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Dating an 18 year old

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BrothsTopaz
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Hey what's up NSers?! Here's the deal, I go to school, I'm 23 and I met a girl in class that's 18. Super pretty, good vibes and pretty mature. Well we're starting to get into each other and she tells me that myself being older isn't a problem, but I feel like I should find girls more of my age. Honestly, I haven't met any cool girls Like her at my age; It should be the opposite. What do you guys think? Go thru with it, try things out? Is it considered out of my territory and therefore, kinda weird?

Thanks a lot gents and ladies
Oct 16 2015 3:32PM
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YoungGun.
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BrothsTopazI went into the marine Corps when I got out of high school. I'm in my second year of college. Thanks for your input though.


Rah
Oct 18 2015 8:03PM
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SterlingArcher
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become her friend and get some intel.

if she's into the kardashians or teen mom bail out.

probably 95% of girls under mid 20's don't know what the fuck the want and get bored of guys quick. You're 23.. do the damn thing and live it up before you're married with kids and turn into a fanny pack dad driving an astro van
Oct 18 2015 10:42PM
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ghosthop
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SterlingArcherfanny pack dad driving an astro van


you say this like its a bad thing
Oct 18 2015 11:03PM
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CHORIZO
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FROGGINBULLFISHdoesnt really matter how old she is they all act like children when they're mad anyways.


mega chuckles from this
Oct 18 2015 11:57PM
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Sno.
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well there goes your social life...unless she has a fake ID...not sure, didn't read the thread.
Oct 19 2015 12:06AM
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act.resist
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its a 50/50 chance that it works out. shes fresh out of high school and hasn't had the same life experiences that you have. you pretty much know how things work and she has to figure it all out. But maybe that will work out for you two.
Oct 19 2015 12:45AM
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BrothsTopaz
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SterlingArcherfanny pack dad driving an astro van


But I already drive a mini van to school and where a fanny pack.
Oct 19 2015 7:31AM
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BrothsTopaz
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BrothsTopazBut I already drive a mini van to school and where a fanny pack.


WEAR NOT WHERE!!!
Oct 19 2015 8:49AM
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louie.mirags
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Spagett+Pics of girl


exactly... this thread is invalid thus far...
Oct 19 2015 9:26AM
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arnie_grape
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louie.miragsexactly... this thread is invalid thus far...


yes I believe it's in the forum rules that once a thread about a girl has developed into a multi-pager photos of said girl must be produced within 24 hours. failure to comply will result in bishop fucking your mom OP. get on it.
Oct 19 2015 9:33AM
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BrothsTopaz
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louie.miragsexactly... this thread is invalid thus far...


FROGGINBULLFISHyes I believe it's in the forum rules that once a thread about a girl has developed into a multi-pager photos of said girl must be produced within 24 hours. failure to comply will result in bishop fucking your mom OP. get on it.


Bishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay
Oct 19 2015 11:20AM
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Spagett+
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BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay


OP delivered
Oct 19 2015 11:27AM
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.MASSHOLE.
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BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay


Yay. For sure.
Oct 19 2015 12:14PM
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maxwags9
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BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay


Yay for sure
Oct 19 2015 12:16PM
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.lencon
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lencon approves
Oct 19 2015 12:55PM
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.CJ.
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livelifelarge:
Oct 19 2015 1:14PM
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mhuddy_22
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BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay



100% yay
Oct 19 2015 1:52PM
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DIX~
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BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay


Yeah she's definitely fucking a different dude every night
Oct 19 2015 2:13PM
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Chubz.
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DIX~Yeah she's definitely fucking a different dude every night


lol
Oct 19 2015 2:21PM
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deleted5
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In the same boat, however she did lie to me the first time we met and told me she was 20.
Oct 19 2015 3:36PM
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S.J.W
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BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay


Basic bitch detected, but yay
Oct 19 2015 3:50PM
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profa_212
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nocturnalIn the same boat, however she did lie to me the first time we met and told me she was 20.


I had a one night stand with a chick when I was 17 doing this same thing.
Oct 19 2015 4:52PM
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Deepskier
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.CJ.livelifelarge:

haha yes
and don't worry she is legal and if you think it works well go for it age shouldn't matter if its legal and a good fit ad thanks for the service much respect
Oct 19 2015 9:16PM
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Skitnit
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Spagett+OP delivered



If she is 18, I am 18. Yay without a doubt
Oct 20 2015 12:43PM
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FrenchFry
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Dude pretty sure you answered your own question. You like her and think she's cool and mature. Fuck what society tells you is normal.
Oct 20 2015 1:11PM
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Kooky_Lukey
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I would say yes just by how she looks and everything else is a bonus.

However, the ones thing that is going to suck is that she can't go out to the bars (if that's yo thang). My roommate is pretty much in the same situation and when everyone goes out he normally can't. Not that it's that big of a deal because bars normally suck, especially if you already have a girl then they're even more pointless.
Oct 20 2015 4:35PM
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applejuice.
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18 and 23 isn't the same as 23 and 28. Seriously. You're in two completely different stages of your lives. I changed drastically over the 8 years I was together with my ex, and we started at 17. Save yourself the aggrevation. She's beautiful, yes, and I'm sure she seems great now, but things will change. She's 18.
Oct 20 2015 4:38PM
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.MASSHOLE.
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applejuice.18 and 23 isn't the same as 23 and 28. Seriously. You're in two completely different stages of your lives. I changed drastically over the 8 years I was together with my ex, and we started at 17. Save yourself the aggrevation. She's beautiful, yes, and I'm sure she seems great now, but things will change. She's 18.


Wouldn't you say that dating someone like your ex opened your eyes to what you desire in a partner and what you would want to avoid in a future one?

You don't always date someone because you think you will marry them, you date them because you like them and want that connection. Who is to say when or if it dissipates?
Oct 20 2015 5:17PM
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profa_212
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.MASSHOLE.Wouldn't you say that dating someone like your ex opened your eyes to what you desire in a partner and what you would want to avoid in a future one?

You don't always date someone because you think you will marry them, you date them because you like them and want that connection. Who is to say when or if it dissipates?


This. accept the fact that you are both very young and chances are highly unlikely that you will get married. Do what makes you both happy and take it day by day, maybe you do end up marrying, either way you have fun.
Oct 20 2015 5:55PM
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applejuice.
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.MASSHOLE.Wouldn't you say that dating someone like your ex opened your eyes to what you desire in a partner and what you would want to avoid in a future one?

You don't always date someone because you think you will marry them, you date them because you like them and want that connection. Who is to say when or if it dissipates?


That's totally fair. I agree.
Oct 20 2015 8:58PM
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DBack1321
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Hey that's what's up! I'm in the same boat as you haha but a little older.

I'd say go for it man. Just be prepared for some immaturity and childish bullshit. After all, you have experienced a lot more than most college freshmen straight out of high school.
Oct 21 2015 12:33AM
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DBack1321
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DBack1321Hey that's what's up! I'm in the same boat as you haha but a little older.

I'd say go for it man. Just be prepared for some immaturity and childish bullshit. After all, you have experienced a lot more than most college freshmen straight out of high school.


As in that's what's up I was a Marine too, not that's what's up I'm dating an 18 year old lol
Oct 21 2015 12:39AM
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BrothsTopaz
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Update: her age shows already but I'm a guy willing to look past the small things in life.
Oct 21 2015 8:53AM
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DBack1321
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BrothsTopazUpdate: her age shows already but I'm a guy willing to look past the small things in life.


It'll get to you eventually haha if its already noticeable now.
Oct 21 2015 8:59AM
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frosted_flakes
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BrothsTopazUpdate: her age shows already but I'm a guy willing to look past the small things in life.


elaborate?
Oct 21 2015 9:19AM
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.MASSHOLE.
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BrothsTopazUpdate: her age shows already but I'm a guy willing to look past the small things in life.


Updates please.
Oct 21 2015 9:20AM
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casual
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OP..MY G....get up in that young stuff. Only people going to be judging you are people who wish they were diving in head first, let it rip bub.
Oct 21 2015 9:21AM
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TheBigApple
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I'm dating a chick in her early 20's and her age gets to me every now and then, just a maturity thing. I'm thinking about finances and savings and budgeting and financial security, and she's thinking about the next vacation with $0 to her name.

I'll get over it.
Oct 21 2015 9:41AM
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Stadtski
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BrothsTopazyay or nay


10/10 would pee in her butt
Oct 21 2015 9:55AM
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SHIZ
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I'm in a similar situation, I'm 19 (sophomore in college) and just started dating a 21 year old (senior). It's not so much about the age for me its about the fact that the girl is graduating but I decided to go for it and date her because there were just good vibes and we have a lot of fun together. I'm just going with it and if the age becomes an issue I'll just cross that bridge when I get there.
Oct 21 2015 10:19AM
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BrothsTopaz
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frosted_flakeselaborate?


What I mean by her "age shows" from the maturity level is that she doesnt know what she wants in life, and I do. Ive had experiences, both bad and good, from past relationships, people, life events etc. She said she wanted to be with me, now she's saying she doesnt know. Its a perpetual cycle of "i dont know what i want" and im just over here chillin waiting for ski season to show up.
Oct 21 2015 10:34AM
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.MASSHOLE.
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BrothsTopazWhat I mean by her "age shows" from the maturity level is that she doesnt know what she wants in life, and I do. Ive had experiences, both bad and good, from past relationships, people, life events etc. She said she wanted to be with me, now she's saying she doesnt know. Its a perpetual cycle of "i dont know what i want" and im just over here chillin waiting for ski season to show up.


Sounds about right. My advice after waiting for someone who was the same way, move on because it doesn't end well even if you end up together. That perpetual cycle won't end at her age.
Oct 21 2015 10:51AM
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Charlie_Kelly
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BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay



I'd cram it in her cramhole.
Oct 21 2015 11:06AM
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Chubbs.
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BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay


Oct 21 2015 12:03PM
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Chronic_
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1. Im 22 and my girlfriends 26. weve been dating for over 3 years. shit can work out.

2. That chicks a smokeshow definitely pursue.

3. Thanks for delivering pics.

4. RAH! to my fellow marine NS'ers
Oct 21 2015 1:45PM
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B.Ryan
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BrothsTopazShe's down to learn to ski this season as well.


Read that line, skipped rest of thread. Go for it buddy.
Oct 21 2015 3:23PM
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gnar_whal
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OP she's a babe and she's down to learn how to ski. PEE IN HER ANUS
Oct 21 2015 6:37PM
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whoisthatsquid
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BrothsTopazBishop, please don't fuck my mom. Here you guys/gals go....

yay or nay


OP came thru with pics.... yes id smash
Oct 22 2015 1:29AM
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KravtZ
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TheBigAppleI'm dating a chick in her early 20's and her age gets to me every now and then, just a maturity thing. I'm thinking about finances and savings and budgeting and financial security, and she's thinking about the next vacation with $0 to her name.

I'll get over it.


Actually she probably wont. Money and finance on a personal level is extremely difficult habit to change. You are on the right track. She is not.
Oct 22 2015 8:30AM
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FastSpeed
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SterlingArcherbecome her friend and get some intel.

if she's into the kardashians or teen mom bail out.

probably 95% of girls under mid 20's don't know what the fuck the want and get bored of guys quick. You're 23.. do the damn thing and live it up before you're married with kids and turn into a fanny pack dad driving an astro van


Don't hate, my parents had an green Astro van when I was like 6. Loved that car
Oct 22 2015 9:32AM
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