tldr: Absorb back and left/right while pressing into tails. (that was the key - getting the force to flex the tail of ski)
I was going really fast once and realized there was a jump only a couple of meters away on the flat. Couldn't do anything to stop. Took it normally. Thing went into slo-mo. I had this thought midair to absorb sideways into the tails upon landing. So I landed normally, but then leaned back and sideways to let my body keep falling sideways and then back into the ground (but not going limp - keeping the pressure on my feet and applying pressure to the rear of the ski the whole time during impact.) I ended up using my arms to breakfall to my left. Skis stayed relatively straight but pressed rearward to the left . Bounced back up. Skied off no probs, very slight bruise to foerarm later on, knees were pressured upward but nothing unnatural, hurt for a little while after. Wouldn't want to do it bigger.