillReno
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If you got a tiny dick you should be worried when your girl is around any of her ex's. Unless you know they do to.


Other than that only a complete loser would worry about shit like this. Unless you are talking about someone dripping in stds like a sex industry worker or a chick well into the triple digits you are nothing but an insecure tool if you think about these things.


Dudes are a different story if this is about friends don't ignore someones past if you know a guy is a snake avoid them and if they don't keep their word don't do business with them.
Jun 16 2016 11:02PM
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altie29
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you seem experienced with tiny dicks
Jun 17 2016 7:46PM
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McNoche
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I have a tiny dick, and people have a problem with my past
Jun 17 2016 7:51PM
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GShields
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Peter.i could care less what happened in their past, i just don't want to hear about it. the less i know the better


Amazing song
Jun 17 2016 11:09PM
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hemlockjibber8
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A 5-some? Dude, you should start training right now. You're in for a ride.
Jun 18 2016 11:14AM
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