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Pickles.
Posts: 63 - Karma: 61
So im a soph in highschool, and I've never had a gf. Theres this girl I like right now and I kinda wanna ask her out, but 2-3 years after I graduate im moving outta PA and going to colorado (in the winters) and cali (in the summers). I kinda wanna gf but at the same time I don't. It just seems like a waste of time. I think I'd rather start my company, get a stable income and move out before that, relationships just seem like a cluster of bullshit (at least highschool ones, the ones after that seem pretty legit). Thoughts guys?

I would ask for serious answers but this is NS, so yeah.
Jan 28 2013 9:08PM
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HamFaceGirl
Posts: 5242 - Karma: 2,676
Shut the fuck up, stop worrying so much about them so much and you'll have a better time
Jan 29 2013 4:13PM
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neutralzombie
Posts: 8629 - Karma: 606
i make a lot of shit posts around here apparently, but real time advice is that truthfully dating before 21 is a waste of fucking time.
Jan 29 2013 6:51PM
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act.resist
Posts: 8875 - Karma: 513
This is just not true. Dating in high school is practice for the real deal. It gives you confidence with your love life. Kids just take it too seriously and think they're gonna marry each other, well it's doubtful that that will happen but they'll get over it and learn a lesson.
Jan 29 2013 7:00PM
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Pickles.
Posts: 63 - Karma: 61
Made my day. +K

and to everyone else whose answered, Im gonna go for it.
Jan 29 2013 7:29PM
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Lt-Aldo-Raine
Posts: 2309 - Karma: 120
Atta baby Pickles!!
Jan 29 2013 8:46PM
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E-Nix
Posts: 382 - Karma: 187
Why is this even a question? You think you will be dating when you graduate highschool and even if you are, which is nice and all, you will break-up before college.
Jan 29 2013 8:50PM
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CaelW
Posts: 400 - Karma: 108
If you found an attractive girl in PA go for it. They're very hard to find
Jan 29 2013 9:31PM
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roddy116
Posts: 10630 - Karma: 7,456
disagree
Jan 29 2013 9:49PM
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neutralzombie
Posts: 8629 - Karma: 606
i never dated in high school, because it was a stupid contest over who could date who in the popular click. it's useless. actually, that's not true, my first boyfriend was at 14, and he cheated on me. i dated my first real real boyfriend at 19, and it was serious, first love kind of thing, but we were both immature. so maybe date your first person after high school, in college, when sex, and dating is genuinely appropriate. but what do i know about relationships. i've only been in one for 5 years now.
Jan 30 2013 12:03AM
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act.resist
Posts: 8875 - Karma: 513
and ive never been in a relationship and have no clue what im talking about? k

personally for me, dating in high school helped me because I learned a lot about myself and a lot about how to be in a relationship. I learned from my mistakes and had fun while I was at it. I think that it can be beneficial for anyone if they're willing to not make the same mistakes in the future. i.e. getting too attached like most kids.
Jan 30 2013 12:19AM
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BeefiestExpert
Posts: 2804 - Karma: 3,277
I was taught to pick em and flick em. But chucking em is cool too.
Jan 30 2013 2:01AM
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*kF_pauLo-
Posts: 445 - Karma: 305
It's like skiing. The more you practice, the better you are (mostly).
Easier to manage a successful run if you got practice. Same for a successful relationship.
Jan 30 2013 7:53AM
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