This is a huge day for the United States.
President Obama ‏@POTUS3m3 minutes ago
Today is a big step in our march toward equality. Gay and lesbian couples now have the right to marry, just like anyone else. #LoveWins
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milk_manI do not approve of gay marriage at all. I'm fine with gay people.. I will treat a person well no matter what. But for them to be called "married," that's when I've had enough.
mirozWhy should the government be responsible for imposing your beliefs on the population? The government should ensure equality for all parties.
Either they can
mirozWhy should the government be responsible for imposing your beliefs on the population? The government should ensure equality for all parties.
Either they can
milk_manFor the same reason that murder is illegal. You could also say they are imposing my beliefs on the population in that instance too.
mirozYour beliefs coincide with a requirement for the country's safety and security.
Let me also clarify - when I say belief, I mean the religious grounding of a stance or opinion.
ArabianPig disgusting homosexuals will ruin this country with their designer drapes and loud house music how dare they.
madchronicHey for anyone that is using religion as their justification for gay marriage not being legalized, why aren't you mad about divorce being legal. Just something to think about.
milk_manYour post may be rhetorical, but I'll go for it anyway. Divorce should not be illegal because there are instances where it is justified-even in the Bible. When a spouse is unfaithful the Bible says that divorce is an option, but not required.
But I guess I agree that divorce for any stupid reason shouldn't be legal, but this is 'Murica and people are ignorant of reality anyway. So we will continue on our broken path.
milk_manpeople are ignorant of reality anyway.
Granite_StateYou cant pick one and not the other. Plus the bible also says if a spouse is unfaithful they should be killed so...
milk_manShow me a verse that says that in the New Testament.
ndyeIsnt the entire bible the word of god?
And if you would like me to send you some fucked up bible verses in the New Testament I would be more than happy to, I do not believe or at least am unsure of a New Testament verse telling one to kill their wife for being unfaithful.
LonelyThey always defend themselves saying that the new testament is the word written for christians and old testament for the Jewish, so much for the old testament commandments
XtRemE11I have a question for those that are pro gay marriage..
what do you think should define marriage? where do you draw the line? A christians definition is easy, its between a man and a woman. but the governments definition, the government that gives you benefits as a married couple, needs to have a line somewhere, and now it seems very unclear where that is.
XtRemE11I have a question for those that are pro gay marriage..
what do you think should define marriage? where do you draw the line? A christians definition is easy, its between a man and a woman. but the governments definition, the government that gives you benefits as a married couple, needs to have a line somewhere, and now it seems very unclear where that is.
S.J.WWith regards to gay marriage, all that needed to be rewritten was a few pronouns and nothing changed what so ever.
Incest- One of the partners can't give 100% consent as usually in a family there is a power dynamic and when there is a power dynamic one party can't give 100% consent even if they feel as if they're giving consent. It's the same power dynamic that stops teachers from having sex with students. And obviously the genetic mutations that happen from inbreeding. Just look at SFB.
Marrying dogs or objects- they can't give consent.
Polygamy- Marriage is a contract. Sex doesn't change that. A few pronouns switched, but from a legal perspective everything still worked the exact same. But in a polygamous marriage, the entire definition would have to rewritten. In a divorce, who gets custody of the children, or how does alimony work? Who's next of kin and who gets the final say on when to pull the plug? Does employer benefits apply to all the partners? Does everyone get to immigrate at once? All these questions that didn't arise from gay marriage will arise from polygamy.
milk_manShow me a verse that says that in the New Testament.
milk_manYour post may be rhetorical, but I'll go for it anyway. Divorce should not be illegal because there are instances where it is justified-even in the Bible. When a spouse is unfaithful the Bible says that divorce is an option, but not required.
But I guess I agree that divorce for any stupid reason shouldn't be legal, but this is 'Murica and people are ignorant of reality anyway. So we will continue on our broken path.
milk_manThis issue really can't be solved though. Because according to Christians, God invented marriage and the only way a marriage is legitimate is if it fits His standards. While the other side believes that the government defines marriage, and that if it fits their standards it is legitimate.
So to each his own I guess. Because the two separate worldviews will never see this the same way
milk_manI do not approve of gay marriage at all. I'm fine with gay people.. I will treat a person well no matter what. But for them to be called "married," that's when I've had enough.
nocturnalSo gay people even if they live together shouldn't be allowed to legally tie their financials insurance policies and assets together. That's only for a man and woman? You know marriage has a lot of benafits it's not just a title.
milk_manThey can have all the benefits they want. I don't care. That's not what I care about. It's not that hard to understand.
nocturnalSo are your views more important then mine?
S.J.WThen what do you care about?
milk_manI care about what marriage means. And I'm upset that the government thinks they can redefine something that they didn't create.
milk_manThey can have all the benefits they want. I don't care. That's not what I care about. It's not that hard to understand.
S.J.WThen you should also be angry at the government intervening in marriage in the first place.
ndyeChristianity did not invent marriage. You can't claim it as your own when you come down the road later.
milk_manI care about what marriage means. And I'm upset that the government thinks they can redefine something that they didn't create.
milk_manWill you elaborate?
milk_manThey can have all the benefits they want. I don't care. That's not what I care about. It's not that hard to understand.
milk_manThen who did?
ndyeThe first monogamous religions date back to the 2300s BC. It had nothing to do with religion but ensuring that a man and a woman had monogamous relations to ensure clear lineages.
http://www.islandmix.com/backchat/f9/origin-marriage-50901/
Widely embraced therein after by Greeks, Romans, and Hebrews.
In fact just read the article I posted.
Granite_State"Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them, between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws"
Says nothing about being same sex or different sex
Granite_State"Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them, between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws"
Says nothing about being same sex or different sex
nocturnalSo you don't care if gay people get married, but you care if gay people get married because it's a sin?
milk_manDid you get that definition from Google? Heheh...
I will type this slowly. Read it slowly. I'm not mad at anyone for sinning. Want to know why? Because I am a sinner. I have no room to judge.
If gay people want to be together forever and have lots of legal benefits, cool! Go for it. But calling it marriage offends me deeply. Because to me, marriage is sacred.
milk_manBut calling it marriage offends me deeply. Because to me, marriage is sacred.
milk_manDid you get that definition from Google? Heheh...
I will type this slowly. Read it slowly. I'm not mad at anyone for sinning. Want to know why? Because I am a sinner. I have no room to judge.
If gay people want to be together forever and have lots of legal benefits, cool! Go for it. But calling it marriage offends me deeply. Because to me, marriage is sacred.
milk_manThis issue really can't be solved though. Because according to Christians, God invented marriage and the only way a marriage is legitimate is if it fits His standards. While the other side believes that the government defines marriage, and that if it fits their standards it is legitimate.
So to each his own I guess. Because the two separate worldviews will never see this the same way
milk_manShow me a verse that says that in the New Testament.
Huck_NorrisGo fuck yourself.
Granite_StateAlso the only direct referances to homosexuality are in the old testament, there is hardly anything written about it in the new testament (aka "your part of the bible") and anything that is is too vague
Granite_StateAlso the only direct referances to homosexuality are in the old testament, there is hardly anything written about it in the new testament (aka "your part of the bible") and anything that is is too vague
milk_manIt doesn't get much clearer than Romans 1:26-27... lol