Wait what?
Who is trying to bang you on a chair lift? Not sure what you are talking about but the moves guys makes are:
1. Hit on you skiing, and ask for a date/grab a drink
2. Take you on that date/drink, and then try and bang you.
Dont know any guys that would go from meeting a girl on then lift to trying to banging her in the woods.
And what is this being a gentleman thing you are talking about? Do you know that a gentleman is? A guy who has respect for a girl isn't going to try and bang her on the first day he met her.
This whole comment you made is sexist. Buy a girl some food = getting in her pants? Is that how you work? "I want equal rights, guys are pigs, blah, blah blah" but you would never buy a guy a drink or food you would wait for them to do it.
Susan B. Anthony is rolling in her grave over the girls of this era.