Replying to Blunts

So I've made this post a few times and can do some 5s and can almost backflip but I still can't seem to grab trailing blunts consistently. Sometimes I see people grab them without looking and other times I see people grab them and look at the tail when they grab like during a spin or flip. The only dilemma is that when I try grabbing without looking they aren't consistent because I'm sort of just guessing where my tail is but when I look at it, it sort of throws me off balance. Also when I don't look at my blunts I can never seem to grab them with poles for some reason. So what is the best way to do it???