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THEE_wizard
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Sorry to do this, but I have no one else to ask.

I'm 16. This girl was behind me in Science class last year, so I got to know her a little bit at the end of the year. This year just started of course, and whenever we see each other we are always kinda flirting. I know she likes me and I really want to ask her out. But here is the catch. Parents. My parents are really strict as far as dating. I've never been on a date, never kissed a girl, I can't even go out with friends if there will be a girl there. It's crazy. They keep a really close watch on where I am. But I haven't snuk out or anything so I could probably get away with quite a bit because of My parents trusting me about where I am.

Any real solutions to what I can do, or should I just get over it and accept that I will be alone for quite a while.
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Aidan-G
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As long as your parents don't know you're good. Also if your parents are so strict that you can't date at 16 there's something going on
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profa_212
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Aidan-GAs long as your parents don't know you're good. Also if your parents are so strict that you can't date at 16 there's something going on


Yeah this. You are 16, that seems a bit crazy that they are that tight assed over girl.
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shocker611
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date her at school, kinda in secret. Sneak out if it ever gets to that point? You need to kiss somebody man... you're gonna struggle in college if you don't get going (if you wanna go to college)
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THEE_wizard
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Aidan-GAs long as your parents don't know you're good. Also if your parents are so strict that you can't date at 16 there's something going on


Well They are like afraid I will disown their religion and become some punk loser. It's just kinda hard to explain.

Also what is a good way to keep them from finding out. I've been thinking of how to get around this for a couple of years, but they are really hard to get away from; like won't let me leave the house with friends or anything usually.
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the.hellion.
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Lies of omission, my friend. Tell as much of the truth as you can. 'you're going out to x with a' (maybe actually b, but they don't need to know that) Go home when you say you will and try not to get caught drunk or high or not being where you say you'd be. The trick is making everything good enough that fudging a few details really doesn't matter.The foundational elements of respect, responsibility and punctuality are sufficiently demonstrated to not pry into anything too hard. Also, if plans are changing on the fly a short call or text goes a long waY (hey guys, just letting you know we're going to d instead of c, or something like that)


Good luck !
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THEE_wizard
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shocker611date her at school, kinda in secret.


How should I go about telling her so we can do this?
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Aidan-G
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THEE_wizardHow should I go about telling her so we can do this?


That's the easiest part. you just explain it to her. Just tell her the truth
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JakeAssBeatClap
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When I hear of parents like that it's incredibly frustrating to me. Sheltered kids, time and time again, end up being the ones who are majorly fucked in the long run.

My brother, put on your rebel pants and act like your life is a movie, sneak out make out with this chick, put your hand down her pants, and do your thing. Smoke a cigarette in a leather jacket and be the boss that we all know you are.

Good luck man!!
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toastyteenagers
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so like dude hang out with her at school and do after school stuff togther, like computer club or something queer like that.

i had a situation like this but in reverse.
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THEE_wizard
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the.hellion.Lies of omission, my friend. Tell as much of the truth as you can. 'you're going out to x with a' (maybe actually b, but they don't need to know that) Go home when you say you will and try not to get caught drunk or high or not being where you say you'd be. The trick is making everything good enough that fudging a few details really doesn't matter.The foundational elements of respect, responsibility and punctuality are sufficiently demonstrated to not pry into anything too hard. Also, if plans are changing on the fly a short call or text goes a long waY (hey guys, just letting you know we're going to d instead of c, or something like that)


Good luck !


Thanks, this is sound advice!
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Aidan-G
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JakeAssBeatClapWhen I hear of parents like that it's incredibly frustrating to me. Sheltered kids, time and time again, end up being the ones who are majorly fucked in the long run.

My brother, put on your rebel pants and act like your life is a movie, sneak out make out with this chick, put your hand down her pants, and do your thing. Smoke a cigarette in a leather jacket and be the boss that we all know you are.

Good luck man!!


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.lencon
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Follow this guide:

1. Does she ski? Yes? Continue to number 2. No? Skip to number 4.
2. Take her skiing.
3. Bang her.
4. She ain't "keeper" material since she doesn't ski so go to number 3 them number 5.
5. Leave her
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.lencon
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.LincolnFollow this guide:

1. Does she ski? Yes? Continue to number 2. No? Skip to number 4.
2. Take her skiing.
3. Bang her.
4. She ain't "keeper" material since she doesn't ski so go to number 3 them number 5.
5. Leave her


Also forgot to say if you get to number 2 then proceed to number 3. Once you do number 3 you may proceed to number 5 or number 6. Number 6 is:

6. Keep her
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skier58284
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Your parents do not own you. Do whatever you want. As long as you aren't harming anyone, tell your parents to gtfo if they try to interfere.
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Kooky_Lukey
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Sh4dowYour parents do not own you. Do whatever you want. As long as you aren't harming anyone, tell your parents to gtfo if they try to interfere.


At 16 your parents have the ability to make your life hell... Don't listen to this dude
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270on420out
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Just date her and if your parents give you a hard time, then get some hair on your balls and tell them that you are very close to be an adult and you want to be treated as one. My friends dad was strict as hell. By highschool i almost never saw him. His dad was an asshole, and gave his son almost no freedoms. One night when he was 17, he and his dad got into a huge fight. He woke up the next morning with welts all over his body and a black eye. He drove his van all the way out to mt baker and has been loving his life as a ski bum. Never talked to his dad again.
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Charlie_Kelly
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THEE_wizardWell They are like afraid I will disown their religion and become some punk loser. It's just kinda hard to explain.

Also what is a good way to keep them from finding out. I've been thinking of how to get around this for a couple of years, but they are really hard to get away from; like won't let me leave the house with friends or anything usually.


DON'T DO IT. Religion is the most important thing in the world. No girl will love you forever but God will. He is the eternal sunshine. The silent guardian. The White Warden. He is bathing you in his blessing of purity and you are turning your back on him for this hedonistic behavior? How dare you. You're parents are trying to steer you down the right path to the light of the Almighty but it sounds like this she-devil is just another trick that Satan has sent to stray you from your path. PRAY. Pray this wench never whispers ill of the Lord to you again. Pray that the Lord will forgive you for your sins.

If you want to discuss how to get on the right path once again, PM milkman, he gets it.
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soulskier
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I would suggest talking it over with your parents, thought I'm often wrong

Seems at 16 they should have some trust in you

They must not trust women
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louie.mirags
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explain to your parents that the kids with the strictest rules rebel the hardest.
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Huck_Norris
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Aidan-GAs long as your parents don't know you're good. Also if your parents are so strict that you can't date at 16 there's something going on


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Your parents are huge prudes. Get with this lil honey dip before you blow your chance. Lie, cheat, sneak and do what you have to. They're literally forcing you to take drastic measures.

At 16 if they won't even allow you to hang out in the same house as a girl, they can fkn suck it haha
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pat_in_the_hat
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soulskierThey must not trust women


smart people..
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SFB
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be careful OP it sounds like your dad is jealous about you with other girls becuase he wants to date you.
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.Hugo.
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They're very religious? Tell your parents she wears a chastity belt. That should put them at ease
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Steezy_IN_KC
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Talk to your parents. Have a legitimate conversation with one or both of your parents and tell them why you want more freedom.

My parents were strict, until I asked for more freedom. They told me that it was a sign of maturity and that they were willing to give me a chance.
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ModMommy
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Sit down with them and have a discussion about it. Have reasons why you should be allowed more freedom, and how it could benefit you. Just don't be a brat and your parents are likely to listen to you.
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TheButterHashira
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If they're big time x-ian you should tell them that you think you might be gay. They will be forcing you to hang out with girls after that.
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RevolverHustleO
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obvious is very obvious
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270on420out
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ButtahMastahIf they're big time x-ian you should tell them that you think you might be gay. They will be forcing you to hang out with girls after that.


Or you could end up,in "gay rehab" for the rest of your teenage years
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elinde
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Fuck your dad, then your mom, then your dad again, and they will realize that you suck at fucking and need to start fucking ASAP. SO they will let you fuck this girl.
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Turd.Ferguson
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Profahoben_212Yeah this. You are 16, that seems a bit crazy that they are that tight assed over girl.


pun inteded "tight assed"???
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SFB
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TRVP_LVRDOr you could end up,in "gay rehab" for the rest of your teenage years


i changed my mind, op you need to go to gay rehab or you will never get this girl.
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soulskier
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Bottom line is if you don't pray away the gay, you'll never get the girl
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plyswthsqrrls
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RevolverHustleOobvious is very obvious


what does this even mean?

op you definitely need to talk with your parents, that sounds insane. don't be a little bitch about it, but bring it up to them and tell them you deserve more freedom (you are in murica I presume?) because you're not a total fucking burnout

oh and
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RevolverHustleO
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plyswthsqrrlswhat does this even mean?

It means you're feeding it moron
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lurking
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Railersailerso like dude hang out with her at school and do after school stuff togther, like computer club or something queer like that.

i had a situation like this but in reverse.


Who on earth would want to date you? I don't even know you outside of newschoolers and I already want to hit you with a brick
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Culture+
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dingus
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even the Mormons let there offspring begin the breeding process at 16 and those people have more tight ass than a... nevermind. The point is get fucked up and live life.
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pow_pow~
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fuck this is such a NS thread. i would legitimitely be embarrassed to post this on the internet.
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robotdna
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THEE_wizardSorry to do this, but I have no one else to ask.

I'm 16. This girl was behind me in Science class last year, so I got to know her a little bit at the end of the year. This year just started of course, and whenever we see each other we are always kinda flirting. I know she likes me and I really want to ask her out. But here is the catch. Parents. My parents are really strict as far as dating. I've never been on a date, never kissed a girl, I can't even go out with friends if there will be a girl there. It's crazy. They keep a really close watch on where I am. But I haven't snuk out or anything so I could probably get away with quite a bit because of My parents trusting me about where I am.

Any real solutions to what I can do, or should I just get over it and accept that I will be alone for quite a while.


I think if you explain stuff to her it will be a LOT easier.
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Petey.
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OPs parents secretly want him to be gay?
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