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I have an idea.. How about some sort of 'This member last signed on at....' in the member's profile. It would be really nice to have that way you could see if people you message are active members etc. That way you wont message people who haven't been active in over a year. How hard would this be to implement? I'm guessing the information is stored somewhere already?