Replying to Fight with friend

(Yes I know NS is not the best place to turn for this) But I feel my friend is often too concerned with whomever she is dating/hooking up than the rest of the group when we're hanging out So today i told her that and now she's clearly very pissed at me. Part of this could be that I have closeted feelings for her and most of the guys she dates are somewhat "basic" (please don't crucify me), compared to me, (example; her ex boyfriend who wore almost exclusively Hollister clothing). If her latest "boy-toy" isn't there she is generally a part of the group whereas when he is there the two generally sit together and shun everyone else. So to get to the point I told her most of what you know (except for the closeted feelings) and she said "just leave me alone right now". I am afraid that my closeted feelings are skewing my perception of the situation.What should I do to reconcile?