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well I guess since everyone is throwing there 2 cents in I will as well.
I don't know what you are going through at all, but being 16 you don't really know what you will go through living on your own. First this 22 year old friend, I am guessing he is a family friend or is he some dude you know from your hometown? Did he finish highschool? What is the job he has and has he been able to keep jobs? Why I ask, is because he is going to support you he needs money for rent, food, lift tickets (which should be the last thing on your list), spending money, gas for a car, and utilities. If you are planning on getting a job then you need to at least make enough to pay half those things above.
Second- you asked if there is schools out there, I know the legal age for dropping out of school is 16 but I don't think you are considered an adult till your 18. And your friend is not a legally guardian. So, before you think it is as easy as just going to a highschool out there find you what you need to do to get into one. I am going to bet they wont just have a 16 year old sign up for highschool, without a parent present and a reson why you are living with a 22 year old.
Third- do you have enough money saved to move out there. Travel cost are huge, you need food, gas, extra in case the car or truck shits the bed on the way out.
Fourth- I am not for sure of your family situation, from your post it sounds shitty. Really try to think why is it shitty, are you being abused, is it because you rents don't give a fuck about you, is it because they won't let you do what you want. If you go with out there premission next thing that is going to happen is they are going to call the cops and you are going to be found the next state over and shipped back home. You 22 year old buddy may get hit with charges. If i is shitty because you are being abused then go to cops or something like that. Don't stand for that.
Lastly- everyone dreams of being a ski bum ski every day work at night... this doesn't work for a 16 year old kid. You have a limit amount of places you can work. Plus you won't have enough time to ski, work and go to school. If you work part time 20 hours a week and go to school for 30 hours a week when do you think you are going to school. Not after school, weekends are going to be shot because you are working. Remember, you are going to have to make enough money to support half of you. Also, what happens when your 22 year old friend says i can' support you anymore. I know right now you don't think that is going to happen but it will it always does.
I am not telling you what to do but the real world is much different then highschool and living with a family. But in the end of it all you are going to do what you want to do. Good luck!