I know ya'll down on old folk
I'm 66, mom is 91
We go through the exact same shit you're going through just different
Moms checking on kids never stops, at least the good ones, it's their God assigned occupation and they take it serious asf.
I blow up at the interference I feel also.
Then I check myself. What did they do wrong?
Ask about plans for summer? Wonder if you're gone for the day or a few hours?
Thinking about college at all?
I realize my perspective is wack, compared to the crowd here but.....man, they just love you and care about you, want the best for you
Here's the thing.
They love you.
It's not that they really need to know all the details of your life but to be an ass about it....or * a real fucking scumbag*...... with fam? Come on man?
PeppermillRenoDon't take it personally they just have nothing else to talk about.
It sucks for young people having to give olds a play by play on their plans though when making small talk. The only way to avoid it if its relatives and other old folk you know is to be a real fucking scumbag trust me that shit gets nipped in the bud when they know you just got out of jail they don't ask all the usual questions.
Its better when you are older and established and do something cool and can shut them the fuck up but again its not like you care at all about their shit.