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ghosthopdidn't you post somewhere recently about how you fell in love with some dopefiend who stole all your shit and ruined your life? This probably isn't a reoccurring trend, biggest weed dealer is pretty much the same as motivated and entrepreneurial
my mom has always been super tolerant of the shitty girls I bring home on occasion, although she was disappointed when I agreed that my instafamous catch was cute enough to overlook the complete stupidity
The most confusing thing is she wants absolutely no mention of my sex life but there is always a box of condoms in my bathroom vanity.
ghosthopdidn't you post somewhere recently about how you fell in love with some dopefiend who stole all your shit and ruined your life? This probably isn't a reoccurring trend, biggest weed dealer is pretty much the same as motivated and entrepreneurial
my mom has always been super tolerant of the shitty girls I bring home on occasion, although she was disappointed when I agreed that my instafamous catch was cute enough to overlook the complete stupidity
The most confusing thing is she wants absolutely no mention of my sex life but there is always a box of condoms in my bathroom vanity.
japanadaThe biggest problem in your love life is the fact he doesnt ski race? Lol is this what HS/MS has come to nowdays.
Richwhitepeopleproblems
zee.wenchAHH FUCK THIS WAS sUpPOSED TO BE IN LADY GABBER
zee.wenchTha was a year ago. He did crack. Way different.
Profahoben_212For real.
How old are you? If you aren't comfortable bringing him home he probably isn't marriage worthy...so why are you dating him? Unless you are just looking to fuck for a while...or you're in highschool.
If the only reason your dad wouldn't approve of him is because he doesn't race...then he definitely doesnt seem like he is too open minded. Quite the opposite actually.
zee.wenchI understand what type of skier you are shouldn't define your personality and I shouldn't have used that generalization. It's just the lifestyle my dad is most comfotable with. Hes an older dude so he is a little more biased towards the other ends of the spectrum. I also disagree with the fact that I should only date based on marriage. I am also not looking to just "fuck" either.
With this thread being accidentaly posted in this forum I have come to the realization that if I'm happy It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Thanks guys.
And I've also realized that I meant to say he LOOKS like he could be the biggest weed dealer in the area. Pretty sure he isn't... At least I hope he isnt.
Profahoben_212Hey of he makes you happy....then it's okay. Your parents will hopefully see that he makes you happy.
You should probably find out details like if he deals weed before getting too invested though hahahaha
zee.wenchI was kidding haha. He definately doesnt.
safarisamRacing doesn't define personalities.
Byron_tha_gr8Neither does skiing. It's a nice bonus, but OP should really branch out. Sound like she's limiting herself to pretty small groups of guys if you compare it to all the other options out there.
Skiing can be a nice bonus in a partner, but you should be fine with it not being something you have in common.
PeppermillRenoI
I dated a girl who had an ex in jail and dumped her ass and unfriended her on FB and ignored all her calls because she went to visit him. She was warned not to.
ghosthopthe crackhead personality trait wasn't some sort of red flag?
zee.wenchI understand what type of skier you are shouldn't define your personality and I shouldn't have used that generalization. It's just the lifestyle my dad is most comfotable with. Hes an older dude so he is a little more biased towards the other ends of the spectrum. I also disagree with the fact that I should only date based on marriage. I am also not looking to just "fuck" either.
With this thread being accidentaly posted in this forum I have come to the realization that if I'm happy It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Thanks guys.
And I've also realized that I meant to say he LOOKS like he could be the biggest weed dealer in the area. Pretty sure he isn't... At least I hope he isnt.
zee.wenchI was kidding haha. He definately doesnt.
Deforestation(2) What makes someone look like a weed dealer? Everyone knows the best dealers don't dabble in their own product
connecticuntI am too experienced in the ways of dating people that parents wouldn't approve of. An expert even. And my expert advice is, if there's a good reason that your parents wouldn't like the person (besides the bullshit reason that "he doesn't run gates so my dad won't like him") then you probably shouldn't date that person.
Most parents are extremely good at judging personalities and wanting the best for their children even if you don't want to believe it because you think that the biggest pot dealer in your high school would make a good long term significant other. They don't. If there's a good reason to not bring someone home to your parents there's a good reason not to date them. Or more likely in this case, hold their hand during recess.
BogsFrom my experience, most drug dealers aren't exactly great at what they do.
This. You're clearly young and stupid, op, and think your parents just want to ruin your life and that you're far wiser than them with more life experience. But you're not. You're a dumb little shit who probably struggles with telling the difference between your ear and your asshole.
Since you're young and stupid I'm going to say this once and only once, so listen good. Your parents want what's best for you. If they disapprove of the type of guy you usually date, there's a good reason for it, and if this crackhead stealing your shit story is true, it sounds like they're right. So listen to them. You'll look back on this in 5 years and think to yourself "goddamn what a stupid little asshole I was for dating those guys, why didn't I just listen to my folks?"
I guarantee it.
Huck_NorrisSomebody skipped Broads 101.
BogsWell you're not wrong there.
I guess I'm past adhering to the old, romanticized notion of "if you're not intentionally fucking up your life you aren't having fun or living" bullshit.
Huck_NorrisThe fact that you don't get it bodes well for your future fwiw.
BogsFrom my experience, most drug dealers aren't exactly great at what they do.
This. You're clearly young and stupid, op, and think your parents just want to ruin your life and that you're far wiser than them with more life experience. But you're not. You're a dumb little shit who probably struggles with telling the difference between your ear and your asshole.
Since you're young and stupid I'm going to say this once and only once, so listen good. Your parents want what's best for you. If they disapprove of the type of guy you usually date, there's a good reason for it, and if this crackhead stealing your shit story is true, it sounds like they're right. So listen to them. You'll look back on this in 5 years and think to yourself "goddamn what a stupid little asshole I was for dating those guys, why didn't I just listen to my folks?"
I guarantee it.
zee.wenchWowch. You really stuck it to me huh? This isn't about me being a rebellious fucktard who doesnt want to listen to my parents. I'm way past that. I realized a long ass time ago that my parents know whats best for me, and they think whats best for me is what makes me happy. I might have dated one or two not so great guys but thats in the past and yes, I do look back and realize I probably could've made a better decision. I made a mistake. I'm human. Whoops.
