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Booty Call? Good/Bad/Otherwise

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Bart.Man
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I posted this in Ladies Men, but I'm inpatient

So there's this girl around campus. We've talked and chilled a couple times and I'm ALMOST certain she would be down for a friends with benefits/booty call situation.

So my question is, who here has had a situation like this and is it a good idea? I'm not looking for a girlfriend, just a fuck buddy. How has this worked out for others in the past? I also realize that it probably depends on the girl, but she doesn't seem (I can't be positive though) like the type to get it all twisted up with girlfriend shit.

Any tips/pointers? Thanks and +k to all advice.
Feb 27 2013 2:16PM
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Blurst
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How big is your campus? and how involved in your circle of friends is she?
Feb 27 2013 2:17PM
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Bart.Man
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Campus size is around 4,000, so kinda small.

And as for involvement, none. She doesn't even know any of my friends as far as I know. She's also not in any of my classes
Feb 27 2013 2:22PM
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Blurst
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Go for it for sure. As long as you wont be running into her all the time is shit doesnt work out after hooking up then you are good. Hell even if you arent socially retarted and shit doesnt work out its still fine.
Feb 27 2013 2:24PM
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most_mint
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Dude you should be fine. I wouldnt even classify this as a booty call, which i think of as even less involved than friends with benefits. I would call a booty call that girl that you send a text to at 12am when drunk and looking for a tuna, but never really talk to sober/at reasonable times.

That being said, this sounds like a perfectly fine situation, since if it doesnt work out you arnt living across the hall form her or anything. Shouldnt be weird, just friends with benefits. Good luck!
Feb 27 2013 2:35PM
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Bart.Man
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Rockin. Hopefully it works out as planned

Feb 27 2013 2:38PM
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Casey
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You gotta buy bang her first. Then your actions post fuck will determine your status. So make sure and bounce after, she will get the point and either hate you or be cool.
Feb 27 2013 2:40PM
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Barefootin_Fiend
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in my experience, most girls end up getting twisted up in the whole friends with benefits situation. they start to develop feelings and even though the status was perfectly clear from the beginning, they start to want more. for some reason women don't seem to like being used solely for sex. i don't quite understand this as I'm perfectly ok with being used for sex, but w/e.
Feb 27 2013 2:52PM
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theblackrod
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definitely go for it then
Feb 27 2013 2:54PM
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yuck
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this this this

every single FWB situation i have witnessed / been told about / been a part of has led to this. sometimes it ends really quite badly.

by all means try it, but keep this in your head and if you see ANY warning signs that she might be getting like this, ABORTABORTABORTABORT the sooner the better.
Feb 27 2013 3:00PM
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[hamnuts]
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Don't take this the wrong way but I feel like the answers you'll get in ladies men will be more legit than NSG. Good luck doe :)


Feb 27 2013 3:03PM
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maxgilly
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so this one time:

i called this girl, was like "hey"
she was like, "hey"

i was like, "you wanna bang"

she was like "ok"

from now on, she meh booty call.
Feb 27 2013 3:08PM
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pmw
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no you shouldnt do it. im sure lotion saturated life is much better then actual pussy
Feb 27 2013 3:19PM
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Kratotalaga
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its proven that if you give a girl a orgasm that she will get emotionally attached to you. Some chemical in her brain goes off once you get her off. You can thank years of evolution. So with that in mind try to do it quick so you don't give her one
Feb 27 2013 3:23PM
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_TK_
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Go for it but dont be surprised to hear shes tossin other dudes too
Feb 27 2013 4:04PM
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Leafs2323
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pics of said chick is necessary
Feb 27 2013 4:22PM
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yourthemannowdog
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Who is this girl? Just on the off chance that I know her (we both go to the same school).
Feb 27 2013 4:26PM
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Kooky_Lukey
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Cant believe no one has said this before you did
Feb 27 2013 5:58PM
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whoa-dere
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PICS PICS PICS PICS PICS
Feb 27 2013 6:02PM
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Bart.Man
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I'd rather not say, on the off chance you know her haha, but her name starts with a Rachel

And at _TK_, I really don't give a shit if she is with other guys, that's her business, just so long as she don't be bringin back that gonorrhea.

And pictures, I can try, but I don't really know how I'd get that without seeming weird, which isn't conducive to sex.
Feb 27 2013 6:08PM
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whoa-dere
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she won't find out. why would she browse through the non ski related section of a ski site?
Feb 27 2013 6:09PM
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Bart.Man
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It's not that she'd see them , it's just the idea of getting them. Just be like, "Picture time!"? I dunno...
Feb 27 2013 6:12PM
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prometheusprime
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FWB is a bootycall for a man and an attempt at getting into a relationship for a woman. Fuck her until she tries to get into a relationship then abort. That's always how it's worked out for me at least.
Feb 27 2013 6:13PM
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yourthemannowdog
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If she lives in escalante, good luck.
Feb 27 2013 6:13PM
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Bart.Man
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Na she's onea dem Animas hos
Feb 27 2013 6:20PM
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yourthemannowdog
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All the more reason to get friendly with her.
Feb 27 2013 6:31PM
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Broseph_Stalin
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i would just try why not
Feb 27 2013 6:35PM
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deleted5
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their awesome my longest one that's ever lasted is about 3 months so don't expect it to last.
Feb 27 2013 6:46PM
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Kooky_Lukey
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Facebook? or does she not have one..
Feb 27 2013 11:42PM
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Steve-Brown
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inb4

ur friends tell her about this thread
Feb 27 2013 11:46PM
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theTRIBE101
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extremely relevant
Feb 27 2013 11:48PM
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Bart.Man
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Haha that would be fucked. Good thing Moegain doesn't know her, and I don't know who Moegain is, and he doesn't know who I am
Feb 28 2013 5:49AM
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Mr.LemonPie
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Before you decide to make her a booty call you have to get her in bed...
Feb 28 2013 6:06AM
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jaredmdub
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I fucked up.
Mar 1 2013 4:45AM
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deleted5
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This is a very complicated topic, But the answer is sort of your talking about oxytocin.
Mar 1 2013 5:03AM
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