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My long distance relationship

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Dolan.Escobar
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I tried bumping an old ldr thread but nobody was replying. So...

About my long distance relationship. Im not sure what to do... This girl is a solid 8.5 (10 body), and shes crazy about me and wants to get married. I like her alot, but not as much as she likes me.
My whole life ive been the kind of person that didnt care about whether a girl liked me or not, if i wasnt totally into them then i ignored them basically.

But now i feel like if I broke it off with this girl it would destroy her; like literally she would be heartbroken. And i dont really want to do that to her, because (at least to me) she is the sweetest girl you will ever meet.

I would be happy if she moved to the us and got married- shes from a culture in which the male of the relationship is treated like royalty, and shes no exception.
any advices?
Aug 3 2014 9:14PM
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Rachy
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Dolan.EscobarShes from tokyo. Shes all about fashion too. Like pants creaming japanese girl style.
She looks more or less like this, http://img01.taobaocdn.com/bao/uploaded/i5/T10YOAXXFdXXafJB31_041951.jpg_310x310.jpg
and does have that perfect of a body


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0bC__I-Lqsaw picture and thought of....

http://youtu.be/x0bC__I-LqsI'm a bad person.

But seriously, don't keep her around cause she's pretty. Relationships should be easy to be in. Neither person should feel they are doing the other person a service by being in it.
Aug 4 2014 10:51PM
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CaptainObvious.
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snobunnyyeah but...yeah but...i mean, when you get married, shouldn't she be like your best friend/your other half/your go-to babe? Shouldn't she know about NS and what you do in your free time and how you feel?


NS is my dirty little secret.
Aug 4 2014 11:22PM
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Dolan.Escobar
Posts: 683 - Karma: 943
Rachyhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0bC__I-Lqsaw picture and thought of....

http://youtu.be/x0bC__I-LqsI'm a bad person.

But seriously, don't keep her around cause she's pretty. Relationships should be easy to be in. Neither person should feel they are doing the other person a service by being in it.


I mean i really dont want to lose her, most american girls i meet who are remotely hot act like they walk on water. Its such a huge contrast to my gf... Makes me feel like if i let her go id be making a huge mistake as someone mentioned a few posts into this thread
Aug 4 2014 11:25PM
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Kooky_Lukey
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Move to Japan for a year, meet her family etc.. You'll get to travel and after that year if you're still together pop the question, if you break up then you break up.
Aug 5 2014 8:34AM
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Barefootin_Fiend
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Dolan.EscobarThx


ha! You cant tell from what shes wearing? Look at those legs! And she doesnt even work out

well i can't tell what kind of rack she's sporting from that pic....or if the tummy is as tight as the first pic. bikini pic now!
Aug 5 2014 8:56AM
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speedin
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Dolan.EscobarI tried bumping an old ldr thread but nobody was replying. So...

About my long distance relationship. Im not sure what to do... This girl is a solid 8.5 (10 body), and shes crazy about me and wants to get married. I like her alot, but not as much as she likes me.
My whole life ive been the kind of person that didnt care about whether a girl liked me or not, if i wasnt totally into them then i ignored them basically.

But now i feel like if I broke it off with this girl it would destroy her; like literally she would be heartbroken. And i dont really want to do that to her, because (at least to me) she is the sweetest girl you will ever meet.

I would be happy if she moved to the us and got married- shes from a culture in which the male of the relationship is treated like royalty, and shes no exception.
any advices?


Don't ever feel bad for making a decision about your own life that upsets other people. You are not responsible for their happiness. You're responsible for your own happiness. Anyone who wants you to live unhappy or in misery for their happiness should not be in your life to begin with.

You seem like a young guy. You think she she is the only girl in the world that is sweet and has a nice body? There are plenty of them. People are not special. Women especially like to talk about the destiny and true love. But the truth is that you make your own relationships and happiness.
Your young, get out while you can and enjoy the vast amount of pussy the world has to offer.
:)
Aug 5 2014 10:54AM
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spaceghostpurp
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snobunnyyeah but...yeah but...i mean, when you get married, shouldn't she be like your best friend/your other half/your go-to babe? Shouldn't she know about NS and what you do in your free time and how you feel?


are you a girl?
Aug 7 2014 8:47PM
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Sno.
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spaceghostpurpare you a girl?


yes
Aug 7 2014 11:59PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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^shes bucking the system. revenge for all the guys who have pinknames.

as for my gf, i think im gonna play it by ear. i dont think its a bad thing that we are so far away from eachother, because i dont really want to get married.
Aug 8 2014 12:04AM
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406
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your iq is peasant status compared to hers....you should prob KYS
Aug 8 2014 4:41AM
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casual
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Honest question. How does she feel about your heroin use? I'd say this relationship is a sham if she isn't privy to your drug use, whether you feel it's recreational or not.
Aug 8 2014 1:05PM
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TheBigApple
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Thizzle.If you don't feel how she feels better to dump her now and give her more time to figure it out. Like, if you really know you aren't gonna marry this chick do her a favor and let her know now and let her down easy as possible. BUT HOWEVER, if you think there is a shot that you will feel that way and that she is that girl for ya, fucking go for it. I fucked up and let the girl go that felt that way about me and I was nervous and didn't want to commit because I had never been in another serious relationship. Turns out we live three states away now and I've been with few other girls some semi serious relationships etc... and now I regret losing that one every single day of my life and she is happy with someone else. Frustrating as all hell because we basically went out and got life experience and she realized she could do better and did it and I realized I couldn't do better and am stuck with regret. So it's a pretty personal decision just don't make the wrong one.


That sucks, I feel like I'm on the same path as you, Hopefully something comes around for us!
Aug 8 2014 4:13PM
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iH8pow
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I love how girls make up 3% of NS, but are 50% the commentators in relationship threads

So she's smoking hot...loves you (long time?)...treats you like royalty...and you don't reciprocate? Is that reason 'cause she's asian?

You might be racist
Aug 8 2014 5:41PM
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CLQ
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@dolanslebensraum What ever happened here?
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TRVP_ANGEL
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Out of all things that happened in this world, this is not one of them
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