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limedakine
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My boyfriend sleep talks about this girl he fucked last year. All the time. It wasn't too big of a deal, because she lived in Australia. Now she's moved back to the U.S and of course, the town my boy and I live in. And he's "so excited" that she's back. She's having a birthday this Friday, and of course he's going and I'm expected to come with. I don't want to fucking go, but I feel like I have to because I don't trust either one of them. I really like this guy a lot, but im wondering if i should just break up with him and avoid the shit storm that's going to follow. Or do I give him a chance. Opinions?
Oct 15 2013 10:49AM
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Blurst
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Give him a chance. See if he actually likes you as much as you seem to like him.

Were you dating when they hooked up?
Oct 15 2013 10:50AM
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Wallisch_pl
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Ahhhhh grade school
Oct 15 2013 10:56AM
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PacificRimJob
Posts: 24725 - Karma: 29,939
Haha whatever. Just break up with him anyways. He's not the one you're going to marry so what's the point.
Oct 15 2013 10:57AM
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CaptainObvious.
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Here's your answer.
Oct 15 2013 11:03AM
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limedakine
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No but he's told me she was his best sex and he's liked her forever.
Oct 15 2013 11:04AM
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Blurst
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you're fucked
Oct 15 2013 11:06AM
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Heart
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The hell? He told you she was the best? Sounds like this dude is about to be smashing that chick rather than you.
Oct 15 2013 11:10AM
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remove
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step your game up. read cosmo or some shit
Oct 15 2013 11:11AM
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daannnnieel
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sorry but she wins. If you can't trust him find someone new. No need to stress yourself over something that's probably not going to happen.
Oct 15 2013 11:12AM
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Rusticles
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dont read cosmo, watch porn..... together
Oct 15 2013 11:13AM
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.AR6rider.
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"I don't trust him."
"He told me she was better at sex."

Are you stupid? This relationship was over before it ever even began.
Oct 15 2013 11:18AM
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Wallisch_pl
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hahahahaha oh my
Oct 15 2013 11:22AM
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Vino
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After reading this and the fact that you dont trust him, you should

1. Offer him something new
2. Getting him laid
3. Pee in his butt
4. ???
5. Profit

But seriously are old are you, 14 ? 16 ? What you're telling us is kind of a joke, aaaaaaand you should join Ladies men cult if you want to get some serious answers...
Oct 15 2013 11:24AM
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snwbrdmilf
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And you still want to be with him? Girl....seriously?
Oct 15 2013 11:24AM
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Rusticles
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In all seriousness,

Is there anything wrong with her? just because she was dynamite in the sack doesn't mean she's a good girlfriend.  If they only split up becasue she went back to Australia you may as well pack it in now especially if you don't trust him.

Oct 15 2013 11:28AM
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Wallisch_pl
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sassy!
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Oct 15 2013 11:29AM
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theBearJew
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OP probably wants to change him.


But seriously, run away, dude is only going to cheat on you and hurt you if you stick around. He sounds like he really wants to be with this girl and not you, now that shes back he probably will be. You also don't sound like you are out of HS so you have a lot more to go before it all matters.
Oct 15 2013 11:31AM
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limedakine
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More was just hopeful. Also for the record I'm 20. So is he and she's turning 18. He's told me now that I'm the best and he doesn't want her, but...
Oct 15 2013 11:36AM
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snwbrdmilf
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lol

...seriously.
Oct 15 2013 11:37AM
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limedakine
Posts: 48 - Karma: 298
yea. I know.
Oct 15 2013 11:39AM
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howlongcanausern
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Oct 15 2013 11:39AM
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proZach
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3some.
Oct 15 2013 11:41AM
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snwbrdmilf
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As long as you know, don't let dudes dick you around. You're better than that. It sounds like you're more serious about him than he is of you. Think about it, weigh the options, figure out if he's worth your patience...and trust.
Oct 15 2013 11:42AM
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limedakine
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At this point there IS a part of me that wants to go, simply to punch her in the face haha. Then punch him.
Oct 15 2013 11:46AM
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theBearJew
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I know you're only 20, but do you see a future beyond college with this guy? If not then it's not worth the trouble. I wasted a lot of time in some long term relationships in college just cause it was comfortable.
Oct 15 2013 11:49AM
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snwbrdmilf
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She didn't do anything to you except be a person in this world that a guy you like happens to be attracted to. That's low, immature, and lame. Don't go out like that.
Oct 15 2013 11:50AM
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limedakine
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That's the thing,I really think I could if either I could get the fuck over the situation, or he figures out that yes, I am upset. No I don't think that this is good. etc.
Oct 15 2013 11:54AM
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limedakine
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Oh yea I know. I wouldn't ever. But I'm pissed right now so the desire to is there haha.
Oct 15 2013 11:55AM
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JAHpow
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Bingo
Oct 15 2013 11:57AM
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theBearJew
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idk. I always seemed to be the therapist for girls in college who were dating the douchebags, I heard all the stories and one thing that always held true was that your intuition, that gut feeling, was always right about the person. You just kept telling yourself otherwise to believe something different to be as you said, hopeful.

I think he's gonna hurt you in the long run even if he decides to stay away from the girl who is currently the issue.
Oct 15 2013 11:57AM
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maximiliaan
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almost 18? you know what is going to happen at 00:01 at her birthday do you?
but forreal if you dont trust him, and he says that shit, have a good talk with him and say everything that is bothering you
Oct 15 2013 11:58AM
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Charlie_Kelly
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lol @ this thread
Oct 15 2013 12:09PM
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Vino
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...

20, a pinkname, a skier chick, unless you're a solid 7 get over him. And don't forget to pee in his butt, he'll understand.. he's only 18...

That dude is winning, getting both 18 and 20 at the same time!
Oct 15 2013 12:26PM
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TOAST.
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Punch him not her. I never understood why girls try to take their anger out on the other girl instead of the guy. It was him that had obligations to you, not her. Assuming something would happen.
Oct 15 2013 12:35PM
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Pmoore
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how was the friend zone all of college?
Oct 15 2013 12:35PM
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goodnoooo
Posts: 555 - Karma: 2,075
this is a tricky situation. the fact that you are having doubts about it is a huge reason why you should just get out of the situation. it sounds like it could get really messy. it sucks really bad since you like him, but a couple months from now, you'll be glad that you got out.
Oct 15 2013 12:38PM
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Laurent.
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Somniloquy means jack shit, very little is known about the content of the sleep talking: some makes no sense at all and some of it may relate to past events, experiences, and relationships that no longer have current relevance or emotional impact.

Modern sleep science and the law have accepted that sleep talking is not a product of a conscious or rational mind and is therefore inadmissible in court. He might just be excited to see someone and since you are a girl you are making a big issue about this.
Oct 15 2013 12:41PM
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.Hugo.
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Don't sit there and wait for him to figure it out, FUCKING TELL HIM.
Oct 15 2013 12:44PM
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limedakine
Posts: 48 - Karma: 298
See that! That right there is the whole fucking point I started this thread lol.
Am I being a paranoid crazy bitch?
Or do I have a good reason to be a paranoid crazy bitch?
Oct 15 2013 12:45PM
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LiquorLanch
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Put your fingers in his butt
Oct 15 2013 12:50PM
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theBearJew
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It was just fine. I dated in the circles of the girls I was friends with. I had no problem breaking out of the friend zone with their friends.
Oct 15 2013 1:10PM
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PacificRimJob
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Chill out.

Basically, this dude kinda likes this other chick and you have a good reason to be questioning the situation.

Hands down, ask yourself seriously if this whole thing is worth it, and if you can trust him to begin with. Honestly, he sounds slightly skeezy if he's willing to just tell you straight up that some 17 year old (at the time) was the best sex he's had. Ultimately, this sounds like a one way road to relationshit and you need to get back on the highway of better situations.
Oct 15 2013 1:15PM
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SKIINGISEASY
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Oct 15 2013 1:48PM
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Finkle
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I think we need pics of all 3 of you to decide how this is going down.
Oct 15 2013 1:49PM
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deleted5
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Yeah this is real.
Oct 15 2013 1:54PM
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TheDers
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if you dont trust him then why are you dating him?
Oct 15 2013 2:12PM
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Wallisch_pl
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OP your username is pissing me off, make it shorter
Oct 15 2013 3:31PM
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limedakine
Posts: 48 - Karma: 298
Your unoriginal username is pissing me off, make it better
Oct 15 2013 4:04PM
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limedakine
Posts: 48 - Karma: 298
I ski. She doesn't. Problem solved.
Oct 15 2013 4:05PM
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pat_in_the_hat
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you live in Bozo? there is so much good looking dick floating around there. Just break up with him and enjoy being single.
Oct 15 2013 4:09PM
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