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So there's this guy at school I liked forever. Super hot the whole deal you know. Different group of friends so I don't really know him. One day he liked a bunch of my pictures on fb and messaged me. I got super excited and all that. I have a class with one of his best friends Joe, so I nonchalantly asked him what's his deal with talking to me. Later Joe asked out and to prom.. He knew I liked his best friend and I thought he knew he was friend zoned (don't mean to sound rude) so I politely said no. Anyways me and this guy texted for a few weeks then he asked me to prom! He was going to prom with this chick Sara and when i asked what happened he said she was playin games (She has a boyfriend).This was my dream come true since I always wanted to go with him. The only thing is he asked me via text so I said maybe if you ask me in person. Ohh also we have NEVER talked in person. So after a week or so of him giving me extremely rude looks in the halls and not replying to my texts he put in a relationship as his Facebook status. A few days later I found out he's going to prom with Sara again (which is not his girlfriend). Now a few weeks later he noticeably checked me out 3 times in a row.. and every time I walk by his friends they just stare at me, and it's not in my head since my friends notice it too.
I'm more irritated then anything since I was the rebound date from Sara . So could anyone tell me what I did "wrong"... ? Or am I just acting too girly about this?
lol OP isn't going to respond. I made it clear that if she wants to get what she wants, shell have to change. Girls don't do well with that kind of thing
You said it yourself dream come true .. perfect but ...
"The only thing is he asked me via text so I said maybe if you ask me in person"
Nothing wrong with that but if you wanted to go to prom with him you had it in the bag all you had to do was say yes.
Guy's generally don't like non yes or no answers. I don't like making generalizations though and I don't know this guy.
One thing to look at would be how did the text conversation go after your maybe answer? Try to look at it from his point of view. Why would he be rude to you after?
One possibility is he felt like you were playing games with your maybe answer. There are so many possibilities though that ... .. there's a lot okay.
I hated my prom. No date, no fun, no dancing and 3 people told me they thought I had died skiing. 3.
I was mostly homeschooling by that point in senior year but really, had a terrible time.
Ditched prom to go party at my exes house, even got shot down by him.
Went home before midnight. Skied the next day and all was forgotten.