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what to do about a totally un-shibby buddy

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davidh
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So I've been 'hanging out' with this girl for awhile. We werent really a couple, but she was my girlfriend, if that makes any sense. This girl is pretty hot (probably hotter than I deserve) and my buddy became interested in her after I introduced them. I was taking things really slow with her because she's never had a boyfriend, etc. and so I'd never made a move, and neither had she. I was fine with that because she's really cool and fun to hang out with and it was going to happen eventually. I had had a 'heart to heart' type thing with my buddy like three nights ago and he knew how I felt and all that, but he took her out to dinner anyway, and now they're a couple because she's moving back to Australia in a couple months and he's moving back to Australia in a month. So my question is this: what should I do? I've never been in this situation before. I dont really dislike the guy; she is hot and I would have at least thought about doing the same thing. The difference is that I would have stuck to thinking, and not actually doing. I'm not broken up at all about losing the girl (why would I be?), but I'm pretty pissed at my buddy because, well, I saw her first. I'm not going to hold a grudge (for very long) but I was wondering if I should do anything about it or just let it slide. Am I in the right or wrong here?
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Jan 13 2005 11:03AM
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SchweitzerSki
Posts: 4479 - Karma: 11
stab him in the heart with a big knife. that's not even right. same thing happened to my sister she got her 'lover' stolen by her best friend. that just makes me mad reading about it. maybe he's jealous of you or he's gay and has a big crush on you and doesn't want to see you with other women.
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Jan 13 2005 11:08AM
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NoTeefa
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it's your fault for not making a move ya big sissy bitch
Jan 13 2005 11:14AM
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BxB
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dude, no offence, but he has pretty much every right to have that chick. I mean if u were to slow to make the move, to bad. Ha seems like kinda an ass response but its true, dont worry buddy their are plenty of fish in the sea, dont beat urself up over it.

Woman are like rocks; Skip the flat ones.

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Jan 13 2005 11:15AM
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SchweitzerSki
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^yeah but after having a heart to heart talk with my friend about a girl and he turns around and takes her, i think you'd be pretty pissed off too. It's not like the friend had no idea. he had been informed that davidh was digging this chick. that's not cool
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Jan 13 2005 11:17AM
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BxB
Posts: 809 - Karma: 38
well, it all depends, like if i had a friend who liked this super duper hot chick like paris hilton, and i knew i had a chance with her, i would tap that shit sooooo fast. But if she was like not that super duper hot and i still tapped her even though my friend liked her, that wouldnt be cool.

Woman are like rocks; Skip the flat ones.

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Jan 13 2005 11:20AM
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Ice-Is-Scary
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If you truely like her and want her to be happy, then you will be ok with whatever choice she wants to make!
Just kidding, kick the shit out of your friend and never talk to either of them again.
But in reality if shes moving back to australia and you don't plan on moving to a shitty country then what does it matter anyway?


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Jan 13 2005 11:21AM
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davidh
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Maybe I'll photoshop a picture of him in a gay bar and email it to all his friends. Would that do him justice? I have something already, let me post it
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'I don't like people who take drugs... Customs men for example.'


Jan 13 2005 11:25AM
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Huckasorass
Posts: 1737 - Karma: 80
Dont wait ever, jump on that shit and giver the old HotBeefInjection to make her wanna stay, then take a dump on your buddies head when he's sleeping
Jan 13 2005 11:28AM
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davidh
Posts: 4219 - Karma: 8
I honestly wasnt in love with the girl. Today he was just like 'we're going out, by the way. I hope you dont mind.'

anyway, ya. simple head on someone else's body. I love these things.

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no,my parents didnt go to college, my dad has a grade 9 education and my mom is a stupid slut -lateralis

'I don't like people who take drugs... Customs men for example.'


Jan 13 2005 11:34AM
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Huckasorass
Posts: 1737 - Karma: 80
/\ thats fuskin awesome hahahaha
Jan 13 2005 11:39AM
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420jibber420
Posts: 117 - Karma: 10
'we're going out, by the way. I hope you dont mind.'
Your fist was suposed to be in his face before he finished this phrase. And now you lost all the momentum.

Jan 13 2005 11:44AM
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davidh
Posts: 4219 - Karma: 8
besides the fact that he could kick my ass, it's not worth fighting over. I dont really hate him or anything, I'm just a little shocked that he could be that bold. Oh well, I'll prolly just send him a strongly worded email and he'll apologize. Wait, he still ends up with the girl in that plan. FUCK
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no,my parents didnt go to college, my dad has a grade 9 education and my mom is a stupid slut -lateralis

'I don't like people who take drugs... Customs men for example.'


Jan 13 2005 11:48AM
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420jibber420
Posts: 117 - Karma: 10
Dude it's not about fighting just a symbolic punch in the face to show him how you really feel about it. And then if he is bigger than you he probly woudnlt expect it from you and unexpectancy is the best weapon. You can knock out all the beef out of him with none punch too.
Jan 13 2005 11:58AM
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BxB
Posts: 809 - Karma: 38
dude he just rubbed dat shit in yo face. cap his ass foo

Woman are like rocks; Skip the flat ones.

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Jan 13 2005 12:04PM
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lipen69
Posts: 2301 - Karma: 16
stab him
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Jan 13 2005 12:05PM
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winterkid33
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This happened to me I let it go cause I didnt like her that much more then friends we just had one really great night really bonded connected. My best friend liked her too I wasnt really puttin strong moves on her mainly cause I didnt like her that much. but they went out after the first month she wanted me. they broke up and she still wants me its kinda nice bein able to say ' shoulda took it while you had it'. It did piss me off when it happened though its kinda like, what the fuck! are you serious?!?!? but It wasnt exactly a heartbreak.

sometimes I can, like, read peoples minds... its like I have Espn or something...

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Jan 15 2005 11:14PM
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alpinecowboy84
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thats fuckin unreal dude, he completely swooped you. i would be extremely pissed and that entirely qualifies as douchebag-ish. the only reason you ever dis someone like that is if you're completely in love with the girl


jackson sucks. tell your friends.



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Jan 17 2005 2:02AM
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aclsarescary
Posts: 4010 - Karma: 31
see, you fight him, he may win but whatever, you guys spend week not saying anything to each other, then you'll be buds again. Its just a natural male brawl. You should prolly have one with your friend at some point.
Jan 17 2005 4:05AM
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Sinister
Posts: 1456 - Karma: 10
Maybe u should grab a couple of beers and sit around a campfire and get some pipes and bud and next morning both of u go spend a morning in the park (or ripping some lines)
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Jan 17 2005 4:08AM
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Sdot
Posts: 2289 - Karma: 15
LAME. He's an ugly little shit, too. If he ever gets engaged, video tape you fucking his fiance in the ass the night before their wedding and give it to him as a wedding present.





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Jan 17 2005 4:34AM
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aclsarescary
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ummmmmm, yummy.
Jan 17 2005 5:02AM
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alpinecowboy84
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the question is does he even think he did anything wrong, or that you might think it was wrong of him?

jackson sucks. tell your friends.



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Jan 17 2005 5:08AM
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*Fujative*
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hahaha sucks for you
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