I actually know a couple of dudes that were involved in the scandal and they're pretty good guys and even nicer kids.
"All frat guys and lacrosse dudes are douchebags, bro!!" And I'm guessing you're the man.
Stop acting as if you wouldn't be down with the idea of having a stripper over if you and your buddies were hanging around late night, getting drunk, and tossing around ideas like that.