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So I'm 16, virgin, single. I have the opportunity to have sex with a girl, sober, with no strings attached, and no one else will know. I'm someone with pretty high morals, and I feel guilty when I do bad things. A part of me is telling me to go for it and get some experience. The girl is attractive that's not part of the question. Another part of me is like you're gonna feel like shit after. Should I do it?
Dude its a natural urge and with no strings attached no one will get hurt if it is one time. If you want to do it go for it, if you don't want to don't do it. I don't see what the problem is here.
Sounds like a classic case of a teenage dude being pressured to lose your virginity from society. If you don't feel comfortable with it, don't do it. Period. If it's awkward now it'll be awkward during and then more awkward after. Odds are you'll develop feelings for her and that's a tough situation to be in if she doesn't as well. So is she dateable? That should be a big deciding factor.
That being said, there's no shame in being a virgin. When you find a girl that you mutually care for, she won't hold it against you, at any age, when sexy time comes around. Unless she's a bitch. Then you shouldn't be wasting your time with her anyway.
CheddarJackSounds like a classic case of a teenage dude being pressured to lose your virginity from society. If you don't feel comfortable with it, don't do it. Period. If it's awkward now it'll be awkward during and then more awkward after. Odds are you'll develop feelings for her and that's a tough situation to be in if she doesn't as well. So is she dateable? That should be a big deciding factor.
That being said, there's no shame in being a virgin. When you find a girl that you mutually care for, she won't hold it against you, at any age, when sexy time comes around. Unless she's a bitch. Then you shouldn't be wasting your time with her anyway.
Sir, youve been given a golden ticket to losing your virginity..Im gonna be working my ass off with the current girl Im talking to just to even date. Dont fuck this chance up, go get pussy and become a man!
I would say i have quite high morals aswell and from my experience unless youre 100% sure you want to do it, you will regret it after, its happened to me and ive just learned to only go for it if im fully feeling it, especially if its your first time
I have the same opportunity, yesterday a girl I've kinda been talking to asked if I wanted to have sex no strings attached. I said yes but the deed has not been done yet
Titus69Sir, youve been given a golden ticket to losing your virginity..Im gonna be working my ass off with the current girl Im talking to just to even date. Dont fuck this chance up, go get pussy and become a man!
Don't listen to this person. If you arn't 100% sure about it don't do it.
Sex is a good thing. However, you need to feel comfortable with the person for your first time. Make it special. You'll always remember your first time. No strings attached isn't always a great thing....
You'll know when it's right.
P.S be smart and rubber up. Don't trust your pull out game on the first go round.
To be honest man the foolproof way of telling if you should have sex with her or not is to jerk off to her, and if afterwards you still wanna bang her then go for it, but if you feel weird afterwards then leave her hanging
Honestly the mind is never as clear and tranquil as it is after jerking off
If you have to ask if you should or not (on anything), you prolly shouldn't do it. Don't rush stuff like that, find someone you really like who you care about and who cares about you, get to know them, date them, that crap. Don't just lose your virginity to lose it, lose it with someone special ;)
If this is a serious question and the OP isn't biting this girls arm off for the chance to bang I think the sex he really wants is the sex which involves him being mounted and not doing the mounting.
And there is nothing wrong with that just we all know you probably jerk off to guys if you are asking this so do whatever you want sexually and be free to be yourself noone owns you create your own reality and enjoy getting some.
CheddarJackSounds like a classic case of a teenage dude being pressured to lose your virginity from society. If you don't feel comfortable with it, don't do it. Period. If it's awkward now it'll be awkward during and then more awkward after. Odds are you'll develop feelings for her and that's a tough situation to be in if she doesn't as well. So is she dateable? That should be a big deciding factor.
That being said, there's no shame in being a virgin. When you find a girl that you mutually care for, she won't hold it against you, at any age, when sexy time comes around. Unless she's a bitch. Then you shouldn't be wasting your time with her anyway.
She's defiantly not date able, her personality kinda disgusts me. So I'm leaning more towards no
crotchventDon't do it working in IT would be the most boring job ever.
Minus not being drug tested, little to no discrimination, and a job that pays well without abundant physical labor. Who cares if it is kinda boring. Staying on subject, OP should loose his V Card when it is not planned.
bruh this is like the best situation you can be in. No strings attached is the best shit ever, but one of you will catch feelings, don't be that one and you'll be fine
Read this. Not because it's really gonna help you make your decision, but because it's funny.
Also, I didn't write it. I took it from NS member DJSTEVVVIANIAAA (or something like that), who took if from someone else. Here ya go.
When I was 17 my girlfriend at the time was finally ready to have sex. I, as one might expect of a 17 year old, was excited. Neither hell nor high water was going to stand between me and my final destination.
I get ready for the night, trim everything up, shower extra well. Unfortunately there was also an issue. I have a digestional disorder that sometimes cause my shit to become large and quite solid while still inside me. I wasn't aware it was a treatable problem and, in fact, just thought everyone had to deal with the equivalent of anal kidney stones. I bring this up because I had a mighty one which had been loaded into the gun for several days.
Let me set the scene. Her parents are away. We have her house to ourselves. She was always a little kinky so she demands we do it in her parents bed.
I walk in to a candle holocaust. She's been working on this all day apparently, and its as bright as high noon in there with the lights off. Which is good, because she proceeds to do a sweet, sexy little dance for me. At 16, she was AMAZING. For those of you who never experienced a female at that age, I pity the fool.
Now I'm sitting on the bed, watching this dance. I smile and tell her how good she looks. Unfortunately, most of my attention is focused on the dull throbbing from my sphincter and the large amount of intestinal discomfort associated with not dropping duce in days. But somehow I still get hard and we go to town.
She starts out on top, then we switch. I bend her over the bed, and I even smack her ass (a ballsy move at the time, but she loved it). Due to my built up distraction, I last for what seems like FOREVER. She can't stop moaning and telling me how good it feels, and then she says what every man wants to hear "I want to make you go in my mouth." I **** love women.
So she goes down on me. She was always average at best in the head department but at least she tried. She pops my **** out of her mouth long enough to look up at me and say "tell me if you like this". Then I feel it.
She stuck her finger up my ass.
My brain hits the panic switch and every muscle in my entire body locks up tighter than a three year old virgin. But its too late.
I take a massive, PAINFUL, PAINFUL shit, all over her parents comforter.
No, you aren't understanding. I mean large. Huge. IMMENSE. Take your largest shit and multiple it by forty-two and you'll have an idea of what flew out of me.
And gents, when I say flew, I don't mean "I pooped." I mean "projectile". I mean "hurricane force winds hitting an umbrella stand". And due to my condition, it comes out as a large, dark brown, smelly harpoon.
I know it hit her. I didn't see it. She ran screaming "OH MY GOD OHMYGODOHMYGODEEEEEWWWWWWWW" but I always imagined that, due to her position, it hit her right in the chin. Or at least the tits.
I would like to say I got up to go after her. But I heard the bathroom door shut and I just lied there. The smell hit me after a few seconds. It smelled like someone rolled a cat in shit and threw it into a tire fire. I looked down and saw, to date, the largest bowel movement I've ever heard of laying on the bed. Then I noticed the blood, and when I did, I noticed the pain.
Apparently the fact that it was so large caused it to rip my ass a little bit (thought I was bleeding from the inside. This little doctors trip the next day is what taught me of my condition). There was a small pool of blood where my ass had been. A final reminder of the exact place and moment I lost my virginity. I will treasure this memory for all my days.
I grab my shit with my hands and go to the downstairs bathroom. I throw around 1/3 into the toilet and flush, fearing any more will clog it and only add to my already significant woes.
I stand there, holding 2/3's of my biggest shit of all time, feeling a trickle of blood flow down my leg, trying to ignore the sharp pain stabbing my rectum. I find myself wishing I had a photo of this.
Anyway, I finish flushing my baby, clean off my hands, jam toilet paper between my cheeks (I skipped the bandaid) and went upstairs. I could hear my girlfriend sobbing from behind the bathroom door. I decided not to say anything to her and just keep moving. The smell in her parents room was abysmal. Its like when you take a shit and walk out of the bathroom you think "hey not so bad today," but then you walk back in to grab your magazine and go "HOLY SHIT!". It was one of those moments.
The scene is burned behind my eyelids for all time. My life. My shame. My very first time smelled like a pile of dead babies. I quickly got dressed since the heat from ten thousand candles was making the room feel more like a port-a-potty. I was aware enough to grab the comforter on my way out and drag it downstairs to their washer. Also the top and bottom sheets since the blood had leaked on through all the way to mattress. Still no sign of the GF but at this point I considered it a blessing.
I jammed in the washer with 3 loads worth of detergent and set it on spin, knowing that not even the hand of God would save these linens, let alone Tide and Snuggles.
Then I left. I avoided my GF's calls for days until she came to my house. We had a long talk about what happened. Talk being synonymous with "breaking up with me because I shit on her". And it was all over. She promised not to tell a soul and I don't THINK she ever did. She was probably as ashamed as I was about the whole deed. But I will always this happening as the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to me.
ski-hippieShe's defiantly not date able, her personality kinda disgusts me. So I'm leaning more towards no
OK....so shes a ho.
In 2 years when your still a virgin and she offers you the booty you will probably say yes out of frustration/desperation cause you could have gotten laid 2 years earlier but pussed out. You won't turn it down.
And you'll be angry as a mo fo that you didn't tap that before 20 other homies from your town did. Or start hitting it while you could bang her without a condom and not catch shit.
I remember kids having this discussion freshman year that they didn't want to lose their v cards to their horny ass average girlfriends who were ready but they wanted it to be with someone hotter. I always thought they were being gay as fuck. None of those dudes are successful right now like me at age 30 pretty financially comfortable taking multiple expensive ski trips a year.
Ive been made fun of in high school and even middle school for banging an average not that hot chick. I got mad shit for a couple who ended up being pretty cute especially one black girl but weren't peaking age 13/14. I wish I knew now what I did then cause I'd have gone back for more I kind of listened to the bullying and never banged them again in high school. THat is sort of a regret.
Dude if shes below your standards line up another average chick to bang later that night so you have a good story to tell and in case you are disappointed.
I want to be all "don't let society pressure you yada yada yada" and "wait for the right girl" etc, but at the same time, it could be good to get it over with so you don't have it hanging over your head for the next couple of years. Chances are it's gonna be awkward as fuck whether you're with some rando or with the girl of your dreams
idk. I would probably send it if I were you just to get it over with. Have fun deciding
ski-hippieSo I'm 16, virgin, single. I have the opportunity to have sex with a girl, sober, with no strings attached, and no one else will know. I'm someone with pretty high morals, and I feel guilty when I do bad things. A part of me is telling me to go for it and get some experience. The girl is attractive that's not part of the question. Another part of me is like you're gonna feel like shit after. Should I do it?
You'll probably feel pretty awesome after, unless you have some rare medical condition. I get what you're saying though about morals.
There's nothing wrong with having sex. I mean look at it this way. Have you ever masturbated? Apparently Jesus is watching you and getting pissed about that anyway. Might as well bring a decent looking girl into the equation.
And regardless of morality, wrap that that up because I'm assuming you're a similar age, and nobody wants a kid when they're 17.
That said do whatever you want though. I don't care if you buy a purity ring instead and wait till you're 51 to meet the girl of your dreams and finally get married, get some action.
Do whatever you want to do. All I'm saying is that no wizard in the sky is gong to strike you down with lightning for trying to get a little action.
In 2 years when your still a virgin and she offers you the booty you will probably say yes out of frustration/desperation cause you could have gotten laid 2 years earlier but pussed out. You won't turn it down.
And you'll be angry as a mo fo that you didn't tap that before 20 other homies from your town did. Or start hitting it while you could bang her without a condom and not catch shit.
I remember kids having this discussion freshman year that they didn't want to lose their v cards to their horny ass average girlfriends who were ready but they wanted it to be with someone hotter. I always thought they were being gay as fuck. None of those dudes are successful right now like me at age 30 pretty financially comfortable taking multiple expensive ski trips a year.
Ive been made fun of in high school and even middle school for banging an average not that hot chick. I got mad shit for a couple who ended up being pretty cute especially one black girl but weren't peaking age 13/14. I wish I knew now what I did then cause I'd have gone back for more I kind of listened to the bullying and never banged them again in high school. THat is sort of a regret.
Dude if shes below your standards line up another average chick to bang later that night so you have a good story to tell and in case you are disappointed.
CheddarJackSounds like a classic case of a teenage dude being pressured to lose your virginity from society. If you don't feel comfortable with it, don't do it. Period. If it's awkward now it'll be awkward during and then more awkward after. Odds are you'll develop feelings for her and that's a tough situation to be in if she doesn't as well. So is she dateable? That should be a big deciding factor.
That being said, there's no shame in being a virgin. When you find a girl that you mutually care for, she won't hold it against you, at any age, when sexy time comes around. Unless she's a bitch. Then you shouldn't be wasting your time with her anyway.
This is good advice. Also I don't know the details here but I feel I should point out that often with girls - especially 16 year old girls - "no strings attached" actually means "a whole lot of strings attached" once you've done the deed. It wouldn't surprise me AT ALL if she's pinterest-planning your wedding after you guys have sex. Jus sayin.
