fdWEARerok guys, I got new boots. went to the largest local retailer, and tried on basically every pair of boots. Last pair I tried on before leaving ended up fitting me pretty well. It is a pair of roxa boots,500 bucks retail paid 100, with a 3 buckle design, the boots are 3 piece, The boots are way better than my last pair, as I do not get toe bang anymore. my feet still slide around in a 25.5 boot, while my feet measure 26.5. even though my feet still slide around, the toebox is shaped in a way I do not get toe bang even when toes smash the front, It just doesn't hurt. The flex is a little too soft 100, I was skiing 120s before. my heels still lift, but the heel lock is a tad bit better, some shin bang, and forward and back sliding happening still. Largest issue is my ankles are getting bruised up now.
however I would much rather ski these boots than my other pair, as I dont worry about my toe getting absolutely destroyed every second of every run anymore. I can ski more aggresive, as even though the boots are a tad to soft imo, and my feet still slide around. Like when I go from carving to a bunny hop, my feet slide from the back of the boots all the way to the front, and then I can bunny hop, a sort of video game style input delay is what it feels like. it's kinda sketch, but now that my toes dont hurt when my feet slide around, I feel way better. Just gotta figure out why my ankles are bruising now.
I mean this in the nicest way possible - this boot sounds like it is a horrible fit for you, probably a size and/or volume category too big.
Remove the liner, step into the shell with your bare foot, slide your foot to the front of the boot so your toes just barely touch, and examine the space behind your heel. 3cm = problematically too big, 2cm = normal, 1cm = performance fit.
You should also: get a custom footbed - this will create the necessary interface between your flexible foot that has evolved for walking and has no business being inside a ski boot.
Also also - don't search out the largest retailer, search out the best boot fitter in your area. Literally google that and see what comes up.