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I slept with my best friend's wife.

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Good_Deed
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I need some help here I have no idea what to do. My friend is in the navy and his wife calls me when he is out on service and she needs help doing jobs around thier house. She called me Saturday around 5 to see if I could help her out so I went over and after the job was done she was like want to have some drinks, I said sure, well we drank a little to much and I can recalls bits and peices from the night. But when I woke up I was in their bed with her and we were both naked. She was already awake and she looked at me and said that was fun. I said we didn't did we , and she says back we sure did. I start to freak out and she said oh take it easy your not the first guy that had spent the night here. Meaning she sleeps with other guys when my friend is away. So I'm stuck I can't ask my friends for help because we all know each other. How do I tell my friend his wife is cheating I him and I was one of the guys she did it with ?
Oct 22 2013 11:22AM
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Aidan-G
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Get her pregnant. By law she would be your wife. Problem solved
Oct 23 2013 2:44AM
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line686
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She's obviously given more than a few.
Oct 23 2013 3:07AM
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Skiingsnow
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Oct 23 2013 3:16AM
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NPF
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Oct 23 2013 3:18AM
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TijmenDal
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First of all, you're a huge fucking cock-rocket, seriously. You're a fucking asshole.

Secondly, someone's gotta tell him and it's best if she will. If not, you should. Unless they have some kind of open relationship where they can just fuck around
Oct 23 2013 3:32AM
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earl.squirrelson
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And even if it was an open relationship, you're still a douche cause you didn't know that when you fucked her.
Oct 23 2013 5:35AM
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ski4fun420
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Hopefully for you, this story is fake.
Oct 23 2013 8:18AM
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Twinjibber77
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It has never been more apparent to me that everyone on this site is 15 than this thread. Sad. True. Sad.
Oct 23 2013 8:24AM
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Good_Deed
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The wife and I talked last night. They do not have an open thing going on , and he has caught her in the past so she said it wouldn't be that big of a surprise to him. To quote what she said "what does he think I do while he is gone wait for him to get home to have sex, no I need it I get it." So he knows she has done it before which blows my mind because he never told me about that. I'm still going to tell him because she even said when he is gone she doesn't wait so clearly she isn't going to tell him.
Oct 23 2013 8:25AM
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yelsel
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She is an absolute piece of shit.
Oct 23 2013 8:26AM
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Bombogenesis
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Be a man. I don't think I have to elaborate.
Oct 23 2013 8:28AM
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Bogs
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as is op
Oct 23 2013 8:48AM
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GayWolf420
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Wow. Grade A bitch right there. This dudes gonna have such a bad time coming home. Fuck both of you. Even if you are sorry.
Oct 23 2013 8:50AM
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yelsel
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I totally agree
Oct 23 2013 8:53AM
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Mr.Huck
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I still think this is complete BS. OP's threads have other "I need attention" examples. This is a troll project.
Oct 23 2013 9:21AM
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yelsel
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That's what I was thinking too because I doubt a guy that is that drunk could even get it up. But what do I know, I have a vagina
Oct 23 2013 9:31AM
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Phil-X-
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8/10 troll. Had you not accidentally created a plot hole implying your friend is both a sailor and straight I'd give you a 9.


But in all seriousness youre a fuckin jodie man.. thats not cool
Oct 23 2013 9:47AM
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Zimmerman
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lols
Oct 23 2013 10:07AM
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Wallisch_pl
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there is no such thing
Oct 23 2013 10:10AM
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Daoust
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you're a terrible friend. just want to let you know that
Oct 23 2013 10:18AM
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Good_Deed
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I feel like one right now. I might have to give him a call today to get this off my mind I can't wait til he is home.
Oct 23 2013 10:23AM
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Mr.Huck
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Yes,I'm guessing the best he could muster up is a nerf torpedo. The other method for practicing safe sex.
Oct 23 2013 10:28AM
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yelsel
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lost
Oct 23 2013 10:32AM
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GayWolf420
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This changes everything.
Oct 23 2013 11:22AM
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BoogieWoman
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Seriously, what the fuck kind of man are you? You are going to call your friend who is away in the Navy to tell him you fucked his wife just because YOU can't deal with how guilty you feel. Grow a pair of balls you selfish asshole. You've already said that he knows she sleeps around when he's gone, whether he realises how often it's happening or not is irrelevant. He's chosen to stand by her, that's not for you to judge. He obviously loves her beyond your comprehension or else they wouldn't have gotten married and they wouldn't still be together. You think he wants his whole world to be ripped apart just because you couldn't keep your dick in your pants and now you feel bad about it?

You did a terrible fucking thing, no excuses, but what good is going to come of you calling him up whilst he's away to tell him about it? Just so that you feel less guilty?? He certainly won't be thanking you. There's nothing he can do whilst he's overseas. You're going to make him feel like complete shit and he may lose the one person he loves most in life...but at least your conscious will feel slightly better!!

I didn't read everything posted in this thread but Dustin seems to be the only one here who speaks any sense.

It's not your place to tell him his wife is a cheating scumbag just because you feel guilty about what you've done. Suck it up. If you have to feel guilty for the rest of your life then so be it. His wife won't be telling him anytime soon that I can guarantee. You don't know what happens behind closed doors and is it not your place to make any sort of judgement call here. You're obviously not a true friend of his no matter what you say. And if you were able to get your dick hard you were able to make the conscious decision to fuck your 'friends' wife so don't dare use the 'I was drunk' excuse.

Telling him, when absolutely no good will come of it, just so that you can get it off your chest is almost as selfish a choice as fucking his wife was. If she chooses to tell him that's a different story. A marriage is between two people, not 3. Doesn't matter if she fucked the whole town, it's for her to tell him, not you. And how do you know that whilst he's away he isn't banging a different chick each night? You don't. Marriage is about more than sex.

If I was you, I would distance yourself from this so called 'friend' of yours, move on and chalk this up as a lesson you really shouldn't have had to experience to learn.

I'd also be prepared to live with the fact that at some point in the future (maybe a week or 10 years from now, maybe on your deathbed) you might get punched in the face.

Also, if this is a troll thread - fuck you OP!
Oct 23 2013 11:25AM
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Huck_Norris
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sleeps around on her husband
Oct 23 2013 11:28AM
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Barefootin_Fiend
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pics or it didn't happen?
Oct 23 2013 11:31AM
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yelsel
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yeah, no.
Oct 23 2013 11:32AM
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BoogieWoman
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Whoops, you got me there! I'm so glad he's away with the Navy right now so that I was able to seduce his best friend last night because I'm just too sexy for any man to resist!
Oct 23 2013 11:34AM
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7-11_Slurpee
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Ironic username is ironic
Oct 23 2013 11:51AM
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TechnoPotamus
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Oct 23 2013 11:55AM
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Huck_Norris
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I knew it.
Oct 23 2013 11:58AM
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theBearJew
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So much of this is what is wrong with the idea of marriage.

You are an idiot. And stop using the word whilst.
Oct 23 2013 12:02PM
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kevmac
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just tell him the truth man. wouldn't you rather have told him and loss a friend than not tell him and had to hide that from him and if other people find out think about how embarrassed he would feel hearing it from someone other than his wife or friend. tell the wife that she should tell him since she cheated more than once. if she doesnt then i think you should
Oct 23 2013 12:13PM
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Good_Deed
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Tried to call him but I just kept hanging up I can't do it. I might keep my mouth shut about it because I know she won't say anything.
Oct 23 2013 12:35PM
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deleted5
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I like how some people are blaming him, more than the wife or as I should say whore.
Oct 23 2013 12:38PM
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lineskier10
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you sound like a cheating whore with that response
Oct 23 2013 12:40PM
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SkierX
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So put the shoe on the other foot...

Say it was your husband out there, railing chicks left and right and slaying your best friend. You would ABSOLUTELY not want to find out from anyone other than your husband and your friend has no place in telling you that your husband is a manwhore and if your husband never comes clean, there is no foul?

I don't buy it.
Oct 23 2013 12:46PM
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TechnoPotamus
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for real.


if she never posted again, it would be too soon.
Oct 23 2013 12:50PM
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J.D.
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Only useful post in this whole thread. At least I assume so. 

A+ would read again

Oct 23 2013 12:52PM
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pat_in_the_hat
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they all are...
Oct 23 2013 12:59PM
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theabortionator
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Marry a girl and let him fuck her so you'll be even
Oct 23 2013 1:05PM
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Mr.SoloDolo
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start lifting.....hes a marine
Oct 23 2013 1:05PM
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SterlingArcher
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When I was in the army most guys would find out if their wife was cheating while they were deployed by looking behind the headboard. People would leave their calling cards like a unit patch or a postcard behind it, so when he comes home and looks, he'll know.  It was kind of a courtesy of the jodies to let you know your wife/gf was a slut... after they too banged her.
Oct 23 2013 1:53PM
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Zimmerman
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The obvious solution
Oct 23 2013 1:56PM
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snowpocalypse
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I haven't heard from anybody that has any real life knowledge on what a marriage is. This is not some girlfriend. This is this guys wife. I would lay my life on the line in a heart beat for my wife. She is my rock and my everything. I can't speak for their relationship and it sounds like a fucked up one at that. Yet the fact is they are still married and not only she but you as well broke his trust. I am floored at the thought of all the folks on here saying don't tell him, that no good will come from it. The good will come from knowing the truth. Yes she is a bitch and you are an asshole. If you choose not to tell him I hope you rot from the inside. She will get hers at some point as you will too.
Oct 23 2013 1:58PM
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TechnoPotamus
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i'm convinced this is an elaborate troll thread. You got us good OP
Oct 23 2013 2:10PM
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SterlingArcher
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I agree..

When he divorces her she'll be out on the street with no bas/bah or other military benefits. She's obviously just using him as a meal ticket so she can do nothing but spend his money..and at best maybe work at the PX or base Burger King part time for a nickel.  Let him know.. she doesn't deserve a free ride or the benefits the military provides for spouses at his expense.

P.S. You're a shitty friend for banging if this isn't troll.
Oct 23 2013 2:11PM
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Sdot.
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Well, I must say that I'm glad you're not my best friend. Regardless of whether or not she used you or whatever, you're equally as responsible. Stop trying to downplay your involvement/guilt.

You're both pieces of shit who care far less about a man than you claim to.
Oct 23 2013 2:12PM
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BoogieWoman
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Wait, so i'm happily married but my husband is fucking other women...yet if neither him nor my best friend tell me about it I'll never find out and i'll remain happily married. The alternative being my friend tells me, I go through a divorce and I spent the next few years of my life in absolute devastation.

I'd never cheat and I don't condone it. But if it was happening to me (and for all i know it could be happening right now) and I had a choice, I'd rather not know. Call it stupidity or whatever you want but actually i'm just being selfish, because I would rather remain blissfully unaware than endure heartbreak.

And I stand by what I said. Telling someone you nailed his wife purely out of a need to make yourself feel less guilty is selfish. SHE needs to be the one to tell him because it isn't your place. But if you do tell, be prepared for a total shit storm, the husband will blame you first before he blames his slut of a wife.
Oct 23 2013 2:14PM
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