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My girlfriend broke up with me today.

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RoofDaRoofieDogg
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So, my girlfriend broke up with me today. I've been posting your mom jokes on NS all night and it doesn't seem to make me feel any better. What do you guys do to make yourself feel better after a big break up?What can I do to help me get over this quicker?
General feels thread I guess.

Inb4 op is ghey
Inb4 op can't Inb4
Nov 21 2013 12:03AM
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RoofDaRoofieDogg
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Nothing is ever my fault, obviously.
Nov 21 2013 12:06AM
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Childstar.
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Keep yourself busy with other things in life. Eventually you'll be feeling better.
Nov 21 2013 12:07AM
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Rusticles
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How old are you? Doesn't matter, enjoy the freedom
Nov 21 2013 12:07AM
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Cufe.
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Nov 21 2013 12:08AM
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Ryan*
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This may not be the healthiest coping mechanism, but when stuff like that happens to me, I bury myself in my work. Not school work. Creative work. In my case, music. If you have something productive and/or creative that you like to do, whether it's a hobby or more serious, try focusing on that.
Nov 21 2013 12:10AM
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adzy
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Don't listen to sappy music, makes it worse. The genre of music really changes your mood. Try listening to upbeat music. Hang out with your friends as much as possible, it'll help take your mind off of it. Go skiing!! Maybe watch funny videos like stand up comedy. It'll be a depressing couple of weeks. just try and keep positive, you don't want to let your friend and family relationship to suffer from it too. The saddest part is knowing you won't have anyone to jerk you off, it's now manual labour. Until the next slave.
Nov 21 2013 12:10AM
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Shredsterr
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Watch a lot of porn while whispering her name to yourself over and over until you fall asleep.
Nov 21 2013 12:10AM
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raull
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you need a rebound bang sesh asap. go bang somebody, doesnt matter how ugly, youll feel way better. seriously
Nov 21 2013 12:14AM
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Ryan*
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Thank you for the lol. The internet hasn't made me lol in quite a bit.
Nov 21 2013 12:36AM
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Sno.
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I read the thread title and came in here to post "fuck her," but then after reading the rest of the post this response just seems cruel.
Nov 21 2013 1:00AM
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CheddarJack
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fuck her
Nov 21 2013 1:12AM
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Davy.Crockett
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stay busy, go to the gym, and smoke weed with your buddies
Nov 21 2013 1:15AM
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Davy.Crockett
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stay busy, go to the gym, and smoke weed with your buddies
Nov 21 2013 1:15AM
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skitheeast77
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u should burn her house down
Nov 21 2013 1:15AM
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RimJobber
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mine too.
Nov 21 2013 1:19AM
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RoofDaRoofieDogg
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Well, at least you're not alone right?
Nov 21 2013 1:22AM
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El_Barto.
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Ive missed you. Where are my random texts hoe?
Nov 21 2013 1:22AM
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coling
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Just remember girls age like shit. In a decade this girl will be jonesing for your cock, but youll have moved on to hotter women
Nov 21 2013 1:22AM
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qeefmasterflex
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Spit in her socks, that will get her good. Throw in some jizz of you are really pissed.
Nov 21 2013 1:24AM
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Sno.
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don't tell me what to do.

I've been busy. Stay tuned.

Nov 21 2013 1:24AM
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El_Barto.
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Dont step outta line and i wont have to
Nov 21 2013 1:32AM
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squashmosh
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If you are sad be sad, if you are angry be angry, if you could care less, that's okay too.

Whatever you feel right now don't try to change it. Go somewhere quiet, sit down, and allow whatever you feel be how you feel. If you start to think of other things- even for just a minute than notice that that's the nature of your mind…and that's what's eventually going to happen completely: you will think of other things, because there is more to life than just sadness, anger, and one girl.

But don't try and force yourself to forget or feel bad, cause that'll make it worse (if not immediately than in the long run).

You got attached to a person and a situation, welcome to the human race…you'll eventually lose everyone you love, so take this as an opportunity to be cool with that.
Nov 21 2013 1:49AM
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Meeds
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go skiing...
Nov 21 2013 1:50AM
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Alex_G
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find a new ass to eat
Nov 21 2013 1:50AM
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HuckNorris44
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If you really care about her then let her go. If she cares about you she will come back. If she doesnt come back, then its a sign and dont worry about it. Just make it seem to her that you are unaffected by it
Nov 21 2013 2:09AM
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JahJahBinks
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Same dude. Literally last week. Cognitive Dissonance + Skiing.
Nov 21 2013 2:39AM
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kevmac
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does she have a sister? pee in her sisters butt
Nov 21 2013 8:07AM
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RoofDaRoofieDogg
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This is the truth man.

I guess to give a bit of backstory for this thread; she broke up with me because she apparently didn't feel strongly for me anymore. This is what she says, but I'm not 100% sure about this. The thing is, she runs away from anything that makes her feel uncomfortable. I guess we had a rough patch, and she cracked up and left. To give you an example of how flaky she can be, when she was in grade 9 she had a fight with her parents, so she jumped on a freight train and went across the country. She hitch hiked back eventually over the course of 2 weeks, but it really just goes to show how bad she is for running away from her problems. Another thing that could have effected it was that her parents hate me. They are extremely protective of her, and I've been in their bad books since the day they met me. They somehow got involved in this final rough patch, and I think they may have convinced her to leave me. It was all just too sudden, and I feel like she took the path of least resistance as usual and broke it off with me to save the relationship with her parents.

Or maybe she genuinely no longer has feelings for me, I don't know. But what I do know is that she's not here anymore, and thats what really matters.
Nov 21 2013 10:21AM
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tripnip
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I hate to say it man but you can't fix crazy. I had one girl that I dated for awhile and I found out she was a manic depressive two weeks in I tried and tried but you can't fix crazy. Take your extra income and buy something cool like a bong or a new gaming system.
Nov 21 2013 11:44AM
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Dr.Dickless
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Nov 21 2013 11:54AM
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987321654hgfd
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Didn't read thread at all so this may have been said already but,

THIS THREAD NEEDS PICS. We cannot give you good advice unless we're seeing what you're working with.
Nov 21 2013 11:57AM
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RoofDaRoofieDogg
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It's true. No matter what I do I can't change her. The thing is, we shared a lot of common interests. We did like everything together. Most of the things I do and enjoy were things I shared with her. Skiing, playing video games, writing, you name it. And now that she's gone, all these things just remind me of her and when she was still here. I know I'm being melodramatic, but I really can't escape the feels at the moment no matter where I go or what I do. I feel like a big part of me is missing, and I don't know what to do to fill it up.
Nov 21 2013 11:57AM
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RoofDaRoofieDogg
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Yeah, I figured this would get posted eventually. I'll consider posting pics when I get off of mobile.
Nov 21 2013 11:58AM
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triss
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I broke up wit hu girl friend that got dome by another bitch
Nov 21 2013 11:59AM
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triss
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Then I got dome* she didn't get it from another girl lol

Just go find other bitches
Nov 21 2013 12:00PM
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howlongcanausern
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god dammit you better
Nov 21 2013 12:02PM
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RoofDaRoofieDogg
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Fuck, I'm already breaking under the pressure.
Nov 21 2013 12:08PM
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McShane
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My ex boke up wih me a few months ago and I was in the same boat you were. Hanging with friends helped so much, I just tried to make it so I was never really alone. Then most of em left for college, then I found listening to upbeat music, and working helped a lot. I also have gotten a lot closer to my family too, which has been cool. I think with ski season starting up now it'll help so much to get my mind off things. You probably don't wanna hear it now, but being single can actually be really fun. This is really long. My bad. Just stay positive, everything will work out man.
Nov 21 2013 12:43PM
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JAHBRADOR
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Cry about it, nerd.
Nov 21 2013 12:52PM
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AcidKneeDrop
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My advice is as follows. If your in high school then fuck this just go get some other pussay and being a bitch. However if your in college or out of college then you need to decide how much you like this girl. If you like her enough to put up with all her shit and you genuinely have a good time around her, then go after her dude she could be the one you never know. But hey what do I know, do what you got to do man just don't let a break up ruin your next few days you only get so many.
Nov 21 2013 1:55PM
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raull
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i cant believe nobody has said anything about a rebound fuck. your on the rebound, it is essential fgor you to fornicate with other chicks, the fast you do it the better youll feel.
Nov 21 2013 2:04PM
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Download-My-Apps
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Skiing and time only mend a broken heart
Nov 21 2013 2:05PM
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RusselCrowe
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youre somewhat lucky. now you dont have to hang out with her if she was a bitch or buy her shit. go fuck other girls
Nov 21 2013 3:16PM
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SkiThe603
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Damn man wish my gf had the balls to do that...have fun chasen the single ladies
Nov 21 2013 3:18PM
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987321654hgfd
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Still waiting on pics.
Nov 21 2013 3:57PM
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ZMILLZ
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I once read that you can never get over a breakup until you post her nudes to a skiing forum
Nov 21 2013 4:15PM
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R2-Dope2
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FUCK BITCHES GET MONEY
Nov 21 2013 4:18PM
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Jane6
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Do not listen to this hombre.
Nov 21 2013 7:31PM
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SFB
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see how many times/how hard you can hit yourself in the nuts before you pass out.
Nov 21 2013 7:35PM
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