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kim_jong_ill
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hey my name is kelly and I'm using my friends account to ask my question Been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. We are really happy together, i love his family but he hasn't met mine yet. We live an hour and a half apart and only get to see each other twice a week. Right now I'm focused on finishing school, looking after my little brother, spending time with my family and preparing for a trip. I know it's going to be harder for us to see each other and i feel like a bad girlfriend for not dedicating time for him. I feel like i'm holding him down. He says he's ok with this and wants to try and make it through this time but I feel bad. I told him i think we should break up and maybe try again in two months when i'm home and the timing is better. I just feel like he's waiting for me. Should I stick with what I think is best for him(breaking up) or should we keep trying? Should we just take a break and try again when the timing is better?
May 5 2015 1:15PM
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corona
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just give him good bj's every time you meet and things will work out just fine.
May 5 2015 1:19PM
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kim_jong_ill
Posts: 1019 - Karma: 3,147
VinnieFjust give him good bj's every time you meet and things will work out just fine.


she already does that
May 5 2015 1:20PM
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dingus
Posts: 1328 - Karma: 7,877
Anal???
May 5 2015 1:41PM
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.Hugo.
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Dont just assume you know whats best for him. You have to talk to him about and come to a mutual decision. If you just decide to take a break and he really doesnt want to you could really fuck things up
May 5 2015 1:42PM
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Funkadelic
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Why are you just assuming what's best for him. He's probably completely chill with everything and you're just going and fucking it up.
May 5 2015 1:43PM
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kim_jong_ill
Posts: 1019 - Karma: 3,147
side note: he's 5 and 1/2 years older than her
May 5 2015 1:46PM
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louie.mirags
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The majority of relationships fail. It is ok.
May 5 2015 1:49PM
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SKI.ING
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If you want to break up with him, then do it for yourself. Not for him, because obviously it isn't what he wants. It may be subconscious, but deep down maybe you don't want to be with him and want to have fun on your trip. This is a common issue. Two months isn't that long honestly. You'd just create bad blood by calling it off and then coming back to him once you're back. I'd say thats worse.

So no matter your decision, make it for the right reasons. Nothing worse than a girl saying she's breaking your heart for your own good.
May 5 2015 2:01PM
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Spagett+
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kim_jong_illside note: he's 5 and 1/2 years older than her


May 5 2015 2:04PM
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Wampire
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Are either of you Asian?
May 5 2015 3:05PM
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Slush
Posts: 1914 - Karma: 12,942
Here's my advice

Ask yourself. Do you really like him? Is he the one for you? Do you love eachother? If you answered no, or are uncertain about any of these, spend time and find out.

Not every relationship is constantly spending time together. Seeing him twice a week? That's great! My friend see's his girl once every 2 and they love eachother to bits. Sometimes it's good to spend time away from eachother be able to discover how you feel without him. Don't worry, he's probably stoaked he has you in the first place! He isn't feeling held back by you. Keep your interests in mind, but don't blow him off. Keep in touch, snap chat, and make the time you spend together real quality time, since you don't get to do it often.


oh yea,
Call me if it doesn't work out for you two ;)
May 5 2015 4:11PM
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schusson
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let him pee in your butt
May 5 2015 8:40PM
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