Replying to Need help with stretched ear

for those of you with stretched ears, i have a 10g in my right ear (6g in left) and have been at that size for over a year, i waited 2 months after getting pierced at a 10g with hoops to size to 8g plugs, the left one has been fine and had no trouble with it, but the right one is swollen, slightly deformed (probably due to swelling), red, and if i take the plug out the hole will swell completely shut in under 10 minutes, i have since sized down to 10g and that did nothing, every piercer I've talked to has no idea what is wrong with it because I've had it for so long, any suggestions on how i can get this stupid thing to stop being fucked up without taking it out