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My long distance relationship

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Dolan.Escobar
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I tried bumping an old ldr thread but nobody was replying. So...

About my long distance relationship. Im not sure what to do... This girl is a solid 8.5 (10 body), and shes crazy about me and wants to get married. I like her alot, but not as much as she likes me.
My whole life ive been the kind of person that didnt care about whether a girl liked me or not, if i wasnt totally into them then i ignored them basically.

But now i feel like if I broke it off with this girl it would destroy her; like literally she would be heartbroken. And i dont really want to do that to her, because (at least to me) she is the sweetest girl you will ever meet.

I would be happy if she moved to the us and got married- shes from a culture in which the male of the relationship is treated like royalty, and shes no exception.
any advices?
Aug 3 2014 9:14PM
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Titus69
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1. Provide pics.
2. Fly where she is.
3. Marry the shit outta her.
4. Profit?
Aug 3 2014 9:23PM
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Bodhisattva_
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If you don't feel how she feels better to dump her now and give her more time to figure it out. Like, if you really know you aren't gonna marry this chick do her a favor and let her know now and let her down easy as possible. BUT HOWEVER, if you think there is a shot that you will feel that way and that she is that girl for ya, fucking go for it. I fucked up and let the girl go that felt that way about me and I was nervous and didn't want to commit because I had never been in another serious relationship. Turns out we live three states away now and I've been with few other girls some semi serious relationships etc... and now I regret losing that one every single day of my life and she is happy with someone else. Frustrating as all hell because we basically went out and got life experience and she realized she could do better and did it and I realized I couldn't do better and am stuck with regret. So it's a pretty personal decision just don't make the wrong one.
Aug 3 2014 9:23PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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Titus691. Provide pics.
2. Fly where she is.
3. Marry the shit outta her.
4. Profit?

I dont know how to post pics. Ill look for a comparable looking girl on google and link it.
Thizzle.If you don't feel how she feels better to dump her now and give her more time to figure it out. Like, if you really know you aren't gonna marry this chick do her a favor and let her know now and let her down easy as possible. BUT HOWEVER, if you think there is a shot that you will feel that way and that she is that girl for ya, fucking go for it. I fucked up and let the girl go that felt that way about me and I was nervous and didn't want to commit because I had never been in another serious relationship. Turns out we live three states away now and I've been with few other girls some semi serious relationships etc... and now I regret losing that one every single day of my life and she is happy with someone else. Frustrating as all hell because we basically went out and got life experience and she realized she could do better and did it and I realized I couldn't do better and am stuck with regret. So it's a pretty personal decision just don't make the wrong one.


Yeah i think im spoiled because shes so crazy about me. Like if she wasnt so faithful and devoted to me i might not be so spoiled. Its just great though, like i have this pretty gorgeous girl that lives on the other side of the world that wants to get married. Its just that i dont want her to move to the us and everything if i end up breaking it off with her. But i think if she did move id be happy spending my life with her...
moving is a big deal tho, shed have to learn better english and get hired as a stewardess here, which could be difficult. But over everything is the fact that shes nuts about me, and i really dont want to let her down...
Aug 3 2014 10:19PM
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lurking
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If you would marry her in the US, then in words of our god the great THALL, "FUCKING SEND IT SON!" but it'll only hurt her more if you don't tell her now
Aug 3 2014 10:21PM
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.FRY.
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did she move for good? or is she coming back eventually?
Aug 3 2014 10:22PM
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Titus69
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Dolan.EscobarI dont know how to post pics. Ill look for a comparable looking girl on google and link it.


Yeah i think im spoiled because shes so crazy about me. Like if she wasnt so faithful and devoted to me i might not be so spoiled. Its just great though, like i have this pretty gorgeous girl that lives on the other side of the world that wants to get married. Its just that i dont want her to move to the us and everything if i end up breaking it off with her. But i think if she did move id be happy spending my life with her...
moving is a big deal tho, shed have to learn better english and get hired as a stewardess here, which could be difficult. But over everything is the fact that shes nuts about me, and i really dont want to let her down...


Lol dont worry about pics, if youre willing and ready to marry her, make it happen. If you arent sure but dont wanna break her heart idk what to say. If you think you can spend your whole life with her or an extremely large portion of it with her at least engage her. I dont really have much to provide seeing I am in high school and dont get girls. Good luck.
Aug 3 2014 10:28PM
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op14
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Is this a recreation of the SMG Byron love tale before Byron moved back from Africa?
Aug 3 2014 10:28PM
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Brule.
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mmccarthy14Is this a recreation of the SMG Byron love tale before Byron moved back from Africa?


i think so...
Aug 3 2014 10:31PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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.FRY.did she move for good? or is she coming back eventually?


Shes from tokyo. Shes all about fashion too. Like pants creaming japanese girl style.
She looks more or less like this, http://img01.taobaocdn.com/bao/uploaded/i5/T10YOAXXFdXXafJB31_041951.jpg_310x310.jpg
and does have that perfect of a body
Aug 3 2014 10:40PM
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.squirrely.
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"i will google and find a girl who looks like her"
Aug 3 2014 10:41PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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.squirrely."i will google and find a girl who looks like her"


Haha, i cant post pics so i figured that was the next best thing
Aug 3 2014 10:50PM
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Espen519
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Seems legit. Post pic of chick "like her". "She's like a 8.5 and crazy for me" sorry OP, but we know the truth. You are looking at mail order brides and actually want our help picking one.

So here's my advice, look for a true MALE order bride from Yugoslavia or something and boom, you're set. Your welcome
Aug 3 2014 10:55PM
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SFB
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Dolan.EscobarHaha, i cant post pics so i figured that was the next best thing

shes not real
Aug 3 2014 10:56PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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SFBshes not real


I made a fake fb account with a picture of her on it. Pm me if you want me to send u the link. But if you do check it out you have to come back to this thread and post about how gorgeous she is
Aug 3 2014 11:03PM
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Olimar
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Dolan.EscobarI made a fake fb account with a picture of her on it. Pm me if you want me to send u the link. But if you do check it out you have to come back to this thread and post about how gorgeous she is


wat.

like why are you even attempting to troll us with this. What is the purpose.
Aug 3 2014 11:13PM
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.FRY.
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Olimarwat.

like why are you even attempting to troll us with this. What is the purpose.


no, he doesn't know how to embed. he made her a Facebook so that we could see her.
Aug 3 2014 11:18PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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Yup,^ ive got an older pic of when she was 19 and she literally looks like the stereotypical japanese sex kitten, but the one i put on fb isnt bad, im just curious what other people think. and its not even like i have a thing for japanese girls, but, well,, if you want to see a pic pm me
Aug 3 2014 11:27PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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If i post it on fb can somebody take it and embed it here?
Aug 3 2014 11:31PM
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.Hugo.
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Dolan.EscobarIf i post it on fb can somebody take it and embed it here?

ya ill embed it for you
Aug 3 2014 11:38PM
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.FRY.
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Aug 3 2014 11:49PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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.FRY.

Shes on the right, thanks fry..
What do we think? Keeper?
Aug 3 2014 11:50PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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Shes also 5' 5" which is 3 inches taller than avg for a japanese girl,
Aug 3 2014 11:54PM
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Sno.
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aww, she's cute!
Aug 3 2014 11:58PM
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Barefootin_Fiend
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need bikini pics for proof of body. ;)
Aug 4 2014 12:00AM
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Dolan.Escobar
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snobunnyaww, she's cute!

Thx
Barefootin_Fiendneed bikini pics for proof of body. ;)


ha! You cant tell from what shes wearing? Look at those legs! And she doesnt even work out
Aug 4 2014 12:02AM
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Dolan.Escobar
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Best thing is that she doesnt care about what i wear, but she still always dresses up like shes going to hit the runway.
im so spoiled, i dont understand how i could end up with a girl i couldnt deserve less
Aug 4 2014 12:08AM
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.Hugo.
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have you actually ever met her in person?
Aug 4 2014 12:14AM
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Dolan.Escobar
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.Hugo.have you actually ever met her in person?


Of course! We met in europe and stayed together for about a month there
Aug 4 2014 12:33AM
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milk_man
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inb4 OP and asian girl are both 14
Aug 4 2014 1:59PM
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CaptainObvious.
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Dolan.Escobarshe doesnt even work out


Bail. No motivation.
Aug 4 2014 2:28PM
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ZeMagnificentKev
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Whatever you do, DO NOT try to concoct an elaborate (thats actually just dumb)plan to make her break up with you. It will for sure end of crashing into the ground Hindenburg style. Trust me, it's alot better to just talk to her and tell her the truth, be straight with her.
Aug 4 2014 2:33PM
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ModMommy
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Would it destroy you to break it off? It really isn't fair to a girl if she's crazy about you and you don't feel the same about her. However, you say you'd be happy to settle down with her. Do you want to because you'd be treated like royalty or because she genuinely makes you happy?
Aug 4 2014 2:41PM
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Sno.
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you seem indifferent, and indifference does not a marriage make. Break up with her.
Aug 4 2014 2:47PM
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Mingg
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You have to figure out what you want. If you don't know what you want then she's going to end up in the middle of you being indecisive. That's a terrible position to be in. I think If you could see yourself marrying her then stick it out until you guys can be together. If not then end it now before you lead her on even more.
Aug 4 2014 3:21PM
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louie.mirags
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You want to break it off, but you would marry her? hmmmm




You're doing anybody any favors staying with her. The sooner you break it off, the better it is for the both of you. The majority of relationships do not work out. Not every relationship ends it a wedding. Also, you do not need to wait until you find somebody else like some people like to do, that is just selfish. Be honest with her and yourself and cut it off.
Aug 4 2014 3:42PM
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brett_fisher
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date someeles don't tell her wait for her break up
Aug 4 2014 3:45PM
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Sno.
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brett_fisherdate someeles don't tell her wait for her break up


try that one again
Aug 4 2014 3:49PM
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Mingg
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brett_fisherdate someeles don't tell her wait for her break up


Are people really that inconsiderate or are you attempting to troll?
Aug 4 2014 4:03PM
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louie.mirags
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MinggAre people really that inconsiderate or are you attempting to troll?


A lot of people are that inconsiderate..
Aug 4 2014 4:25PM
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.Hugo.
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brett_fisherdate someeles don't tell her wait for her break up


jesus.... mix in a water buddy
Aug 4 2014 4:35PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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immasWould it destroy you to break it off? It really isn't fair to a girl if she's crazy about you and you don't feel the same about her. However, you say you'd be happy to settle down with her. Do you want to because you'd be treated like royalty or because she genuinely makes you happy?

Both. Shes great.
snobunnyyou seem indifferent, and indifference does not a marriage make. Break up with her.


The main reason im indifferent is because we live so far apart, its hard to see us living together. Id like it to happen, but ive gotta be realistic
Aug 4 2014 5:14PM
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louie.mirags
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How far away are we talking? How old ya?
Aug 4 2014 6:06PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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^ Japan,
Aug 4 2014 7:50PM
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Caucasian_Asian
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Pull the plug, get out. The sooner you sack up and do it, the better. No good will come out of dragging it out.


For reference, I was in a long-distance relationship for 10 years. The last 4, I was emotionally checked out.
Aug 4 2014 8:16PM
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spaceghostpurp
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Dolan.EscobarI dont know how to post pics. Ill look for a comparable looking girl on google and link it.


the fact that you posted pics on the internet of your girlfriend means you should not get married
Aug 4 2014 8:39PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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The referenced post has been removed.


Why are you angry? You 100 iq isnt bad yoski.
Take it in context!
http://www.rense.com/general79/dut.htm
Aug 4 2014 9:29PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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Yoski, if you read what i wrote you will understand that im a realist, not a racist. People like you who would wish to lie about what causes the iq gap are the actual racists. Im not willing to delude myself into some poitically correct pipe dream to save you from getting your feelings hurt. Dont worry buddy! Soon youll be at harvard with your aa buddies jerking off eachothers egos about how you wouldve gotten in without it!
Aug 4 2014 9:35PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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spaceghostpurpthe fact that you posted pics on the internet of your girlfriend means you should not get married


This thread will die eventually and ppl will forget about it. Theres 7 billion ppl in this world, posting pics of your gf doesnt do much to compromise anonymity and people do it all the time, even on ns
Aug 4 2014 10:01PM
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Sno.
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Dolan.EscobarThis thread will die eventually and ppl will forget about it. Theres 7 billion ppl in this world, posting pics of your gf doesnt do much to compromise anonymity and people do it all the time, even on ns


yeah but...yeah but...i mean, when you get married, shouldn't she be like your best friend/your other half/your go-to babe? Shouldn't she know about NS and what you do in your free time and how you feel?
Aug 4 2014 10:40PM
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Dolan.Escobar
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snobunnyyeah but...yeah but...i mean, when you get married, shouldn't she be like your best friend/your other half/your go-to babe? Shouldn't she know about NS and what you do in your free time and how you feel?

good point, who knows i might change how i feel, in which case what i say here might become irrelevant.
I just wanted to see what people thought mostly
Aug 4 2014 10:46PM
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