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MinggNow I’m upset with his friend for putting that idea into my head when clearly my boyfriend wasn’t planning that at all. And also feel super rejected by my boyfriend for not even having considered it. We’ve been together 2.5 years and aren’t getting any younger.

SteezyYeeteri'd be careful, you should know whether or not you want to marry someone after 2 years and then do it. otherwise i can only see regret down the path.

MinggMy boyfriend’s best friend told my friends basically that he was going to propose around Christmas time. They didn’t tell me this at the time. They just said to look nice and get my nails done - per the best friend. So I kind of had my suspicions. But I have since found out the best friend did tell them that he was going to propose around Christmas.

Christmas comes and goes without a proposal. I talked to my friends who are just shocked. So I told my boyfriend today about what his friend told mine. He said he has never said that to his best friend. And “if “ that were to ever happen it wouldn’t be any time soon. Mind you… he’s been talking about what kind of wedding he would want and talking about how long my last name would be if I hyphenated it. He also got me a super sweet soulmate necklace for Christmas. So yeah, nothing suggesting he was so against getting married/engaged. So his very harsh response is really upsetting.

Now I’m upset with his friend for putting that idea into my head when clearly my boyfriend wasn’t planning that at all. And also feel super rejected by my boyfriend for not even having considered it. We’ve been together 2.5 years and aren’t getting any younger.

Idk why he would even tell my friends that? Like why make that up? I am so confused and hurt. I got my hopes up. It wasn’t my boyfriends fault necessarily but his reaction did not help in the slightest.

MinggMy boyfriend’s best friend told my friends basically that he was going to propose around Christmas time. They didn’t tell me this at the time. They just said to look nice and get my nails done - per the best friend. So I kind of had my suspicions. But I have since found out the best friend did tell them that he was going to propose around Christmas.

Christmas comes and goes without a proposal. I talked to my friends who are just shocked. So I told my boyfriend today about what his friend told mine. He said he has never said that to his best friend. And “if “ that were to ever happen it wouldn’t be any time soon. Mind you… he’s been talking about what kind of wedding he would want and talking about how long my last name would be if I hyphenated it. He also got me a super sweet soulmate necklace for Christmas. So yeah, nothing suggesting he was so against getting married/engaged. So his very harsh response is really upsetting.

Now I’m upset with his friend for putting that idea into my head when clearly my boyfriend wasn’t planning that at all. And also feel super rejected by my boyfriend for not even having considered it. We’ve been together 2.5 years and aren’t getting any younger.

Idk why he would even tell my friends that? Like why make that up? I am so confused and hurt. I got my hopes up. It wasn’t my boyfriends fault necessarily but his reaction did not help in the slightest.

ModMommyBoyfriend is watching far right news from Australia wtf

Non_State_ActorNext up... podcasts about the triumphs of the Rhodesian Special Forces.

ModMommyBoyfriend is watching far right news from Australia wtf

ModMommyBoyfriend is watching far right news from Australia wtf

SteezyYeeteri'd be careful, you should know whether or not you want to marry someone after 2 years and then do it. otherwise i can only see regret down the path.

DlonettiArent you like 15

WoFlowznah i’m just not applying to as many colleges now cause my parents are making me pay for my own college apps. Amazes me that they make 300k a year and want me to pay for my college apps and most of my college. You’d think they don’t want me to be in debt but they’re only concerned about having money for my sisters soccer and a second or third home to retire too

WoFlowznah i’m just not applying to as many colleges now cause my parents are making me pay for my own college apps. Amazes me that they make 300k a year and want me to pay for my college apps and most of my college. You’d think they don’t want me to be in debt but they’re only concerned about having money for my sisters soccer and a second or third home to retire too

WoFlowznah i’m just not applying to as many colleges now cause my parents are making me pay for my own college apps.

CaseyMaybe he loves you but is paralyzed with indecision about how to buy a ring, how to set it up, what to say etc. It can be hard if a man doesn’t have a friend sibling etc to feel confident in these decisions even if he would.

CoolChillGuy420another femur fracture involving a kid :(

MinggTrue. It’s just disappointing because for the last 2 months my expectations have been so much higher based on what his best friend was saying. Like from what my friends told me, this friend said my bf had a plan and he was going to do it. But from talking to my bf that was NEVER the case. So for the last 2 months I thought we were much farther along in our relationship than we really are. Were are not on the same page anymore and now have to figure out how to get back on the same page, if we even can. All because his friend let me to think something was coming.

I can’t even be mad at my boyfriend. This is all on his friend and me for buying into it and getting my hopes up. I just don’t know how to dial back my expectations because for the last 2 months I’ve been thinking about getting engaged, moving in, etc. and we’re not even there yet. I have to take a step back to get to where he is or he has to take a step forward and thats not easy. This was all totally avoidable if his friend didn’t tell my friends a proposal was coming at Christmas.

MinggTrue. It’s just disappointing because for the last 2 months my expectations have been so much higher based on what his best friend was saying. Like from what my friends told me, this friend said my bf had a plan and he was going to do it. But from talking to my bf that was NEVER the case. So for the last 2 months I thought we were much farther along in our relationship than we really are. Were are not on the same page anymore and now have to figure out how to get back on the same page, if we even can. All because his friend let me to think something was coming.

I can’t even be mad at my boyfriend. This is all on his friend and me for buying into it and getting my hopes up. I just don’t know how to dial back my expectations because for the last 2 months I’ve been thinking about getting engaged, moving in, etc. and we’re not even there yet. I have to take a step back to get to where he is or he has to take a step forward and thats not easy. This was all totally avoidable if his friend didn’t tell my friends a proposal was coming at Christmas.

ModMommyDoes he only want to move in when you’re engaged? What if you were to sit down and talk about expectations, in a non pressuring way, to see where you guys are, what you both want. Like, when do you expect to be engaged? What does the the next two years look like?

ModMommyDoes he only want to move in when you’re engaged? What if you were to sit down and talk about expectations, in a non pressuring way, to see where you guys are, what you both want. Like, when do you expect to be engaged? What does the the next two years look like?

Lenny-How did he fracture it?

CoolChillGuy420Skier vs tree. Luckily imagery confirmed no pelvis or femur though. Still a super fucked call

OregonDeadtrees be lurking out there ready to jump you. be careful mang

cyphersjust tore apart my whole fucking house looking for my sled key. thing must have phased out of existence after my last ride. now i have the pleasure of hauling 500lbs of dead weight onto a trailer and paying whatever ungodly sum the dealership charges to get a replacement key. ADD brain stays costing me money in new and interesting ways

Non_State_ActorDid you check all your jacket pockets or whatever garment you might have worn when putting the sled away?

cyphersyeah man. every jacket/pants pocket, hoodie pouch, gear bag. at least i know it made it home with me because i pulled it off the trailer when i got back

LonelyI've been to Sugarbush twice. The first time a member of my group tore their acl on the first day, cutting things short.

Was just back there this week. Can you guess what happened? On the first day of riding a member of our group tore their acl, cutting the trip short.

Non_State_ActorHanging on a nail in the shed or wherever you store it? Sucks man, I do this shit all the time, usually with tools or some piece of work related material.

MinggTrue. It’s just disappointing because for the last 2 months my expectations have been so much higher based on what his best friend was saying. Like from what my friends told me, this friend said my bf had a plan and he was going to do it. But from talking to my bf that was NEVER the case. So for the last 2 months I thought we were much farther along in our relationship than we really are. Were are not on the same page anymore and now have to figure out how to get back on the same page, if we even can. All because his friend let me to think something was coming.

I can’t even be mad at my boyfriend. This is all on his friend and me for buying into it and getting my hopes up. I just don’t know how to dial back my expectations because for the last 2 months I’ve been thinking about getting engaged, moving in, etc. and we’re not even there yet. I have to take a step back to get to where he is or he has to take a step forward and thats not easy. This was all totally avoidable if his friend didn’t tell my friends a proposal was coming at Christmas.

tutipups737 max's whole side just blew out 12 hours after boeing asked the faa for exemptions lmao

BigPurpleSkiSuitjesus christ what the fuck is Boeing doing?

tutipups737 max's whole side just blew out 12 hours after boeing asked the faa for exemptions lmao

SlushSeasonNot exactly the whole side...
The "plug" that blew out isn't structural (apart from keeping air in the plane). Still a very bad look for boeing though

BigPurpleSkiSuitjesus christ what the fuck is Boeing doing?

tutipupsidk man but its not good

BigPurpleSkiSuitjesus christ what the fuck is Boeing doing?

tutipupsidk man but its not good

partyandBSwas that a test flight?? could you imagine sitting in that seat scared shitless until you emergency landed?! and they paid extra for the legroom 😆

SlushSeasonFrom the news i read, it sounds like the seat was empty

partyandBSin stronger economic times, someone would have spent the extra money but they didn’t. bidens economy saves lives

partyandBSin stronger economic times, someone would have spent the extra money but they didn’t. bidens economy saves lives

Non_State_ActorI don't believe that's the exit row if that's what you're inferring?

SlushSeasonDogs don't fucking belong on airplanes
No, your dog is not "working"
No, you are not entitled to a free 2nd seat for your "therapy" dog
You want to travel with your two shithounds? Well you can fucking drive
The entitlement of young american dog owners is insufferable