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Leaving the Friendzone

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WavyHairDon
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I've recently decided that I'd like to leave the friendzone with a girl I've been good friends with since my freshman year in college. I'm now in the final semester of my senior year.

Ran into her at the bar the first Thursday back from break, and she invited herself over for dinner that Sunday. We made dinner together then watched Silver Linings Playbook.

Shared a blanket but didn't cuddle. Walked her out but didn't kiss her. Pussed out, maybe... do I have the green light to make moves or is she just being nice?
Jan 28 2015 12:40PM
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RimJobber
Posts: 3313 - Karma: 10,058
You've waited too long. Cut your losses and just fuck her best friend.
Jan 28 2015 12:49PM
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Caucasian_Asian
Posts: 2447 - Karma: 1,665
WavyHairDonI've recently decided that I'd like to leave the friendzone with a girl


I'd like to win a million dollars.
Jan 28 2015 12:49PM
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saskskier
Posts: 4774 - Karma: 10,005
Jan 28 2015 1:06PM
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.Hugo.
Posts: 17360 - Karma: 28,488
Id like to own a bugatti and an island
Jan 28 2015 1:06PM
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kshaughn
Posts: 509 - Karma: 4,568
Yeah you're most likely fucked at this point.
Jan 28 2015 1:11PM
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AT-AT
Posts: 3281 - Karma: 3,256
If the girl doesn't want to date you, that is her loss. Your significant other should be your best friend. You wouldn't constantly do everything for your best friend to just get a few moments of their time, so why should you do it with your significant other?

Find someone who wants you as much as you want them. Everyone else isn't worth the time.
Jan 28 2015 1:16PM
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saskskier
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AT-ATIf the girl doesn't want to date you, that is her loss. Your significant other should be your best friend. You wouldn't constantly do everything for your best friend to just get a few moments of their time, so why should you do it with your significant other?

Find someone who wants you as much as you want them. Everyone else isn't worth the time.


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Jan 28 2015 1:18PM
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wyguy
Posts: 84 - Karma: 768
touch call there muchacho. you either gotta go for it and risk it to get the biscuit or cut your intimate losses and remain friends. could be too late but she could be feeling the same way so who knows.
Jan 28 2015 2:28PM
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Bamjam
Posts: 200 - Karma: 129
Either she was waiting that whole time for you to make a move, or you're deep in the zone.
Jan 28 2015 2:32PM
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Kreech
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saskskier


Literally the first thing I thought of when I saw the thread title
Jan 28 2015 2:37PM
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DJtearegas
Posts: 227 - Karma: 591
abandon her friendship, use the time to better yourself, come back more interested in her sexually, then add alcohol and pee in her butt

has worked for me with a few different clams
Jan 28 2015 2:39PM
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iSmokeweed
Posts: 4793 - Karma: 1,370
RimJobberYou've waited too long. Cut your losses and just fuck her best friend.


the only way out of the friendzone is to fuck her best friend
Jan 28 2015 4:25PM
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_____alfredo____
Posts: 1123 - Karma: 2,503
iSmokeweedthe only way out of the friendzone is to fuck her best friend


!
Jan 28 2015 4:53PM
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GregFlik
Posts: 449 - Karma: 1,069
If you don't kiss her/make a move by the third date, then you missed your window. Sorry bro.

If she is single, send her over this way.
Jan 28 2015 9:38PM
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Dirac
Posts: 1304 - Karma: 335
alcohol.
Jan 28 2015 9:44PM
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Top_Gun
Posts: 258 - Karma: 469
Diracalcohol.

Quoting for emphasis
Jan 28 2015 10:01PM
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plyswthsqrrls
Posts: 838 - Karma: 2,271
GregFlikIf you don't kiss her/make a move by the third date, then you missed your window. Sorry bro.

If she is single, send her over this way.


can 100% confirm this is not true
Jan 28 2015 10:01PM
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CluckaChuck
Posts: 1541 - Karma: 734
Diracalcohol.


Should know this by now. GOD DAMN AMATEURS
Jan 28 2015 10:18PM
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dingus
Posts: 1328 - Karma: 7,879

Found a pic of OP in the friend zone
Jan 28 2015 10:25PM
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Kooky_Lukey
Posts: 1002 - Karma: 1,966
Go for it. You're at the end of your college career, what do you have to lose? She's probably looking for a somewhat stable relationship so go for it
Jan 28 2015 11:34PM
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no_steeze
Posts: 23992 - Karma: 4,273
All signs are pointing towards her being into you. I left the friendzone with one of my closest friends and now we've been dating for like 4 years, so it is definitely possible
Jan 29 2015 12:08AM
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TheMollyWop
Posts: 82 - Karma: 433
idk, the friendzone is a weird place. i believe that you will only ever journey to this hellish land, if you let it happen. so dont be pussy and don let yourself get there.
Jan 29 2015 1:45AM
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californiagrown
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are you cool with blowing up the friendship? because no matter how you go about it, if you want to take your relationship to the next level it will never go back to platonic friends.

you just gotta put it out there. If you guys have a good connection it is almost a given that she will be down to give it a try...that is if you arent just that shoulder to cry on type friend.

end of college is a perfect time to try this because people are starting to think about their future instead of just thinking about having fun and experiencing as much as possible. so she might actually be thinking rationally and, assuming you are relativly attractive, will put your compatible personality and objectively attractive looks and style together.

You miss all the shots you dont take. It sucks to have that one hot friend in college and move away thinking she was THE girl that got away. there is always a chance down the road after school, but why live with that "possibility" hanging over your head?


Hell, she probably thinks you friendzoned her. I know ive had that happen- we both thought we were in the impenetrable friendzone, and only because of a really drunk night and waking up in the same bed did we finally have a chat and decide to make a go of it.
Jan 29 2015 2:52AM
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PeppermillReno
Posts: 4814 - Karma: -707
WavyHairDonI've recently decided that I'd like to leave the friendzone with a girl I've been good friends with since my freshman year in college. I'm now in the final semester of my senior year.

Ran into her at the bar the first Thursday back from break, and she invited herself over for dinner that Sunday. We made dinner together then watched Silver Linings Playbook.

Shared a blanket but didn't cuddle. Walked her out but didn't kiss her. Pussed out, maybe... do I have the green light to make moves or is she just being nice?


Send her a dick pic. You can play it off like an accident and like it was meant for someone else. Her reaction will tell you what you need to know.


Standard "moves" sound like they will end in rejection for you so be bold and get the point across.
Jan 29 2015 3:23AM
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Flyingnugget
Posts: 487 - Karma: 221
Dude you shared a blanket and watched a movie with a girl you like and want to date, but were to afraid to even put your arm around her at any point? You need to learn from this critical mistake my friend.

what the literal fuck
Jan 29 2015 9:06AM
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KravtZ
Posts: 6637 - Karma: 2,629
FlyingnuggetDude you shared a blanket and watched a movie with a girl you like and want to date, but were to afraid to even put your arm around her at any point? You need to learn from this critical mistake my friend.

what the literal fuck


Agree brah....did you at least touch her? like leg touching or something? Gets the blood flowing and all uphill from there
Jan 29 2015 9:13AM
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