WoFlowzI can’t make it more than 5 days without my parents and me fighting. They literally pick them or give more than valid reasons to be upset and then not listen to me when I try and talk it out. I swear the fuckin 4-5 yearolds I ski and soccer coach have better communication skills when someone explains to them that they’re upset.
It's common, it sucks. Most people don't have any sort of good coping mechanism. That's true of parents too. So usually whatever the ACTUAL problem is ends up being expressed as a huge argument because you...left a pile of clothes out or were slow to text back
It's usually not ever actually something you did. It's something else and you are the outlet because the parent/child relationship is usually one of the closest. So theres no other consideration when it comes to arguing with you or yelling at you about something.
It'll get better, but it will always happen. It's just a human thing. I mean fuck, I've got a parent that teaches the stuff and even we still get into it pretty often.
**This post was edited on Jul 13th 2022 at 12:42:47pm