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ScratchCobra66
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We have all been hurt by the oppeset sex, whether its recent or you're happy now, it had happend. Which is one reason why skiing makes some of us so happy. Skiing will never tell you that your not good enough, that it just wants to be friends, that it found someone else. Skiing will never go behind your back and cheat on you, or contemplate breaking up with and not tell you or show any difference in emotion towards you, it will never walk all over you because your a nice guy, or an innocent girl.

Anyways im going into this rant because im always the 'nice guy' the one that will lay everything down for someone, which i have done for Jane. The only thing i have asked of her is to be loyal to me. But i have been severely hurt in the past because i turn my head and look the other way. My first relastionship ended because she got drunk and had sex with someone else, and not only did i put up with it once it happened three times and i didint notice. Now a friend of Janes that she had an old fling with has invited her to a party with him, and i dont want to be mean because Jane means everything to me, but she has cheated in the past, and i know when people get crunk they usually get very horney and do stupid shit. I dont know what i should do, i dont want to tell her that i dont want her to go because i dont want to be controlling and i dont want her to go, because i always end up getting hurt because im the nice friend type that doesnt drink or smoke. What would you do? Sorry for typing so much, im worried and I have severe anxiety, and am very paraniod i have been cheated on in the past, and i dont think i can take it agian, especially not with Jane. I love her.



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Jan 3 2005 3:21PM
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Jenna1106
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i'm sorry that really sucks. if i were you i'd try talking to her and if she doesn't feel the same way about you then maybe break up with her. it'll hurt but whats worse...getting hurt over and over or getting hurt once and then eventually moving on?
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Jan 3 2005 3:44PM
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12ParkRat60
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2 long to read but im feeling ur first paragraph

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Jan 3 2005 3:45PM
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SchweitzerSki
Posts: 4479 - Karma: 11
hmmmm.......ok well you need to be honest with her and just tell her flat out because of her past cheatings you cannot fully trust her and you are worried that something might happen between her and the guy and she means so much to you that you really just can't imagine losing her and say you know you can't control her and you know that but that you really hope she makes a good choice about this and make her understand how much she really means to ou. maybe she will end up not going. be like i'll take you somewhere nice instead or something
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Jan 3 2005 3:49PM
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VTskier3
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i understand why you're paranoid. you have every right to be. i've been cheated on by every guy i've been with, so i've lost all trust with guys. cheating sucks and no one deserves it...so i dunno, i'd say ditch the bitch
Jan 3 2005 3:49PM
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hendrik.
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say that ^, but in your own words.
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Jan 3 2005 3:50PM
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ski_Crystal
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i'm really sorry about that. situations like that can be really tough. just don't do anything that you might end up regreting
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Jan 3 2005 3:51PM
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mattster
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hmmm go skiing

fast!


everything will go away fro about six hours and all there is is snow and crap
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my one friend was pushed into a pole and he riped his sack open on impact now we call him stitchie



ska is dead.... and you're next !
Jan 3 2005 4:00PM
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ScratchCobra66
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He invited her to this party while im going to be skiing.



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Jan 3 2005 4:02PM
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ScratchCobra66
Posts: 3688 - Karma: 11
I just hope that she values me as much as i value her. If she does, and we break up, im ditching this town and moving up north to boyne city, so i can ski in the winter and sail in the summer. So i cant get away from this shitty little town.



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Jan 3 2005 4:05PM
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mattster
Posts: 4120 - Karma: 41
well since your skiing allready then i may aswell give you some real advice

dont wory about it
you have to trust her or it will never ever work. like ever seriously you cant allways suspect her or she will get pissed and leave, thats when the cheating will start

but for now just go skiing and figure itout
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my one friend was pushed into a pole and he riped his sack open on impact now we call him stitchie



ska is dead.... and you're next !
Jan 3 2005 4:05PM
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ScratchCobra66
Posts: 3688 - Karma: 11
Youre right. Im just going to trust her and just go and tear it up at Boyne for the day.



What matters is what you're doing. Not what they're doing.
Jan 3 2005 4:10PM
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Shaggy
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bring it up with her, dont go say 'dont go', try and speak with her, let her know what you're worried about. not because you dont trust her, but because its happened to you in the past, and can get uneasy with it.
on the other hand, if you actually dont trust her, you have to ask yourself what you're doing with her, or will you be able to trust her in the future.
bottom line is, if she really cares for you, she wont cheat.

'my cum went in my open mouth, and long story short, i feel really bad for crack whores.'

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Jan 3 2005 4:11PM
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proZach
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if she does cheat, kick her in the nuts.
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Jan 3 2005 4:13PM
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Pklink04
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^^^what kind of boat do you sail



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Jan 3 2005 4:18PM
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ScratchCobra66
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My dad and i double hand his beneteau 37.5



What matters is what you're doing. Not what they're doing.
Jan 3 2005 4:25PM
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SchweitzerSki
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if she cheated on you already, you deserve better. i know you might love her or think you do, but you deserve someone who's not going to cheat on you at all. get rid of her and move if she does. moving always helps
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Jan 3 2005 4:26PM
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ScratchCobra66
Posts: 3688 - Karma: 11
no shes never cheated on me. But we just talked, and she assured me that i have nothing to worry about that shes not even going to drink, and that she would never think about it.



What matters is what you're doing. Not what they're doing.
Jan 3 2005 4:33PM
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skihillraod
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make sure you hit it twice before you leave for boyne
Jan 3 2005 4:53PM
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AJ_concepts
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ElGato your a dick, shut the hell up, if you have nothing helpfull, dont say anything, dickhead. he is in a tough place, i know how that is, just talk to her, and if she happens to cheat, then pack up and move, Bayone sounds sweet...
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Jan 3 2005 5:07PM
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homestead
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just got to have trust and if something bad happens, maybe shes not the right one for you


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Jan 3 2005 5:56PM
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Latch
Posts: 499 - Karma: 10
^EXACTLY
'Everybody's somebody at Wendy's..unless you're a midget!' -SpinninMacKinnon



'if someone's standing in the way of your shot you can kick them in the balls repeatedly until they move or die' - SteveXs2



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Jan 3 2005 6:30PM
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Latch
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OOPS. anyway, to continue my post...the way I see it is that you are looking for the right person for YOU, not to try to play everything she wants you to be that you aren't. Sounds kindof self centered, and of course you need to be a decent person, but don't be afraid to leave if it's not working out.


'Everybody's somebody at Wendy's..unless you're a midget!' -SpinninMacKinnon



'if someone's standing in the way of your shot you can kick them in the balls repeatedly until they move or die' - SteveXs2



There's Nothing To It But To Do It.



-Joel
Jan 3 2005 6:34PM
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ScratchCobra66
Posts: 3688 - Karma: 11
that and her mom isint going to let her go because of me.



What matters is what you're doing. Not what they're doing.
Jan 3 2005 7:36PM
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Shaggy
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she isnt going to let her go cause of you? hows that work? how old are you?

'my cum went in my open mouth, and long story short, i feel really bad for crack whores.'

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Jan 3 2005 7:40PM
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ScratchCobra66
Posts: 3688 - Karma: 11
Im 16 and shes 15, but her mom was like, i think you should stay loyal to him because you would not want to do anything you would regret.



What matters is what you're doing. Not what they're doing.
Jan 3 2005 7:51PM
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Jaskittin
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your fucking 16 years old, your not in love, and if you acctually are, that blows dude, one pussy for the rest of your life......























well thats pretty tough because my hand is a lot sexier than many females-NewSkool450

Jan 3 2005 7:58PM
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Shaggy
Posts: 4349 - Karma: 17
thats fuckin retarded of the mom, she should let her daughter have her own free will. what a bitch to go and assume that she would go and cheat on you.

and nothing wrong with being inlove when you're 16.

'my cum went in my open mouth, and long story short, i feel really bad for crack whores.'

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Jan 3 2005 8:02PM
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Pklink04
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^^^i sail a sinle handed laser in highschool, regattas



If The women don't find you handsome... atleast they will find you handy

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Jan 3 2005 8:04PM
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Jaskittin
Posts: 5606 - Karma: 195
^^yeah, maybe if her daugter wasnt a sophomore in high school she would be more receptive of her going to a party with alcohol.























well thats pretty tough because my hand is a lot sexier than many females-NewSkool450

Jan 3 2005 8:07PM
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Shaggy
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15 is a great age to start to get introduced into an atmosphere where alcohol is present. besides, 'i think you should stay loyal to him because you would not want to do anything you would regret.' i dont think anything was said about age there. and besides, i think we've gone off on some tangent, we're posting here to tell the guy what to do, and then get 5 different opinions, then to bitch among ourselves which is the better one to do. its the NS way

'my cum went in my open mouth, and long story short, i feel really bad for crack whores.'

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Jan 3 2005 8:28PM
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j.bird
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uhh the title of this thread should be, Girl friends, not skiing
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Jan 3 2005 8:30PM
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hucker22
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wow sounds exactly like my old gf, and im from MI too, maybe its the same girl? well she cheated on me so i used her for sex and i knew she wouldnt dump be so i was just a jerk for a while then dumped her when i got sick of her, and yes i was in love with her like u 2 are, then ya shit happens
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Jan 3 2005 8:31PM
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Shaggy
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hmm, if you were in lvoe with her you wouldnt do something like that to her, even if she tore you to shit.

'my cum went in my open mouth, and long story short, i feel really bad for crack whores.'

-twintipteles
Jan 3 2005 8:33PM
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scofield
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be like 'Jane, don't be jealous i've been chatting online with hot babes all day.'



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Jan 3 2005 8:35PM
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ScratchCobra66
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you know ive been training to become a cage fighter.


Anyways, her mom is very protective, and Jane said that she doesnt want to go because she doesnt want to do anything that i will feel uncomfortable with. Yes to say that i am in love at 16 is obserd, but i am as content as a sixteen year old kid can be.




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Jan 3 2005 9:03PM
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SkiUnit03
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^^haha i love that movie









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Jan 3 2005 9:15PM
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JollyPirate
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Dude.... your 16
If you ski smart you'll live to meet a lot more girls, and at least one who understands the concept of loyalty of a boyfriend.
Jan 3 2005 9:53PM
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