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Waiting For Marrage?

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DAMICO
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Discuss your views....

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Dec 3 2004 9:36PM
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freeskier108
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Heres my delima... if youre going to marry a woman thats already had sex, whats the point for you waiting 30 years?
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Dec 5 2004 7:49PM
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Moses
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first time sux, better it be now than later
Dec 5 2004 9:06PM
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freeski1620
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am i gonna wait, i dont think so, but i just kinda go with the flow, what ever happens happens. but im not gonna go hook up with some slut or some one for a one night stand.

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skiing what i thought this was a porn site and every one i was talking to were sexy ppl ..i thought skiing was a sex term we all uesed. damn!-twintiprider


Dec 6 2004 12:41AM
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*cowboy*
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Well, if your waiting yourself to have sex, then the chance of you being okay with marrying a non-virgin is pretty much not going to happen. Anyone who is commited to wait is going to want to marry a virgin also. That's what makes it all worth it. Plus, it's not THAT long.

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Dec 6 2004 12:46AM
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ScratchCobra66
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Wait...waiting for sex after marriage?...fuck never mind, too late, i thought it ment waiting to get married. Haha, im an idiot.







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Dec 6 2004 8:48AM
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d-loc
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if you wait how do you and your partnet know if you like doing that with each other? sex has to be good in order for shit to work, i mean thats half the relationship, LOVE



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Dec 6 2004 8:50AM
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SkiBumDreams
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quick fact did you know that you have a significantly higher chance of being divorced if you have previously lived with your partner? why you may ask in my humble opinion many (not all) of those that move in together do not hold the same reverence for marriage and may just look at it as the next logical step in the relationship.

as far as premarital sex well at times i regret it and at other times i dont. i would just say be sure you are ready to and it is with the right person loosing your virginity to a random one night hookup is not very satisfying. when you truely love someone you may understand what kind of a gift it could be.
Dec 6 2004 12:54PM
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DAMICO
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freeskier108, i share that same feeling...im not judging anyone, but it seems like these days there are less and less people waiting, and that makes it hard to find a partner who is also waiting.

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Dec 6 2004 1:02PM
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MADr.
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i really respect people who wait. personally i dont have that kinda willpower and seing as i plan to marry my gf someday we have no ploblem with protected sex. thats not for everybody. if your religious, dont trust contraceptives, socially conservative, or shy for that matter, then waiting makes perfect sense. what really pisses me off is that abstinance replaces sex ed in some places and abstinance isnt for everyone

quick fact: High schools that have abstinance-only programs have much higher teen pregnancy rates.

what also pisses me off is that we allow plenty of violence on tv but absolutely no nudity and definately no sex. Which is more normal, sex or violence, and which would you rather your kids learned about on tv?





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Dec 6 2004 1:17PM
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Sharpy
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^SEX!! very good point. I rather my kid see boobies than someo ne havign their arm sawed off by a chainsaw.
Dec 6 2004 1:46PM
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BrandonCool
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MADr. I agree with you on that.....I have been saying that to people for a while.
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Dec 6 2004 1:59PM
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*cowboy*
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I must say that i'm really surprised at the responses you guys have posted. They majority of them are all logical and thought out, and I'm also surprised that some of you are planning to wait.. I didn't expect that either. So props for taking this thread seriously

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Dec 6 2004 2:07PM
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Boards
Posts: 849 - Karma: 27
if south park taught us anything it is that in America deploarable grafic violence and slutiness is alright, but naughty words and the natural body are wrong and evil.

i never planned on waiting, i did not wait. it really sucks at first and if your are sexually incompatible with your lover and don;t find that out until after you are married, it is bad news.

virginity is not a sacred thing. lose it however you want, there is lots more sex out there if you fucked up (instead of fucked down i guess)the first time, or the second time, or the 300th time. if you do wait, that is great, i neither gain nor lose respect for you. sex is a personal matter, feel free to treat it in whatever way you see fit. just don;t tell other people the way you chose is superior to theirs.
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