iH8powYou know that feeling you get when you hang out with someone in a friend group who you would never actually be friends with if not for all the mutual friends so you put up with that person, invite them to shit….
but now that we have these group texts which allow people to be passive like we’re on the internet, except we know eachother, it’s fuckin awkward. So now this motherfucker is just throwing shade, we’re not really friends, I’m trying with all my restraint to not calm him a femboy little cuckolded bitch, I’m a stay at home dad to daughters yet I’ve got 3x the masculinity and money than this little shit but he’s just being a little bitch. It’s so hard not flipping out and reminding him we’re not really friends and he should STFU unless he really wants to throw down. Hard to stay adult in this situation. I guess rather than blowing up I’ll just constantly degrade his masculinity over time in group texts
**This post was edited on Nov 8th 2024 at 1:05:29pm
That sucks man, I went through something similar with a group of friends. There was this one guy who was constantly passive-aggressive, always dropping snarky, underhanded comments. I thought about calling him out, but in the end, I just felt sorry for him.
When I got to know him one-on-one, it became obvious why he acted the way he did. The guy had zero self-esteem, a crappy marriage, no real support system, and nothing going on that he could be proud of. Realizing that explained a lot—he was miserable, and it showed.
That wake-up call made me see that this friend group as a whole wasn’t really worth my time, either. They weren’t adding anything positive to my life. So, I just started distancing myself and hanging out with people who actually brought something to the table.
**This post was edited on Nov 8th 2024 at 3:43:56pm