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Broke up or Hookup

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walshie
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So basically, my girlfriend who i just started dating a couple weeks ago broke up with me after we had sex all night and then again all the next morning. She said as Im dropping her off she didnt want a relationship and I told her i wanted to talk to her about the same thing last night. I was just going to say all we do is hookup and its not even a real relationship.

So basically, she said she really doesnt want a relationship and she wants to go back to before we were dating. Im thinking that means just hooking up.

Its just crazy because she said all this stuff how she was gonna ask me out in the beginning and how she is so happy to call me her bf. Now I feel like i dont even know her.

So the question is should i see if she just wants to hookup with me or should i just cut her off. Granted she is cute and really cool, I just feel like it wouldnt be fair to me because i started to like her and its all on her terms.

Any idea or suggestions are appreciated.

Also send +++vibes because this shit is weighting me down thinking about it 24.7 and thats not good with finals this week.
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Dec 4 2014 6:31PM
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GayWolf420
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+vibes, bro. sorry 4 ur loss
Dec 4 2014 6:34PM
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edai
Posts: 4992 - Karma: 4,693
Honestly its gonna sound shallow but it really depends if shes good looking. id say just like post a picture of her or message me one just so i can say like hell yeah keep workin for it and let it go
Dec 4 2014 6:38PM
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Laurent.
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You probably did something wrong when making love to her.

Vibes brah.
Dec 4 2014 6:42PM
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walshie
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omnidataYou probably did something wrong when making love to her.

Vibes brah.


Honestly wish I did, then I wouldnt be completely blindsided. Literally she doesnt like me she just likes this dick i guess
Dec 4 2014 6:43PM
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Laurent.
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walshieHonestly wish I did, then I wouldnt be completely blindsided. Literally she doesnt like me she just likes this dick i guess


If she loves walshie jr. but not a relationship, make her your friend with benefits.
Dec 4 2014 6:48PM
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snowpocalypse
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Ditch the girl. There are plenty of them out there. Don't play her games.
Dec 4 2014 6:49PM
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bighomieflock
Posts: 2040 - Karma: 2,445
I wish I had your problems.
Dec 4 2014 6:52PM
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gapersarefriends
Posts: 2158 - Karma: 4,270
fuck her, i went through the same situation in august.if it's not what you want and if you like her, it's gonna be a shitty time knowing that she's just hanging out to fuck
Dec 4 2014 6:55PM
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ModMommy
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4get her
Dec 4 2014 6:56PM
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connecticunt
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It depends. If you caught any sort of feelings for this girl, don't try to be fwb. If it doesn't bother you that she was/is trying to get in your head and play games, and the sex is good, go for it. Just don't dwell on it. Its so not worth it.
Dec 4 2014 6:57PM
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.Hugo.
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Did you pay this girl to date you?
Dec 4 2014 7:00PM
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*geezer*
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Don't mean to be a negative nancy, but did you demonstrate that you would be good relationship material?

If you want to continue things, tell her you enjoy your conversations together, her presence, her attitude etc. Maybe make her a homemade meal. You might have made her feel like a slam piece... just sayin'. But also look back on her actions. Did she ever go out of her way to make you feel appreciated? If not, then maybe move on.
Dec 4 2014 7:15PM
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walshie
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250But also look back on her actions. Did she ever go out of her way to make you feel appreciated? If not, then maybe move on.


So true, I did everything for her and shit and all I got a side from sex is texts that made me feel good and compliments but definitely big to think about
Dec 4 2014 10:12PM
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JahLiam
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pictures of the girl in question? this is a major factor
Dec 4 2014 10:16PM
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*Frankie*
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threads for pic
Dec 4 2014 11:31PM
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theabortionator
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Keep banging her until you find something better? Or just be single I guess if you're that emotionally scarred that you don't want to stick your dick in her anymore.
Dec 4 2014 11:33PM
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All_Alpine
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walshieSo true, I did everything for her and shit and all I got a side from sex is texts that made me feel good and compliments but definitely big to think about


She's seeing someone else dude. If she's all about pound town and the best she can do is send you a flattering text...get tested man. Sucks falling from a burst bubble but better Annie up than be all in.
Dec 4 2014 11:47PM
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PeppermillReno
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She sounds like a great girl. And maybe shes the hottest you can get. You don't want to go down to a 5. But you can't win her back by acting really desperate.


Here is my advice- secretely remove the condom during sex. It is the only solution that will result in your happiness. Don't get caught doing it. This will work out happily every after and you will have a new family.

She is probably just confused and doesn't appreciate what she has in you. Give her compliments via text if in person makes her feel awkward.
Dec 5 2014 12:15AM
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cornholio
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All_AlpineAnnie up


ante up
Dec 5 2014 12:19AM
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cornholio
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cornholioante up


https://www.newschoolers.com/videos/watch/741544/M-O-P----Ante-Up--Uncut-
Dec 5 2014 12:20AM
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theabortionator
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PeppermillRenoHere is my advice- secretely remove the condom during sex. It is the only solution that will result in your happiness.


I would make 100% sure you're wearing one even if she's on the pill. Let's just fuck can mean you aren't the only guy tapping that.

I still think you OP should keep with it until he finds something else.

Seems to make sense but I wouldn't listen to the shit that comes out of my mouth anyway
Dec 5 2014 12:20AM
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erikK
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cornholioante up


post that pic
Dec 5 2014 12:21AM
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walshie
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I already hit it raw 95% of the time and take off the condom and pull out
Dec 5 2014 12:26AM
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ABalls
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theabortionatorI would make 100% sure you're wearing one even if she's on the pill. Let's just fuck can mean you aren't the only guy tapping that.


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Dec 5 2014 1:08AM
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corona
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walshieI already hit it raw 95% of the time and take off the condom and pull out


should probably chop off your dick before the aids spreads to the rest of your body
Dec 5 2014 1:14AM
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T-Holt
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VinnieFshould probably chop off your dick before the aids spreads to the rest of your body


Nah just embrace the aids. Now you can raw dog it without worrying about getting aids cus you already have it.
Dec 5 2014 2:39AM
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iH8pow
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I feel your pain, had this happen a few times. I could go on a long vent, but meh.
Forget her, what a bitch. Why do women wear makeup and perfume? Because they're ugly, and they stink. Just start hating on women because it will probably happen to you in the future as well--and they wonder how republicans become so extreme in some cases
Dec 5 2014 5:32AM
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Bombogenesis
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Good for this kid... Having sex all night at 14 and all.
Dec 5 2014 6:29AM
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soulskier
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My advice would depend on how well you could handle it

If you can hook up with her without getting attached, go for it

If you cant, better in the long run to walk away now

If she's your sister, I've got nothing
Dec 5 2014 6:34AM
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HuckNorris44
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Did you follow the D.E.N.N.I.S. system? Works every time

https://www.newschoolers.com/videos/watch/741611/It--39-s-Always-Sunny-In-Philadelphia---The-D-E-N-N-I-S-System-scene--S05E10---The-D-E-N-N-I-S-System-
Dec 5 2014 10:08AM
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Peter.
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theabortionatorKeep banging her until you find something better? Or just be single I guess if you're that emotionally scarred that you don't want to stick your dick in her anymore.


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Dec 5 2014 10:18AM
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cool_name
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walshieI already hit it raw 95% of the time and take off the condom and pull out


Anybody following this, because I sure cant. He is in her 'raw', therefore without a condom, he then while still fucking her takes off a condom, which he didn't have on originally, keeps going and then pulls out.

So, far I figure the events went like this, started fucking her raw, then stopped in order to put on a condom, I'm guessing to make sure he doesn't cum in her, then while still inside manages to take the condom off it doesn't fall off, he explicitly said he takes it off,defeating the purpose of ever putting it on halfway through in the first place, in order to keep fucking her before pulling out.

Op you know you need to wear the condom the whole time to make it work right, its not something you only need to wear for a few strokes.
Dec 5 2014 8:01PM
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Charlie_Kelly
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250Don't mean to be a negative nancy, but did you demonstrate that you would be good relationship material?

If you want to continue things, tell her you enjoy your conversations together, her presence, her attitude etc. Maybe make her a homemade meal. You might have made her feel like a slam piece... just sayin'. But also look back on her actions. Did she ever go out of her way to make you feel appreciated? If not, then maybe move on.


I feel like girls overestimate boys emotional intelligence. If youre attractive we want to sex you. If you are attractive and not a dunderhead, we want to to sex you and maybe date you. If youre attractive, not a dunderhead, and ski we want to marry you. Pretty simple, we don't have hidden agendas like you vixens.
Dec 5 2014 8:10PM
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Iliveinutah
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https://www.newschoolers.com/videos/watch/741685/K-Camp---Cut-Her-Off-ft--2-Chainz
Dec 5 2014 9:14PM
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Rusticles
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It sounds to me like you smothered her too much, she wanted to take things slower commitment wise while still banging it out on the reg. don't worry, I've seen this happen plenty of times. This is how you play it if you want a relationship, keep bangin her whenever she wants, when you're not banging give her all the space she wants, don't totally ignore her but act as if she's no big deal and nothing's going on. Keep yourself busy with friends, activities and even other women. She might see that she actually wants a relationship when your not around all the time and what's the worst that happens? You get laid all the time?

Oh yeah, don't resent all women because of this otherwise you may knock-up the wrong one so remember to pull.
Dec 7 2014 10:40AM
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BenWhit
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http://youtu.be/M37HHf099oM
Dec 7 2014 1:58PM
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DIX~
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walshieI already hit it raw 95% of the time and take off the condom and pull out


Just bust inside her, knock her up. That'll get her to hang out with you
Dec 7 2014 2:05PM
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first_rodeo
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1. GoPro
2. Wifi remote
3. hide it
$$$ profit
Dec 7 2014 3:36PM
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Bagina
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OP post a pic of your mom so we know what we're dealing with here.
Dec 7 2014 6:42PM
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[tk]
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cool_nameAnybody following this, because I sure cant. He is in her 'raw', therefore without a condom, he then while still fucking her takes off a condom, which he didn't have on originally, keeps going and then pulls out.

So, far I figure the events went like this, started fucking her raw, then stopped in order to put on a condom, I'm guessing to make sure he doesn't cum in her, then while still inside manages to take the condom off it doesn't fall off, he explicitly said he takes it off,defeating the purpose of ever putting it on halfway through in the first place, in order to keep fucking her before pulling out.

Op you know you need to wear the condom the whole time to make it work right, its not something you only need to wear for a few strokes.


I was confused as well +k for analysis. I think he said "raw" meaning only one condom, as opposed to the usual 1 condom on dick, 1 condom in vag. Then he took off his and "pulled out," meaning he finished inside her. Makes sense if you think about it.
Dec 7 2014 7:30PM
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Scaredwhiteboy
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OP post a pic of your weiner so we know what all the fuss is about.
Dec 7 2014 7:36PM
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DayMan
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[tk]1 condom on dick, 1 condom in vag


Hold the fucking phone, is this actually a thing?
Dec 7 2014 8:45PM
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