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Deciphering Guys

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ramoose_jc
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I am a freshman in a boarding HS and I am kinda confused about this guy I met on our ski trip. It was a four day trip and we ditched everybody else so we could hang out alone. Everyone thought that we were dating so we decided to say we were just really good friends.

When we got back to school he started being a douche bag and always teases me whether over text or in person. I am not sure if he actually likes me or not.

Please don't be jerks in this thread. I know it sucks, but if you can help, help.
Feb 14 2016 8:28PM
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edai
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Act like you dont know him thatll do the trick. You just need to be a bigger bitch to him than he is to you
Feb 14 2016 8:30PM
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Crispy.
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90% of highschool freshman boys are fucks...89% of all high school boys are fucks. You're young it will get better
Feb 14 2016 8:41PM
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theabortionator
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Feb 14 2016 8:45PM
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.Hugo.
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Play hard to get. Guys love a challenge
Feb 14 2016 10:08PM
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ModMommy
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Is he a freshman?
Just be straight up with him.
Feb 14 2016 10:13PM
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ohmyglob8
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young guys suck, if he's teasing most likely he doesn't know how to flirt and thats how he shows it. most likely he's into u, ask if he wants to chill like a relaxed situation like getting ice cream or some shit like that where its really easy to dip out. half the time getting guys alone that are young like that they act differently so hell prob be nice and show he likes u or some shit. and if not forget his ass and move on.
Feb 14 2016 10:36PM
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byubound
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Like everyone else said, he's probably into you and just doesnt know how to show it. Just ask him if he wants to hang out, actually asking him out on a date or whatever is probably too much pressure for a guy still in the teasing girls stage.
Feb 15 2016 12:02AM
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S.J.W
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dude is probably into you if he's teasing you so much. Just be upfront with him. Guys are shit when it comes to expressing feelings.
Feb 15 2016 12:17AM
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Chubz.
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Borty


Dope post
Feb 15 2016 1:12AM
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CabbyArrant
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ramoose_jcI am a freshman in a boarding HS and I am kinda confused about this guy I met on our ski trip. It was a four day trip and we ditched everybody else so we could hang out alone. Everyone thought that we were dating so we decided to say we were just really good friends.

When we got back to school he started being a douche bag and always teases me whether over text or in person. I am not sure if he actually likes me or not.

Please don't be jerks in this thread. I know it sucks, but if you can help, help.


He likes you.
Feb 15 2016 1:14AM
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Chubz.
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This thread is too innocent hahah
Feb 15 2016 1:16AM
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CabbyArrant
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ramoose_jcI am a freshman in a boarding HS and I am kinda confused about this guy I met on our ski trip. It was a four day trip and we ditched everybody else so we could hang out alone. Everyone thought that we were dating so we decided to say we were just really good friends.

When we got back to school he started being a douche bag and always teases me whether over text or in person. I am not sure if he actually likes me or not.

Please don't be jerks in this thread. I know it sucks, but if you can help, help.


In my experience teasing (not harassing) is a good way to stay out of the friend zone. If a guy has no interest in a girl he typically just wouldn't talk to her at all. If he likes her at all he usually jokes around and teases her and other bullshit. Generally the guy is rude enough to keep the girl from wanting to be friends but charming enough to keep the girls interest. I was never very good at this but it is a common tool among guys. I can't say for certain this is what is happening because I may be dead wrong but this is what I feel is happening.
Feb 15 2016 1:22AM
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deleted5
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He's waiting for you to put out and/or mad you didn't. The second you do he's going to kick you to the curb. I know those from first hand experience, I was a dick in high school.
Feb 15 2016 1:40AM
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killabees
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slay that highschool dick
Feb 15 2016 6:30AM
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ramoose_jc
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safarisamIs he a freshman?
Just be straight up with him.


He's a sophomore but close enough.
Feb 15 2016 7:51AM
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theBearJew
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He likes you and is embaressed about it because hes probably immature and somewhere he picked up that being a dick to girls is the cool thing to do.

OR

He doesnt like you and played you on the ski trip to try and get some, now he dropped you cause you didnt put out.
Feb 15 2016 9:43AM
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no_steeze
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This is literally the age where the majority of people are at their absolute worst in terms of acting like douchebags and improperly expressing feelings. Just take everything with a grain of salt and remember 95% of your classmates will look back in 5 years and think "wow I fucking sucked at that age"
Feb 15 2016 10:44AM
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addie.
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Prepare yourself for the best but expect the worst. Be straight with him. Tell him how you feel, and ask him what he expects. If he doesn't give you the answer you want he isn't worth it, there will be plenty of other guys at your school that will be way cooler than him :)
Feb 15 2016 3:41PM
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Deepskier
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Nah so just act like you are going to give him a hand job and when he pulls it out laugh and tell him if he is ever mean to you again you will tell everyone how small his dick is. Then when is been nice for a while let him hit it.
Feb 15 2016 11:17PM
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