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Steve-Brown
Posts: 1894 - Karma: 810
Since i was adopted at the young age of 1 year and 8 months, there has always been strife between my mother and i. It got pretty serious when i turned 5. She started to put me down all the time and what not and never treated my like her other kids. moving onto age 16, my parents got a divorce last summer, and my mom blamed it all on me. she told me repeatedly that if i wasn't here her marriage would've been saved..she also always has threatened to send me back to russia...and i'm not too bad of a kid...my dad knows it...after they got a divorce and moved out, my mom kicked me out of her house. on october 3 2012. i went over for 15min on christmas eve, and i was there 25 min yesterday. she told me off again yesterday when i was trying to rekindle our relationship. I haven't talked to my mom for years, like really talked to her..and it messes with me...but yesterday she started to call me out on everything i've done wrong and told me she just still doesn't want me to live with her.
so i called her the fuck out.
i told her that she should have unconditional love for her child that she claims to love so much. and there should be no reason why she should ever leave. i told her she was a shitty mom who was never there for me when i needed her and went back to my dads.
i'm never going back again.


i'm not hurt at all..i'm numb..i'm kinda used to the shit. should i feel bad...? i honestly don't know..maybe it's just too soon....

inb4
pussy
you're a douche
momma hater


May 14 2013 11:19PM
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Blindsurfer
Posts: 2252 - Karma: 2,792
you dont deserve that shit. break all her windows and slash her tires.
May 14 2013 11:21PM
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El_Barto.
Posts: 11661 - Karma: 24,347
Sounds like you should feel relief.
May 14 2013 11:21PM
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Steve-Brown
Posts: 1894 - Karma: 810
some of my good buddies wanna egg her house n shit this summer...lol
May 14 2013 11:23PM
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gotti
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she sounds like a fucking bitch who needs to take responsibility.
May 14 2013 11:24PM
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*ninja*
Posts: 2108 - Karma: 1,143
my situation except with my dad. yours is worse tho i wasnt adopted
May 14 2013 11:24PM
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_Garagely_
Posts: 1948 - Karma: 3,248
I feel like you did the right thing. That woman is a bitch, not your mom.
May 14 2013 11:24PM
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danderson.
Posts: 6560 - Karma: 5,252
Feel bad? Definitely not. You tried to be kind about the situation when she clearly wasn't. People need to be called out sometimes just to show them they're being a shitty human being. If it works, fantastic. If not, don't sweat it. She sounds like a terrible person and you don't deserve that in your life.
May 14 2013 11:29PM
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whoa-dere
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wait arent you black? and you're from russia?
May 14 2013 11:29PM
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Steve-Brown
Posts: 1894 - Karma: 810
was born in russia
my birth mom gave like zero info...she was apparently from poland..but she lied about her name and her address
then she told the hospital my dad was from ethiopia...but who fucking knows..she lied about everything
May 14 2013 11:32PM
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El_Barto.
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I bet you can run for days
May 14 2013 11:35PM
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Stickity
Posts: 7750 - Karma: 769
tell her the real reason her marriage failed is that she's a cuntnugget
May 14 2013 11:37PM
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-emile-
Posts: 6613 - Karma: 8,592
I don't like the unspoken rule that you need to love your family because they are family , if they treat you like shit , you are in the right to not give a fuck about them. You're "mother" sounds like the kind of person that will be mean with you until she is dining , then she'll want to make things good.
May 14 2013 11:38PM
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Flacko
Posts: 1495 - Karma: 788
same story for my dad, his parents died and he was adopted at 2, mom never loved him as much as real kids, dad died when he was 11, mom blamed it on him... he left when he was 15. found his real family cousins back in Denmark, moved in with them, went to dental school and is now a dentist, he moved back to America and got married. I don't know what to say for your situation, I have had great parents. I guess it shouldn't bother you. If you get to the depth of it there are plenty of bad people and even if there your parents you shouldnt let it bother you, just be a good person yourself.
May 14 2013 11:52PM
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Masta_Baka
Posts: 649 - Karma: 162
IMO im sure there is more to the story but as far as i can see you shouldnt feel bad at all. Your mom clearly has problems and needed someone as a scapegoat, its something we all do. Your mom on the other hand has taken it to a new level and it seems to be fucked up for both of you. You are old enough to to say fuck it and just take the high road. Although that seems very difficult and i cant imagine what it would be like to have a mom and know that she is a bitch but thats not something you can put on yourself. She has issues and she has taken them out on you so i think you should just say the fuck with her and live the best life you can without her... Prove to her that the son she claims ruined her life can still live a fantastic life and be successful without the love and support from a mother. I hope this helps a lil.
May 15 2013 12:00AM
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daannnnieel
Posts: 5163 - Karma: 4,293
you should feel relieved that that bitch is out of your life. It seems by the way she treated you that you deserved FAR better. Numb is better than pain, and you're a champ for calling her the fuck out.


Keep your head up, some things just don't work out, that was one of those things. All you can do now is live a sucessful life, be happy and prove to her that you aren't a failure.


And send her a christmas card every year, for the lulz.
May 15 2013 12:01AM
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Steve-Brown
Posts: 1894 - Karma: 810
that's what my dad said to do
May 15 2013 12:07AM
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no_steeze
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if you're telling the story straight then it sounds like this woman is a total cunt and has some serious problems of her own, probably exhibited by the fact that she drove your dad away

you have every right to put her in her place if she's being that big of a bitch to you
May 15 2013 12:08AM
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Flacko
Posts: 1495 - Karma: 788
ya, my dad said it motivated him. I would just move her completely out of your life, let her realize her mistake, and if she is that much of a bitch then hopefully karma will do its work.
May 15 2013 12:14AM
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