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Don't want to have children? The pope thinks you are selfish.

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Dobber
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http://www.theguardian.com/world/2015/feb/11/pope-francis-the-choice-to-not-have-children-is-selfish

What is your honest opinion on this? I think it's a load of BS. Little kids are annoying and I don't want to deal with them... Am I going to be damned to hell for this? I don't know much about the pope, but he sounds pretty fucked.
Feb 12 2015 7:16PM
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AT-AT
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I am afraid of all the laws that come with being a parent nowadays. I'm five years out from a kid and by then idk if i'll want to have one. There is talk about holding parents responsible for how their kids turn out. In Puerto Rico there is a bill currently being debated that would charge parents criminally if their kid becomes obese.
Feb 12 2015 7:47PM
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John18_6
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The catholic chuch is extremely pro-life and believes that giving life is the greatest gift of all. I'm not surprised by this one bit. I personally think he shouldn't be saying this because of how much influence he has over some people.
Feb 12 2015 8:58PM
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a_pla5tic_bag
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john18061806The catholic chuch is extremely pro-life and believes that giving life is the greatest gift of all. I'm not surprised by this one bit. I personally think he shouldn't be saying this because of how much influence he has over some people.

They want more followers, it's easier to continue a religion if your followers are all about having kids and raising them in the religion.
Feb 12 2015 9:04PM
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CHORIZO
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It would be cool to have a child so that I could make them pursue all my childhood dreams until they hate me for it except they'll be really good at the yo-yo
Feb 12 2015 9:09PM
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theabortionator
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In a massively over populated world I'm gonna go ahead and say lol nope.

Selfish for not wanting to bring another kid in the world? That's just stupid. Could change it to say adopting a kid and then I could agree.


There are lots of kids out there that have no home, you're not that cool, good looking, athletic, that your genes need to be passed down. If the bloodline dies with you the world will keep on turning.

"As for you, be fruitful and multiply; Populate the earth abundantly and multiply in it." is just a tad bit out dated.
Feb 12 2015 9:11PM
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Mr.noodle
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I hate 80% of kids under the age of 13, in not taking any chances
Feb 12 2015 9:15PM
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Casey
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De-population is a huge problem in Italy and western Europe. The birthrate is too low and they are going to be fucked in a few decades.
Feb 12 2015 9:26PM
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Shredsterr
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My opinion is that the world has too many people already, we don't need more people. We should figure out how to deal with all the people we have now before we start having more.

My sister was born when I was 10, my brother when I was 12. Now I'm 17 and have helped raise and watched my siblings grow up since infancy. Let me tell you, they are frustrating, needy, and at times extremely annoying, even though they are also pretty fucking awesome most of the time.

I had always assumed I'd grow up and raise a family because that's just what people do, but after seeing how hard and draining (emotionally, physically and financially) it is to raise young kids, I'm perfectly fine not having kids.
Feb 12 2015 9:47PM
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.frenchy
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Sick thread dude! Not like there aren't enough religion threads lately shitting on Christianity...
Feb 12 2015 9:55PM
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louie.mirags
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.frenchySick thread dude! Not like there aren't enough religion threads lately shitting on Christianity...


Are you finally seeing why now?



from the article:
he remarks echoed his earlier comments on the topic of childlessness. Last year, he warned against the lure of a “culture of wellbeing” that can come when a couple does not have children and has the money and freedom to take nice holidays and buy a second home in the countryside.

Money, holiday vacations and a 2nd home some TITS to me
Feb 12 2015 10:04PM
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soulskier
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From a man with no children, ha!
Feb 12 2015 10:05PM
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louie.mirags
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From the article:

“It might be better, more comfortable, to have a dog, two cats, and the love goes to the two cats and the dog,” he said. “Is this true or is this not? Have you seen it? Then, in the end, this marriage comes to old age in solitude, with the bitterness of loneliness.


One thing I learned from growing up in a Catholic family is they're never short on tying to scare people or make them feel guilty. Either have kids or you'll die bitter and lonely? That is a stretch.. How would the pope know anyway? He has no kids and he hasn't died yet.
Feb 12 2015 10:09PM
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.frenchy
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louie.miragsAre you finally seeing why now?


Because this is a ski forum with a bunch of kids from mostly northern states (mostly blue states)? The view is a lot more different on my hunting/fishing forums, NS has always been like this for as long as I've been a member...
Feb 12 2015 10:17PM
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deleted5
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AT-ATIn Puerto Rico there is a bill currently being debated that would charge parents criminally if their kid becomes obese.


Good, if your kids 9 years old and is obese. You're not doing your job as a parent.
Feb 12 2015 10:21PM
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theabortionator
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.frenchyBecause this is a ski forum with a bunch of kids from mostly northern states (mostly blue states)? The view is a lot more different on my hunting/fishing forums, NS has always been like this for as long as I've been a member...

Where I'm from is massively republican. Republican picnic, now dem one. Middle of the sticks upstate ny. I'm a registered republican actually even though I don't vote and think the republican party of today can suck a dick. But just because you're from some where doesn't mean that's hat you have to believe or that it's right.


I don't give a fuck what people believe if people actually attempted some form of open minded critical thinking to get the, there.

Also hunting and fishing please satan - John 3:16

And on the 3rd day a post was made by the abortionator and the lord saw that it made no sense and decided to drink more wine - genesis 4:20
Feb 12 2015 10:22PM
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Barefootin_Fiend
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ironic coming from a "celibate" man who will never have children.
Feb 12 2015 10:24PM
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El_Barto.
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AT-ATI am afraid of all the laws that come with being a parent nowadays. I'm five years out from a kid and by then idk if i'll want to have one. There is talk about holding parents responsible for how their kids turn out. In Puerto Rico there is a bill currently being debated that would charge parents criminally if their kid becomes obese.


Im actually torn on this. Feeding your kids garbage and essentially making them fat i consider to be child abuse. Is it malicious? Nope, not at all. Is it neglectful? You bet your sweet ass it is.

At what level of severity does neglect become abuse?

Actually, im just gonna make a thread about this and see if theres a shit storm
Feb 12 2015 10:25PM
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deleted5
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.frenchyBecause this is a ski forum with a bunch of kids from mostly northern states (mostly blue states)? The view is a lot more different on my hunting/fishing forums, NS has always been like this for as long as I've been a member...


Awww is someone mad that the flaws in their beliefs keep getting brought up. You must also be upset about all the gays getting married lately as well.
Feb 12 2015 10:27PM
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TOAST.
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I'm pretty stoked to have kids one day. Sure they will be a pain in the ass and I wish you could skip the first couple of years when you can start doing fun shit with them.
Feb 12 2015 10:29PM
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AT-AT
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zzzskizzzGood, if your kids 9 years old and is obese. You're not doing your job as a parent.


You're just a bundle of sunshine.

Raising a kid is one of the hardest things that anyone will ever do, let alone doing it with the government staring over your shoulder, making sure you're doing a goo job. I mean you don't get fined for having 8 kids and being unemployed and depending on the government to feed them. But fuck, "that parent feed her kid to much fine her."
Feb 12 2015 10:34PM
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S.J.W
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.frenchyBecause this is a ski forum with a bunch of kids from mostly northern states (mostly blue states)? The view is a lot more different on my hunting/fishing forums, NS has always been like this for as long as I've been a member...


This is because NS is smarter than your fishing forums
Feb 12 2015 10:44PM
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deleted5
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AT-ATYou're just a bundle of sunshine.

Raising a kid is one of the hardest things that anyone will ever do, let alone doing it with the government staring over your shoulder, making sure you're doing a goo job. I mean you don't get fined for having 8 kids and being unemployed and depending on the government to feed them. But fuck, "that parent feed her kid to much fine her."


really raising a kid is one of the hardest things to do hardest things in the world to do? You're going to say if a list having a kid and raising them is the number one thing you're an idiot. Not having your kid be obese is not a ridiculous thing to ask. Now go sit in the corner and feel ashamed of yourself fatty.
Feb 12 2015 10:46PM
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.frenchy
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UglyboyThis is because NS is smarter than your fishing forums


Lol that's one of the funnier things i've heard all night!
Feb 12 2015 10:49PM
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AT-AT
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zzzskizzzreally raising a kid is one of the hardest things to do hardest things in the world to do? You're going to say if a list having a kid and raising them is the number one thing you're an idiot. Not having your kid be obese is not a ridiculous thing to ask. Now go sit in the corner and feel ashamed of yourself fatty.


You're really a cold hearted prick man. Can you ever have a discussion about anything without making it personal and throwing insults?

Yes, I will say being a good parent is one of the hardest things to do, and I will stand by that. I was a fatty growing up, thank you. I was heavy-set from 4th grade to 9th grade and I payed for it in hell and it had nothing to do with how my parents raised me.
Feb 12 2015 10:52PM
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987321654hgfd
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I know I'm just happy that if I ever do end up with kids I won't be the one squeezing them out.
Feb 12 2015 10:56PM
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deleted5
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AT-ATYou're really a cold hearted prick man. Can you ever have a discussion about anything without making it personal and throwing insults?

Yes, I will say being a good parent is one of the hardest things to do, and I will stand by that. I was a fatty growing up, thank you. I was heavy-set from 4th grade to 9th grade and I payed for it in hell and it had nothing to do with how my parents raised me.


Yeah I was fat a middle school as well not amy more what's your point? There's a difference between being fat, and being obese I was not obese. Here I was thinking being a neurosurgeon, or getting your PhD was difficult. Nope apparently it's the thing that 90 percent of all humans, who have ever lived have done.
Feb 12 2015 11:02PM
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Nikolaus
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Having kids is the last thing we need in an already grossly overpopulated world. This is just another example of christianity doing harm.
Feb 12 2015 11:06PM
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theabortionator
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Run away, this thread is dildos
Feb 13 2015 12:18AM
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*DUMBCAN*
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I feel like I'm late to the thread.

https://www.newschoolers.com/videos/watch/755477/Every-Sperm-is-Sacred---Monty-Python--39-s-The-Meaning-of-Life
Feb 13 2015 6:58AM
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louie.mirags
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.frenchyBecause this is a ski forum with a bunch of kids from mostly northern states (mostly blue states)? The view is a lot more different on my hunting/fishing forums, NS has always been like this for as long as I've been a member...


The site to me seems pretty split. For social topics it tends to lean left (which it should) and when it comes to major topics like gun rights and obamacare this site leans toward the rightwing point of view (which it should, we need our guns). I hate classifying topics based on left or rightwing just because I want people to think for themselves and it is ok to not follow one side or the other on every topic.

theabortionatorWhere I'm from is massively republican. Republican picnic, now dem one. Middle of the sticks upstate ny. I'm a registered republican actually even though I don't vote and think the republican party of today can suck a dick. But just because you're from some where doesn't mean that's hat you have to believe or that it's right.


same exact for me. The majority of the area I live is republican as fuck! Our generation is mixed, but the older people get around here they all lean right. I am also in the republican party, that stems from my premilitary and military days. I was going to switch and vote libertarian but I am going to stick around until Rand Paul runs for primary.

El_Barto.Im actually torn on this. Feeding your kids garbage and essentially making them fat i consider to be child abuse. Is it malicious? Nope, not at all. Is it neglectful? You bet your sweet ass it is.

At what level of severity does neglect become abuse?


I agree. It is hard to say. There is so much info out there on how to eat right and help build a strong healthy kid, instead they feed their kids dog shit fast food. How do people expect kids not to be fat and dumb when they're eating the nastiest food possible? But, I do not believe we should force parents to have their kids eat better. They can do what they want and i'll just shake my head while they feed their kid cheap, shitty food to ensure they save enough money for an 84" TV and the cable bill.
Feb 13 2015 8:40AM
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KravtZ
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Fuck the pope. I want a couple kids one day but honestly have no intentions of ever getting married. Marriage is for suckers. 50% divorce rate in America and the male generally loses 50%+ of all assets + quality of life payments + child support, house, etc. Im not getting into that. My parents went through that, bunch of people I know went through that. Not worth it unless you get a full blown prenup.
Feb 13 2015 9:22AM
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louie.mirags
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KravtZNot worth it unless you get a full blown prenup.


I've still heard stories about people getting fucked with prenups too..
Feb 13 2015 9:26AM
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yelsel
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Oh, I'm totally selfish and that's fine by me.
Feb 13 2015 10:22AM
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CaptainObvious.
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louie.miragsFrom the article:

“It might be better, more comfortable, to have a dog, two cats, and the love goes to the two cats and the dog,” he said. “Is this true or is this not? Have you seen it? Then, in the end, this marriage comes to old age in solitude, with the bitterness of loneliness.


One thing I learned from growing up in a Catholic family is they're never short on tying to scare people or make them feel guilty. Either have kids or you'll die bitter and lonely? That is a stretch.. How would the pope know anyway? He has no kids and he hasn't died yet.


This is just another instance of many where I feel like we're the same person.

Same age
Same thoughts
Same ex-catholics
Feb 13 2015 10:28AM
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KravtZ
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louie.miragsI've still heard stories about people getting fucked with prenups too..


Still protected to a degree. I guess I have a biased view though...my parents went through a nasty divorce. My dad became an alchaholic and lost his job because of it. Ended up going broke and passed away. I understand that maybe I saw an extreme end of the spectrum...but as a male who makes a lot of money...50% divorce rate just screams disaster for me. At least with a prenup your moderately protected to a degree. Nothing a good lawyer can't fix.

Just in this day and age you really need to protect yourself ..things im in the process of doing to do that one day.

- process of buying my own house
- full bank account / 401k/ investment accounts under only my name
- own vehicles
- my and my gf in no way shape or form split any major assets.

For whatever reason i marry her just protects me. I would never let my wife become a stay at home mom until deep into marriage.
Feb 13 2015 10:31AM
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brotherdad
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*DUMBCAN*I feel like I'm late to the thread.

https://www.newschoolers.com/videos/watch/755477/Every-Sperm-is-Sacred---Monty-Python--39-s-The-Meaning-of-Life


This is exactly what I was thinking of when I clicked this thread. ...classic Catholicism!
Feb 13 2015 10:38AM
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artfullydodged
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Like I give a shit what the pope thinks. The guy is the most progressive Pope in recent history and he is still decades behind everyone else with a shred of logic.
Feb 13 2015 12:33PM
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GayWolf420
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Why? So his little pedo club can diddle our Kids? No thanks.
Feb 13 2015 12:39PM
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.frenchy
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DeebieSkeebiesWhy? So his little pedo club can diddle our Kids? No thanks.


Lol shut up dumb Mormon.
Feb 13 2015 12:40PM
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GayWolf420
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.frenchyLol shut up dumb Mormon.


Polygamists and catholics have mastered the art of kiddy touching. Mormons just pop teen girls in the shitter.
Feb 13 2015 12:56PM
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GayWolf420
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.frenchyLol shut up dumb Mormon.


Polygamists and catholics have mastered the art of kiddy touching. Mormons just pop teen girls in the shitter.
Feb 13 2015 12:56PM
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louie.mirags
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CaptainObvious.This is just another instance of many where I feel like we're the same person.

Same age
Same thoughts
Same ex-catholics


i'd like to thank the Internet for that... The access to information we have nowadays has really opened my eyes.
Feb 13 2015 1:15PM
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louie.mirags
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The referenced post has been removed.


My mom, who is a saint, may have a heart attack when I have to explain to her that if I have any kids in the future they will not be baptized. That is years down the road though. First I need to get thru the hurdle of explaining to her that when (or if) I get married it won't be by a priest or in the church for that matter...
Feb 13 2015 2:58PM
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AT-AT
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louie.miragsMy mom, who is a saint, may have a heart attack when I have to explain to her that if I have any kids in the future they will not be baptized. That is years down the road though. First I need to get thru the hurdle of explaining to her that when (or if) I get married it won't be by a priest or in the church for that matter...


ouch!

You better start praying now. Irony intended.
Feb 13 2015 3:02PM
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CaptainObvious.
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louie.miragsMy mom, who is a saint, may have a heart attack when I have to explain to her that if I have any kids in the future they will not be baptized. That is years down the road though. First I need to get thru the hurdle of explaining to her that when (or if) I get married it won't be by a priest or in the church for that matter...


When I got married on a golf course by a dear friend I'm pretty sure my grandparents spent the whole ceremony in silent prayer. I watched it happen.
Feb 13 2015 10:16PM
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Charlie_Kelly
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I think its far more selfish to have children.

1. You're bringing a kid into the massive clusterfuck that is the world, where he/she will have to face problems our current generation can't even comprehend.

2. The world is already vastly overpopulated. You will just be adding to the problem.
Feb 14 2015 11:07AM
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KneeDrop
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Granite_StateI think its far more selfish to have children.

1. You're bringing a kid into the massive clusterfuck that is the world, where he/she will have to face problems our current generation can't even comprehend.

2. The world is already vastly overpopulated. You will just be adding to the problem.


my first thoughts exactly.
Feb 14 2015 11:27AM
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Shredsterr
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.frenchyBecause this is a ski forum with a bunch of kids from mostly northern states (mostly blue states)? The view is a lot more different on my hunting/fishing forums, NS has always been like this for as long as I've been a member...


WE DON'T FUCKING CARE. STOP BITCHING ABOUT US HAVING DIFFERENT OPINIONS THAN YOU.
Feb 14 2015 4:09PM
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