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Parents who refuse to physically discipline their kids

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Dingo69
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Are the cause of this extremely spoiled generation. I was on a 4 hr plane trip and in the seat behind me was this 2 yo girl and she kicked my seat as hard as she coild like "literally" 100 times (100) during the course of the flight. Whenever she kicked it really hard the parents ditting next to her just scolded her verbally, like trying to reason with a retarded fucking 2 yo saying shit like "stop it, there is a man in the seat in front of you and you need to stop kicking now..."
Did she stop? Fuck no... Im just sick of parents who are like this , thinking their kid is so precious that they cant give them a little slap to make them stop kicking the fuckimg seat. Like what do these parents think? Like " oh sorry about our daughter but hehe what can you do? Hehe". As if their daughter is just to be accepted by people as a public inconvenience that everybody just has to sack up and deal with as if its their problem and not the parents problem to fix. I wanted to slap the parents for not intervening... I mean how hard is it to get a kid to stop kicking the fucking seats? In addition this kid would scream randomly as loud as it could every invmce in a while. Like a blood curdling scream.
I guess this is just the way america is, with everubody afraid of lawyers amd child abise charges or something. Really makes us look like a pathetic country when youve got kids like this girl, spoiled beyond sll fucking recognition, thinking they can do whatever they want because the only scolding they get is the parents speaking in a harsh tone. These parents are so fucking stupid they dont realize words mean nothing if they dont carry the promise of force. Fuck sll soft parents like these. You suck
Apr 26 2013 11:42PM
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ilikefood
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So a two year girl deserves to be physically abused because she was kicking your chair?
Makes sense to me.
Apr 26 2013 11:44PM
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Dingo69
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Yoi comsider slapping a kid to get it to stop kicking a seat is physicsl abuse? Ppl like you are ehats wrong with the country you fuckimg loser
Apr 26 2013 11:49PM
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Lateralis
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verbal discipline does fuck all!
Apr 26 2013 11:50PM
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ilikefood
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If you can't think of a better way than physical discipline to stop a little girl from kicking a seat, then you have clearly lost all self control, and that girl has made a fool of you.

And why do you assume I'm from your country? Not every person on the internet who speaks english is from the US lol.
Apr 26 2013 11:59PM
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-benedetto
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Apr 27 2013 12:07AM
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Dingo69
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Youre a fucking tool wherever youre from but i would guess that its the us. Because in europe parents magically have the ability to stop their kid from kicking a seat. Its like magic. I dont know how they do it. Its amazing. Maybe they do it through what you call "physical abuse" which isnt physical abuse at all. Its just called getting your kid ti stop doing something. I guess you would be happy letting all those 2 year olds running around s pilling peoples drinks. If you ever have a kid that wont stop kicking my seat im going to slap him for you
Apr 27 2013 12:09AM
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Dingo69
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Awe. Do you love your mommy and daddy more because they neved slapped you for misbehaving, while you proceeded to bug the fuck out of everybody as a spoiled brat child? Thats cute
Apr 27 2013 12:11AM
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edai
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It all comes down to spanking. My dad used to beat my ass and i behave good as fuck
Apr 27 2013 12:12AM
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CrotchKiller
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if you have to hit your kids just to get them to listen to you, then you're a shitty parent anyways.
Apr 27 2013 12:14AM
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DirkaDirka
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This and I agree with you OP. Those types of situations and parents like that make me hate people.
Apr 27 2013 12:15AM
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ilikefood
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First, my icon says B.C. on it, which is a province in Canada.

Second, you use the term European parents in a very broad sense. Are you sure all European kids are very well behaved thanks to them being physically disciplined? Not to mention that the implication that all European kids are physically disciplined.

I know they say don't feed the trolls, but I just can't help my self.
Apr 27 2013 12:16AM
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ilikefood
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First, my icon says B.C. on it, which is a province in Canada.

Second, you use the term European parents in a very broad sense. Are you sure all European kids are very well behaved thanks to them being physically disciplined? Not to mention that the implication that all European kids are physically disciplined.

I know they say don't feed the trolls, but I just can't help my self.
Apr 27 2013 12:16AM
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ilikefood
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First, my icon says B.C. on it, which is a province in Canada.

Second, you use the term European parents in a very broad sense. Are you sure all European kids are very well behaved thanks to them being physically disciplined? Not to mention that the implication that all European kids are physically disciplined.

I know they say don't feed the trolls, but I just can't help my self.
Apr 27 2013 12:16AM
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Dingo69
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Well then these parents were shitty parents, because they failed to get their kid to stop stompung on the seat without physical action
Apr 27 2013 12:18AM
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ilikefood
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Fuck triple post.....
Apr 27 2013 12:19AM
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Dingo69
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Dude canada and the us are similar enough. And i know for a fact that european values regarding physical correction of youths is wat different than the "omg thats child abuse!" Mentality in north america
Apr 27 2013 12:22AM
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DirkaDirka
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Did you say anything to the parents? You should've stood up and asked them if they have any control whatsoever over their child.
Apr 27 2013 12:22AM
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Lateralis
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if a kid acts the fuck up. you should be able to teach it a lesson. smack it upside the head or smash a ruler on their fingers.
Apr 27 2013 12:25AM
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saxon
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so much generalization in this thread it hurts to read. you can be a firm, "disciplining" parent without using anything physical at all. Yeah, she should have stopped kicking your seat. No, slapping her is not the way to achieve that, in my mind. SO many other ways.

to go even further, how do you know she didn't have some sort of mental illness, which caused her random screaming etc? You have no idea. In the face of some of those, slapping a 2 year old seems even more absurd.
Apr 27 2013 12:26AM
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saxon
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so much generalization in this thread it hurts to read. you can be a firm, "disciplining" parent without using anything physical at all. Yeah, she should have stopped kicking your seat. No, slapping her is not the way to achieve that, in my mind. SO many other ways.

to go even further, how do you know she didn't have some sort of mental illness, which caused her random screaming etc? You have no idea. In the face of some of those, slapping a 2 year old seems even more absurd.
Apr 27 2013 12:26AM
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Dingo69
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I was polite and just laughed with them about it, buf i felt kind of bad for them not having a clue how mych their kid was making them look like douchebags for havinf such a spoiled brat for a kid
Apr 27 2013 12:27AM
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Lateralis
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slapping a mentally challenged 2 year old would be exhilerating.
Apr 27 2013 12:28AM
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CrotchKiller
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that's exactly what I said....
Apr 27 2013 12:28AM
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WaffleMaster
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Don't worry dude +++K I gotchu.

It definitely isn't "abuse", if that's what you guys think. I got it as a kid and it's made me a much better person, my parents were "lighter" on my lil bro, and he's still a brat.
Apr 27 2013 12:29AM
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TACO-DOG.exe
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oh trust me, it is.
Apr 27 2013 12:31AM
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GayWolf420
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Parents are most certainly soft now-a-days. I don't condone abuse but some parents really need to slap the shit out of their kid once. And parents that refuse to admit their kid was in the wrong about something irks me the most. Happens all the time at work.
Apr 27 2013 12:37AM
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Barefootin_Fiend
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i'm with Dingo...fucking hate out of control children and the parents who do nothing about it.
Apr 27 2013 12:38AM
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SkiThe603
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just a quick logistics question, is a 2 yr old girl tall enough to actually kick a seat and maki it powerful?
Apr 27 2013 12:39AM
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Bogs
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My parents never hit me and I also turned out fine.

And, op, it's a fucking two year old, you twat. Do you read or think about the stupid shit you write before you post it?
Apr 27 2013 12:40AM
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JeremyClarkson
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HAHA OP your sound like the whiny little 2 year old bitch. You get to fly across the country at 600 mph and your biggest concern is a fucking 2 year old kicking the back of your chair. What reason do you have for being on an airplane anyway? Was it an important buissness meeting? or did Mommy and Daddy fly your silver-spoon ass back home from college?

Apr 27 2013 12:41AM
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JAHpow
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Yeah, I was spanked as a kid, I turned out fine and was/am a lot more respectful and curtious to others than compared to others that I know who were raised differently. I support the use of physical dicipline but obviously there's a limit. A couple swats on the butt with the parents explaining why they spanked their child is fine but beating the shit out of a kid is just wrong.
Apr 27 2013 12:56AM
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Pikachu.
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times are a changin. Parents need to realize that they need to keep control over their children all the time. My guess is that these parents were bad parents and allowed their kid to do whatever they want when they are at home and noone is watching. Then they expect the kid to listen when in a public place. If you always discipline your kid the same then they will get it eventually what is okay and what is not. It does not take hitting a kid, although spanking could be used and I wouldn't see that as bad.
Apr 27 2013 12:58AM
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Dingo69
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It is within the lines of what you said, so shut up
Apr 27 2013 1:10AM
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turducken
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Waterboarding kids has always worked for me.....
Apr 27 2013 1:12AM
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Bodhisattva_
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My dad has never physically disciplined me and I never disobeyed him directly. Especially as a young child.

OP got beat and it worked so everyone should get beat.
Sound logic.

You realize there are literally thousands of parentin techniques that work a hundred times better than smacking your kid because you're an idiot and don't know how to parent?
Apr 27 2013 1:16AM
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Bodhisattva_
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Nevermind judging by OP's attitude his dad didn't punch him hard enough.
Apr 27 2013 1:17AM
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Beaansss
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Little kids piss off everyone no matter who you are. If the parents did something to him he would just scream probably. Happened to me on a plane ride.
Apr 27 2013 1:18AM
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Dingo69
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You jelly, you poor ass bitch?
Apr 27 2013 1:19AM
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fujarome
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not one living being is jealous of you.


If I was your father, I would have drowned you in the afterbirth.
Apr 27 2013 1:20AM
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Bodhisattva_
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On another note one time this kid who was like 13 was flying back to Seattle from Vegas by himself and he had this obnoxious toy slot machine that would make the ka Ching sound every time you pulled it and he was nervous about flying so he fucking pulled it over and over again for the entire flight. Never wanted to throw someone out the window without a parachute more in my life. If he wa in the exit row I probably would have thrown him out.

OP should I have just started whacking him?
Apr 27 2013 1:22AM
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mowglii
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saw this earlier today and felt its relevant. sometimes spanking and shit is appropriate for sure especially for older kids. but I dunno about at that young of age lol.  

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Apr 27 2013 1:25AM
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Dingo69
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There may be thousands of ways to disciplin your kids but these parents were trying every verbal one in the book and none of them worked. Also depends on the kid too. Some kids are inherently well behaved such that any physicsl disciplin would be unnecessary and could be considered abuse. On the other hand, the kids on jerry springer and talk shows genuinely need to get the shit kicked out of them and i wouldnt even consider that excessive
Apr 27 2013 1:25AM
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Bodhisattva_
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You're looking at the issue all wrong. You're considering it an isolated incident where they "tried every verbal one in the book." It isn't just a magic fucking phrase that makes kids stop. Parenting is constant and to mold children in to correct behavior it requires constant use of certain techniques and parenting skills and finding what works for your child and if done correctly do not need I involve physical punishment of any kind.
Apr 27 2013 1:30AM
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ski.cats
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physical discipline just seems ignorant and irrational.  when inflicting pain is your only resort to deal with your child's behavior, youre not impressing anyone.
Apr 27 2013 1:31AM
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Bachto
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My dad only had had to spank me a couple times then after that just threatening spanking set me straight. I think that spanking is fine for the right situations and their is a difference between spanking and abuse. and i also agree that some kids are inherently more behaved then others. Like my little cousin whose like 8 never gets hit and the kid bounces off the walls all the time, he needs to be spanked. but at the same time his older sister never had that issue and is very well behaved. You honestly have to parent every kid a little differently
Apr 27 2013 3:18AM
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TijmenDal
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Physical abuse? Right.
Apr 27 2013 7:15AM
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.Rybak.
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You're a social inconvenience to us all. You should be beaten and then go to grammar school.
Apr 27 2013 7:28AM
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Lemuel
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This this this. America needs to go back to the good olds days. The current generation of kids is fucked. I feel like it's up to us (gen y) to bring back the decency. I was spanked as a kid, and I'm gonna spank my kids if they misbehave. It's not abuse, it's discipline. Kids are such little shits now that can't do anything on their own (for the most part). I started walking home from school alone in 4th grade, I knew how to look both ways before crossing the street. Parents are so scared of everything now /rant haha
Apr 27 2013 7:53AM
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Bogs
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I love when the 13 and 14 year olds on NS say this as if they somehow aren't a part of that current generation of kids. Shit gets me every time.
Apr 27 2013 8:12AM
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Stose
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My mom and dad never physically punished me and It worked a lot better
Apr 27 2013 11:10AM
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